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what makes a "true Dom" - 7/27/2008 7:05:58 PM   
Raziyalale


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Status: offline 		greetings,

  have been reading alot of emails lately and alot of them seem to say maybe your ex was not a "true Dom" am new to this site and only a year in the lifestyle so am wondering what makes a true Dom?

am looking forward to reading peoples thoughts.


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RE: what makes a "true Dom" - 7/27/2008 7:24:26 PM   
faerytattoodgirl


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RE: what makes a "true Dom" - 7/27/2008 7:29:35 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Usually it equates to "dominates me in the way that makes me happiest all the time"

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RE: what makes a "true Dom" - 7/27/2008 7:30:24 PM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		I'd say it's all in the quotation marks.  You can't write "true Dom" if you don't have quotation marks.

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RE: what makes a "true Dom" - 7/27/2008 7:31:34 PM   
Thadius


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Status: offline 		There is a certification process, at the end of which a card is handed out, and only after they have the card in hand they are allowed to get a tattoo that proclaims "True Dom certified on: " .

Then again I haven't gotten my card, so I am not sure.

Good luck in your search,
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RE: what makes a "true Dom" - 7/27/2008 7:33:17 PM   
Leatherist


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Status: offline 		He already has someone who considers him one.

Just forget about those sad losers who don't.

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RE: what makes a "true Dom" - 7/27/2008 7:36:03 PM   
Raziyalale


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Status: offline 		thanks for the answers on this question , guess in time i will figure it out 

again thanks



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RE: what makes a "true Dom" - 7/27/2008 7:37:01 PM   
windchymes


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Status: offline 		Make a list of everything you think would make up a fake dom.  Everything not on it is what makes up a true dom.  Oh wait, sorry..."true dom". 

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RE: what makes a "true Dom" - 7/27/2008 7:37:16 PM   
StrongSpirit


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Status: offline 		A true dom is anyone arrogant and self-centered enough to think that every other assertive person in the world should get off on the exact same thing that gets the 'true dom' off.

I have never once, not ever heard someone call someone else a 'true dom', that did not claim they were themselves a true dom or true sub.   I have never once ever heard anyone say "I am a fake dom".

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RE: what makes a "true Dom" - 7/27/2008 7:41:54 PM   
angelslave77


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Status: offline 		a "true Dom" is the one that has the "weal sub"

Seriously a Dom is true if he makes you happy and you work well together, everybodies idea of D/s is different and quite often if someone disagrees with how you live then you get branded a fake or a freak

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RE: what makes a "true Dom" - 7/27/2008 7:44:35 PM   
RedMagic1


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Status: offline 		I'm a fake dom.

(There ya go, SS, you can check that one off the list.)


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RE: what makes a "true Dom" - 7/27/2008 7:44:42 PM   
celticlord2112


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Raziyalale

greetings,

have been reading alot of emails lately and alot of them seem to say maybe your ex was not a "true Dom" am new to this site and only a year in the lifestyle so am wondering what makes a true Dom?

am looking forward to reading peoples thoughts.


Self-identifying as a Dominant on a site such as CollarMe.

(I selected Dominant for my profile because "hateful red-headed bitch from hell" was not provided as an option)


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RE: what makes a "true Dom" - 7/27/2008 7:46:06 PM   
RedMagic1


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Status: offline 		CelticLord.... does that mean you're a fake dom too?

This could be cool.


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RE: what makes a "true Dom" - 7/27/2008 7:56:04 PM   
faerytattoodgirl


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RE: what makes a "true Dom" - 7/27/2008 7:57:05 PM   
opposingtwilight


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Status: offline 		I'm a fake sub. 100% plastic, baby.

Lets start a club.

To the OP

"True Dom" is a label that really only means anything to those who use it.


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RE: what makes a "true Dom" - 7/27/2008 7:59:14 PM   
celticlord2112


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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

CelticLord.... does that mean you're a fake dom too?

This could be cool.


Probably.

I am a real bastard/asshole/SOB/mean-ass sumbitch/bitch/fill in the blank, or so I am told.

I am really uncool (or at least was according to my boys when they were boys--I have temporary moments of coolness now that they are men)

I am a real slave driver (according to my slave's daughter when it comes time to study and get homework done).

Beyond that, my "realness" is strictly a matter of conjecture.


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RE: what makes a "true Dom" - 7/27/2008 7:59:17 PM   
Kirata


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ORIGINAL: Raziyalale

thanks for the answers on this question , guess in time i will figure it out 

Even if you do, we'll never tell you the secret handshake.
 
K.
 

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RE: what makes a "true Dom" - 7/27/2008 8:39:54 PM   
SimplyMichael


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Raziyalale

greetings,

have been reading alot of emails lately and alot of them seem to say maybe your ex was not a "true Dom" am new to this site and only a year in the lifestyle so am wondering what makes a true Dom?

am looking forward to reading peoples thoughts.



Ignore the silly poseurs and wankers who have so far responded, they know nothing of what makes a dominant really and truly a dominant and not just another person getting their rocks off playing at BDSM.  A true and noble dominant is one who has a penis smaller than his pinky, a pick up truck you need a ladder to get into, and has two HUGE trunks full of toys he takes to parties.  He doesn't' wait to get his way, he yells and screams and demands what is his proper due.

Fake dominants imagine that the mere lowering of their voice can enforce their will, that an arched eyebrow could freeze a woman in her tracks, that a single word, uttered slowly and with menace could make a woman's blood run cold and nether regions rage with fire....nah, them fuckers are just dreamers, look for the big truck and 20 gallon hat!

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RE: what makes a "true Dom" - 7/27/2008 8:42:38 PM   
celticlord2112


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Fake dominants imagine that the mere lowering of their voice can enforce their will, that an arched eyebrow could freeze a woman in her tracks, that a single word, uttered slowly and with menace could make a woman's blood run cold and nether regions rage with fire....nah, them fuckers are just dreamers, look for the big truck and 20 gallon hat!

Don't forget the belt buckles that have their own zip code and the designer ostrich skin goat roper boots.


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RE: what makes a "true Dom" - 7/27/2008 9:26:53 PM   
Mercnbeth


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what makes a "true Dom"
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"True" bull-shit.

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