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mistoferin -> RE: -=Damocles mind fuck=- (8/11/2008 9:37:15 AM)

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

where are the mindfuck stories?



I posted one.



GreedyTop -> RE: -=Damocles mind fuck=- (8/11/2008 9:38:16 AM)

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ORIGINAL: NuevaVida
Hi GT,

Actually he said "new dates", "new girls" and girls who were "fresh to him".  I held off from posting anything about it at first because, like you, I reserved room for the fact they perhaps they had talked at great length first.  But the message conveyed from his words led the readers to believe they didn't know each other well, and this was the reason for testing these girls to see if they were who they said they were.  If they knew each other well, his friend would likely know them well enough to not have to "test their submission", in my opinion.  That's one of the reasons I took issue with it.  But I also mentioned these new girls may have their own "testing" process to filter out doms that may not fit their ideals.  In my case, such a "test" would filter out someone who did this to me, because to do this on a first play date would not establish the trust I would need to build in him. 

The scenario in the OP doesn't seem to be about submission at all; rather about how well the girl plays.  Since it was described as submission, it doesn't work for me.


ok.  having spoken with RS, I will say that in this case he didnt articulate well.

NEW meant that (in my understanding) the girls were new in the respect that his buddy hadn't played with them prior.
RS probably should have used the word FAITH rather than submission.

meh..it's some guy he knows.. not him.. and from an objective POV, assuming that it's NOT just a newbie random piece of ass, it IS a hot scenario..IMO





GreedyTop -> RE: -=Damocles mind fuck=- (8/11/2008 9:39:17 AM)

Erin..yeah.. but most havent..most have been too busy lambasting RS for an anectdotal story.......



NuevaVida -> RE: -=Damocles mind fuck=- (8/11/2008 9:45:01 AM)

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop
ok.  having spoken with RS, I will say that in this case he didnt articulate well.




I'd say supporting his buddy's idea as a really good idea and his follow-up posts criticizing others who didn't, articulated what formed my opinion.  I don't know the man and wish him no ill will, but people do respond to what they agree or disagree with, as I have done.

I explained why I didn't post a story, although it would be interesting to read others.



GreedyTop -> RE: -=Damocles mind fuck=- (8/11/2008 9:45:59 AM)

gotcha.





everhope -> RE: -=Damocles mind fuck=- (8/11/2008 9:52:49 AM)

to know him is to love him....
 
with that in mind, i will wander off and figure out what underwater creature i am....wonders,  if a mythical creature like a mermaid could swim with sharks...i suppose so. especially, if the fantasies that swim around in her head are about being swallowed whole.
(omg...all i can hear in the voice is "i am half a slave...help me help me!) 

may we all find our bliss. 



NeedingMore220 -> RE: -=Damocles mind fuck=- (8/11/2008 9:54:42 AM)

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ORIGINAL: NuevaVida
I'd say supporting his buddy's idea as a really good idea and his follow-up posts criticizing others who didn't, articulated what formed my opinion.  I don't know the man and wish him no ill will, but people do respond to what they agree or disagree with, as I have done.


Ditto as to how my opinion was formed.  I questioned his thought process in supporting the scenario, and disagreed with him. 

As for mind fucks ... I alluded in an earlier post that mine were not prolonged scenes and would probably be most tame and boring to some here (no loaded weaponry! lol).

My experience with mind fucks pretty much surround hints and suggestions and ideas planted in my head that are allowed to ferment until I am either giddy with anticipation of seeing him again or anxious and unsure about seeing him again because something new may be introduced.  I find it challenging and frustrating and just plain fun sometimes to have these little ideas floating around my head, focusing my attention on him and knowing he did it just to tie me into knots.  And I love that it works and makes me need to see him again ....And I love that sometimes I'm my own worst enemy.

Guppy stuff (lol) but very effective within the relationship. 



AquaticSub -> RE: -=Damocles mind fuck=- (8/11/2008 10:02:35 AM)

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

understood. 

but I still stand by the assertion that the point of the op was totally sidetracked:  where are the mindfuck stories?



Greedy you know I love you but I think if the OP hadn't introduced this idea that anyone who doesn't like this kind of mindfuck with a new partner are somehow guppies and not "hardcore", his thread would have stayed on track. As I say: Hijack happens.

As for stories, I mentioned Val's spanking with me a sword. To elaborate: While blindfolded, he will tap my ass lightly with the real thing. Run the edge over my body to let me know that it's real, feel the sharp edge. Once I'm worked up, I love knife/sword play, he will quietly switch to the shealth of the sword and hit much harder. The shealth has the same shape as the blade itself and in my state it's hard to tell the difference.

