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RE: What is your 'Reality' - 7/20/2008 7:25:34 PM

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Funny! Although the fact that you even know about a game called "evercrack" makes one wonder if you might be a little closer to your description than you think! WOW is pretty mainstream by now, at least the knowledge of it; never played it myself, but it was featured on South Park. Evercrack(?) - never heard of it. And "play larps"? Sorry, I guess I'm out of touch with the "living in mom's basement" population.

LARPs = Live Action Role Playing.

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RE: What is your 'Reality' - 7/20/2008 7:37:01 PM

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Well, lets see.... I've put in my 2 cents worth against doing gun play with real guns versus props, although I've never actually killed a sub while playing.
I've opined that getting an STD is to be avoided, even though contracting one is another area in which I have absolutely no experience.
I know I've posted repeatedly that both consensual sex in private and BDSM within certain limits are legal, even though I've never had to go to court to prove either.

I also don't have any experience playing/sleeping with married people behind their spouses backs, dumping someone with just an email, ignoring safewords, or going on either a snipe hunt or a tarn strike.

Sorry to disappoint.

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RE: What is your 'Reality' - 7/20/2008 7:40:59 PM

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Um actually MasterFireMa'am, not to be contrary... but you really are a Grand Poba.... smiles* Less bling, more schwing~ xox

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ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

*scratches head* So, people who have no lifestyle experience haven't clue what they're talking about ALL the time, in all subjects? I could list my credentials...and chances are you know me personally or at least know my rep since I'm from NC, but what does it matter if what I say rings true...or doesn't?

Being a part of the world-wide Master/slave and/or Leather community doesn't automatically make us the grand pobas. Not being a part doesn't mean that we don't get it. Cradentials can be impressice, but in the end, I feel it's how we conduct ourselves, whether or not our words have meaning and our ability to present them in a way people understand that makes or breaks our character.

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RE: What is your 'Reality' - 7/20/2008 7:50:34 PM

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alumbrado...no snipe hunts? geesh, you're really missing out!

my reality is that i'm a mom of two adult kids and i'm trying to adjust to the almost empty nest syndrome. i have a wonderful Master who i'm moving to in 6 months. i can't complain really. i don't give advice on the boards much but i do have fun...i don't pretend or think i know it all and i dont' act like i do. mostly i'm a doofus looking for laughs on the boards and i get them. every once in a while some little wonderful nugget of wisdom comes across a forum that i see and i'm all the better for reading it.

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RE: What is your 'Reality' - 7/20/2008 8:28:07 PM

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ORIGINAL: mzbehavin

Um actually MasterFireMa'am, not to be contrary... but you really are a Grand Poba.... smiles* Less bling, more schwing~ xox

*flattery gets you...*

I just sent this message to someone:
We should make patches of the Grand Pooba Waterbuffalo hat with crossed whips or something under it. "Grand Pooba" across the top and "of my shit" across the bottom. What'dya think?

Should we do it???

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RE: What is your 'Reality' - 7/20/2008 8:29:12 PM

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RE: What is your 'Reality' - 7/20/2008 8:44:28 PM

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RE: What is your 'Reality' - 7/20/2008 8:56:27 PM

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So who's dick is bigger?

Taggard

Mine, is, sweetie, I thought everyone knew that! It's even fluorescent!

Didn't they do a musical about that? "Francine and the many colored cock"?

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WHY is there no emote for "Francine hurting her sinuses snorting with laughter"??? There should be!!

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RE: What is your 'Reality' - 7/21/2008 1:20:29 AM

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I live in Berkshire UK and am 41 years old.
I am a female dominant.
I am head of our household but am not a female supremacist.
I do not undertake the ownership of slaves but instead work on rewarding, intense and meaningful relationships with subs.
I live with my sub paul with whom I have had a bdsm relationship since 2002.
We operate within a 24/7 D/s dynamic so everyday our lives are infused with bdsm.
My working life is also involved with BDSM.
I avoid fetish wear as much as possible as it just isn’t me.
I am degree educated, read a great deal and feel as though I have read almost every bdsm manual ever written.
We have a lot of space in our home and have our own playrooms.
We are socially active on the local bdsm scene and also attend clubs and fetish fairs.
I am very good at CP, anal, CBT, nipple play and electrics but need a lot more help with rope and knots.
We are lucky to have great friends and family.
We are childless by choice but lavish love on our two cats as well as each other.
Bdsm is our lifestyle but our version is relaxed, natural to us both and makes us very happy.