I think it's fun. [:D]



GreedyTop -> RE: -=Damocles mind fuck=- (8/11/2008 10:06:13 AM)

AS.. *droool* may I borrow him?? *grin*

Needing:
quote:

My experience with mind fucks pretty much surround hints and suggestions and ideas planted in my head that are allowed to ferment until I am either giddy with anticipation of seeing him again or anxious and unsure about seeing him again because something new may be introduced.  I find it challenging and frustrating and just plain fun sometimes to have these little ideas floating around my head, focusing my attention on him and knowing he did it just to tie me into knots.  And I love that it works and makes me need to see him again ....And I love that sometimes I'm my own worst enemy.


but none of us know if this wasnt the case, based on the OP



sinaminn -> RE: -=Damocles mind fuck=- (8/11/2008 10:07:49 AM)

First time posting..so hi everyone..i have a decent mindfuck to share..
When i was one of those awe inspired, jump in headfirst and hope for the best ,newbie types..i met a gentleman locally that was/is a lifer..he and his slave took me in and did their lvl best to mentor me..lol.. not an easy task as i am wayyyy stubborn and had a tendency to get from point A to point B in my own near self destructive way.The man has yet to give up on me and i love him all the more for him being even more hardheaded than i am..lol
Since he curtailed any destructive ,risky behavior and took all the fun out of it, i asked him to play me. i wanted,needed to experience things first hand.
I gave him a long list of everything i was terrified of.. single tails being one of the top 5 (still there)
i think it was our 4 th play session ..after about 2 hrs of what i thought was damned intense play and i was past adding commentary ..i hear the loudest crack i have ever heard, felt the wind on my back.. he came up behind me and whispered in my ear that it was time and for me to prepare myself..i was in tears and sooo freakin scared i couldn't even respond.. i heard him take a few steps back and inhale..i braced and hoped i wouldn't pass out entirely.. the man went to walloping on me with of all things a bunny flogger!.. it took me several seconds to realise i wasn't being shredded and i think i called him a bitch as i sagged against the ropes..his girl removed my blindfold and untied me so i could get my wits back...he was too busy rolling around on the floor laughing to do it himself..argh




IvyMorgan -> RE: -=Damocles mind fuck=- (8/11/2008 10:09:07 AM)

I'll bite on the mindfuck stories theme.

I was blindfold (obviously, don't all good mindfuck stories start like this?) and gagged, and tied down (cliche beginning, but ya'know).  I'm then politely informed that I'm about to take part in a scat scene.  The guy who's tied me up leaves, and someone new enters.  I've no idea who this person is.  They're a little heavier than the first person, definetly male, but, really, no idea at all.  A few moments later and there are hands running over me, as well as warm squidgy stuff.  Twas not my most favourite half an hour, but... they remove the blindfold and whatever they've been using is a very weird shade of orange.  Mindfuck.



GreedyTop -> RE: -=Damocles mind fuck=- (8/11/2008 10:09:33 AM)

LMAO SIN!!  Thats priceless!!

(welcome to the boards! )



NeedingMore220 -> RE: -=Damocles mind fuck=- (8/11/2008 10:15:30 AM)

True, Greedy ... however, in the OP he wrote a long description of a mind fuck, hence opening it up for discussion - no?  I reacted to that rather than answering his direct question, true, as did others.  And then he responded to my comment, opening up the discussion to sharks and tests of submission. 

Is it ok that those who liked the scenario he described didn't share their own?  Is it more acceptable to post 'hey, that's cool' and not share rather than 'hey, that's not cool' and not share?  Threads take twists and turns, especially when the OP answers and opens up other avenues of discussion.



NeedingMore220 -> RE: -=Damocles mind fuck=- (8/11/2008 10:16:45 AM)

OMG, good first post, sinaminn...  Especially the part where he was laughing too hard to untie you.  lol



sinaminn -> RE: -=Damocles mind fuck=- (8/11/2008 10:17:19 AM)

Thank you Greedy =) i've been lurking in the shadows for months.Glad i finally had something worth sharing



NeedingMore220 -> RE: -=Damocles mind fuck=- (8/11/2008 10:18:07 AM)

Ivy, a weird question ... wasn't there some sort of (ick) smell to give their mind fuck away?  (sorry, I had to ask!) 



AquaticSub -> RE: -=Damocles mind fuck=- (8/11/2008 10:19:28 AM)

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

AS.. *droool* may I borrow him?? *grin*



*laughs* Go for it. I share well! Well... as long as we aren't talking about my mousie. Val says I don't have to share my mousie!

Edited cause I can't type this early. And yes, it's early for me damn it!



sinaminn -> RE: -=Damocles mind fuck=- (8/11/2008 10:21:34 AM)

He still laughs about it 7 yrs later..lol..I've been introduced to others in my area thru him.. and lots look at me and go... omg, you're THAT girl?



GreedyTop -> RE: -=Damocles mind fuck=- (8/11/2008 10:23:44 AM)

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ORIGINAL: NeedingMore220

True, Greedy ... however, in the OP he wrote a long description of a mind fuck, hence opening it up for discussion - no?  I reacted to that rather than answering his direct question, true, as did others.  And then he responded to my comment, opening up the discussion to sharks and tests of submission. 

Is it ok that those who liked the scenario he described didn't share their own?  Is it more acceptable to post 'hey, that's cool' and not share rather than 'hey, that's not cool' and not share?  Threads take twists and turns, especially when the OP answers and opens up other avenues of discussion.



Needing.. I personally have no issue with those who share good bad or indifferent responses..

it just seemed to me that the OP got sidetracked by the kneejerk reaction  of  "youre an asshole to even think this was cool" responses...

not pointing fingers, ya understand..

*hug*



NeedingMore220 -> RE: -=Damocles mind fuck=- (8/11/2008 10:26:07 AM)

I understand ... and I understand supporting a friend.  [:)]



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