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RE: What is your 'Reality' - 7/21/2008 1:43:56 AM

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I seem to have run out of reality lately.

My reality is that the best way to get what you want is to stop needing it; no one likes someone who's "needy".
My reality is that the best way to be seen as honest is to lie; lies have the advantage that they can be hand-crafted to make sense.
My reality is that there's no such thing as fate, or destiny, or fairness, or second chances.
My reality is that if I knew what the hell I was doing with all this, they would have never left in the first place.
My reality is that if I knew what the hell I was doing with all this, I would have listened to the part of me that said "they're all going to leave".
My reality is that if I knew what the hell I was doing with all this, I would have never had that part of me that doubts in the first place.
My reality is a self-fulfilling prophecy.
My reality is rather lonely right now.

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RE: What is your 'Reality' - 7/21/2008 2:04:57 AM

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Reality for me is that it's 4:42 am in the morning, I'm sitting here smoking a cigerettee and drinking my first cup of coffee, checking out things on this message board.

BDSM is just part of my life and reality. Music is another aspect of my life and reality. So is working on web applications. At times my mind explores the further develop of my own version of String Theory (something I've been doing since high school).   I also explore in thought religion from a reality based and historical based perspective. Something called Occam's Razor, basically where one should not make more assumptions than what is needed to explain something with a theory.

It's amazing that some people practice the art of fancy bullshit for the sake of pumping their own agenda's for wold control. It's sort of like "Pinky and the Brain" gone mad in a bad way, yet many people fall for it everyday.

My reality? I enjoy doing twisted kinky thing to girls. Then there's all the aspects of control. Sure, some people could say, I have control issues, all depends what somebody's POV is on the subject.

The reality is that I'm not getting any younger. I spent a decade of my life trying to be somebody I was not, then came back around full circle, and I'm not the same person I was before.   That's just reality.   I'm the same person, just changed in many ways, and yet in many ways still the same.

I'm a little bit of a misfit and odd ball at times. I don't fit nice and neat into the norms of society. I'm a little bit of this, that and another thing.

Right now, I don't have a "lifestyle" based relationship. I'm single and that's part of my current reality. I have a past like anybody else does.  My past is rather diverse and full.   I thinking a couple of days, about everything I have done or experienced in my life time. That in many ways, I have lived more compared to a lot people I know.

I'm a sexual person, I'm also sadomaso, I have an imagination. I'm Diverse when it comes to many things.

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RE: What is your 'Reality' - 7/21/2008 2:06:39 AM

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ORIGINAL: MsValentine

I live in Berkshire UK and am 41 years old.
I am a female dominant.
I am head of our household but am not a female supremacist.
I do not undertake the ownership of slaves but instead work on rewarding, intense and meaningful relationships with subs.
I live with my sub paul with whom I have had a bdsm relationship since 2002.
We operate within a 24/7 D/s dynamic so everyday our lives are infused with bdsm.
My working life is also involved with BDSM.
I avoid fetish wear as much as possible as it just isn’t me.
I am degree educated, read a great deal and feel as though I have read almost every bdsm manual ever written.
We have a lot of space in our home and have our own playrooms.
We are socially active on the local bdsm scene and also attend clubs and fetish fairs.
I am very good at CP, anal, CBT, nipple play and electrics but need a lot more help with rope and knots.
We are lucky to have great friends and family.
We are childless by choice but lavish love on our two cats as well as each other.
Bdsm is our lifestyle but our version is relaxed, natural to us both and makes us very happy.

MsValentine
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RE: What is your 'Reality' - 7/21/2008 3:36:04 AM

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*fast reply*
I am nearly 50 years old and live in the suburbs of Sydney Australia in a two bedroom unit with Sir.
I am a New Zealander and He is Aussie which makes for some fun and teasing

We have been in a D/s relationship for the past 4 1/2 years.
He is disabled (kidney failure) and so much of my reality is in a caring/nursing role.
We will be going back to home haemodialysis very soon - I am training to insert cannulas (and I had needle play as a hard limit!)
We do not attend munches or play parties - we tried that a couple of times but found it was full of posers

We prefer to keep our D/s between ourselves.
Our summers are spent being involved with speedway and our winters are spent hibernating

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RE: What is your 'Reality' - 7/21/2008 3:45:28 AM

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If people wanted to know, they would read profiles.
Shameless self promotion (which is cool)wrapped up in posting a question so you can advertise yourself doesn't make your reality any more real though.

the.dark.

I am in a relationship= wasn't trying to sell myself- thought it would be iteresting to see who would open up about their lives--

Relationship or not, it is still self promotion. If people believed that what people think of them (ie their reality) was not important then they wouldn't be trying to justify their reality here on a post like this. That is what profiles are for, to try and give over a bit of oneself to give the photograph or name a bit of reality. Nothing wrong in it at all, but each person answering is selling themselves. It's classic PR and all cool, but I just prefere to check out the profiles of people that stand out to me.

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RE: What is your 'Reality' - 7/21/2008 3:56:17 AM

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Oh! CruelDesires! You sound just like my perfect dream date! I'm an over 40 year old cougar but I've had enough plastic surgery that you'll never know it. On cam, you'd swear I was a barely legal teen. I'm independently wealthy. I made all my money by marring 90+ year old tycoons and then torturing them to death via tease and denial so I could inherit all their money. I really need a man just like you to turn the tables on me.

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Oh sorry, had to answer an IM from one of my many admirers...

As I mentioned, I do nothing but sit at my computer all day long and service mouth breathing Mama's boys like you because I'm a sex starved nymphomaniac. I list myself as a Dominant because I bought a leather whip and some handcuffs from the local costume shop and have some real sexy black clothes from Walmart. If you send me all of your money, I'll talk to you also.

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RE: What is your 'Reality' - 7/21/2008 5:58:37 AM

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I am the Queen of my castle.

And the Owner of a fabulous slaveboy.

I'm a lucky girl!

I am the King of my domain.... Good to be the King...

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RE: What is your 'Reality' - 7/21/2008 6:00:08 AM

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Relationship or not, it is still self promotion. If people believed that what people think of them (ie their reality) was not important then they wouldn't be trying to justify their reality here on a post like this. That is what profiles are for, to try and give over a bit of oneself to give the photograph or name a bit of reality. Nothing wrong in it at all, but each person answering is selling themselves. It's classic PR and all cool, but I just prefere to check out the profiles of people that stand out to me.

the.dark.

*shrug* I was just sharing information. Yeah, people could look at my profile, but my profile is designed for people who might be looking to get into a relationship with me, not interact with me casually on the forums. Most importantly, I tend to answer questions I have an answer for that I feel like answering at the time, regardless of anything else, and that applied here.

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RE: What is your 'Reality' - 7/21/2008 6:21:43 AM

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Oh! CruelDesires! You sound just like my perfect dream date! I'm an over 40 year old cougar but I've had enough plastic surgery that you'll never know it. On cam, you'd swear I was a barely legal teen. I'm independently wealthy. I made all my money by marring 90+ year old tycoons and then torturing them to death via tease and denial so I could inherit all their money. I really need a man just like you to turn the tables on me.

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Oh sorry, had to answer an IM from one of my many admirers...

As I mentioned, I do nothing but sit at my computer all day long and service mouth breathing Mama's boys like you because I'm a sex starved nymphomaniac. I list myself as a Dominant because I bought a leather whip and some handcuffs from the local costume shop and have some real sexy black clothes from Walmart. If you send me all of your money, I'll talk to you also.

Hey baby. You and Me can have a wonderful relationship together. As long as you don't bogart too much.

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RE: What is your 'Reality' - 7/21/2008 6:27:46 AM

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As long as you don't bogart too much.

Damn, dude, that other guy was right. You really do know too many words!

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RE: What is your 'Reality' - 7/21/2008 6:45:38 AM

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i am a 24/7 lifestyle slave, i am not live in however i do practice this lifestyle on a daily basis in regards to it being more than just sex, i'm an assistant, i'm a housekeeper at times, i'm whatever the Dominant in my life expects me to be at any given moment (not in a roleplay sense).

i have lived this lifestyle and made this my lifestyle after 7 years of experience, i've seen and felt the ups and downs between myself and multiple partners, have found happiness within myself as a sub and now a slave and i do wear my collar proudly.

There's my reality.

~meticulous~

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