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what constitutes what an uncollared slave can ask for? - 8/22/2008 10:09:05 PM   
moonbeam713


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Status: offline 		i am a slave, have been for many years. i had a Dom comment on my profile, stating that i had no right to state that i was looking for an intelligent Man. i didn't think i was worng, am i?
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RE: what constitutes what an uncollared slave can ask for? - 8/22/2008 10:16:06 PM   
paperdollie


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Status: offline 		im no slave but i believe you have every right to seek the type of Master you desire. that guy was just a meanie

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RE: what constitutes what an uncollared slave can ask for? - 8/22/2008 10:44:17 PM   
peppermint


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Status: offline 		You can look for any kind of Master you prefer.  If you want one who is purple with green polka dots then you put that in your profile.  What concerns me is why you let some online person bother you.  He is NOT your Master and therefore can not tell you what you may or may not do....and that is how I would have replied to him. 

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RE: what constitutes what an uncollared slave can ask for? - 8/22/2008 10:45:05 PM   
Lynnxz


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Status: offline 		You can ask for whatever you want... you're uncollared. Apparently, this guy is pissy that he doesn't fall into the intelligent catagory.

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RE: what constitutes what an uncollared slave can ask for? - 8/22/2008 10:49:23 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		YOu're really going to let one cyber loser dork doubt some basic concepts of relationship forming?

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RE: what constitutes what an uncollared slave can ask for? - 8/22/2008 10:49:43 PM   
E2Sweet


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Status: offline 		There are no rules in searching for a master/dom/sub/slave.


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RE: what constitutes what an uncollared slave can ask for? - 8/22/2008 10:54:24 PM   
patina


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Status: offline 		peppermint I think your icon /or profile pic is beautiful. 

sorry the creative painter in me couldn't resist.

patina

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RE: what constitutes what an uncollared slave can ask for? - 8/22/2008 11:25:12 PM   
WhiplashSmile2


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quote:

ORIGINAL: moonbeam713

i am a slave, have been for many years. i had a Dom comment on my profile, stating that i had no right to state that i was looking for an intelligent Man. i didn't think i was worng, am i?


What an idiot!  People just don't pair with anybody for BDSM relationships.  Read some of the other slave and submissive profiles.   People do screen and have specific things they are looking for. 

Wait, he was pissed off at you because you wanted somebody intelligent? I mean it now. Literally, what an idiot! 

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RE: what constitutes what an uncollared slave can ask for? - 8/23/2008 2:54:32 AM   
badlilthang


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quote:

ORIGINAL: moonbeam713

i am a slave, have been for many years. i had a Dom comment on my profile, stating that i had no right to state that i was looking for an intelligent Man. i didn't think i was worng, am i?

***i'd say he proved your point nicely - chuckles - by showing you His lack of intelligence...made it easier for you that way. And of course you have every right to tell what you seek - slave or not...good luck in your search, moonbeam - may you find exactly what you want!***


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RE: what constitutes what an uncollared slave can ask for? - 8/23/2008 3:15:52 AM   
Paulnz


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ORIGINAL: moonbeam713

i had a Dom comment on my profile, stating that i had no right to state that i was looking for an intelligent Man.


I take it that he was unintelligent ?


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RE: what constitutes what an uncollared slave can ask for? - 8/23/2008 3:21:49 AM   
NumberSix


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quote:

ORIGINAL: moonbeam713

i am a slave, have been for many years. i had a Dom comment on my profile, stating that i had no right to state that i was looking for an intelligent Man. i didn't think i was worng, am i?


you are most likely a cyborg and worng.

after that, you are who you are, and slickie, looka here, you can dream and want just like any sorta motherfucker sucking on the oxygen pipe on this planet, and you may or may not get exactly what you want, but dont let nobidy tell you that you cant go for it.  Fuck em, Waste of oxygen they are.  You have a better plan 

Ron

tear that fuckin' shit up goddammit!!!!

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RE: what constitutes what an uncollared slave can ask for? - 8/23/2008 3:34:40 AM   
Focus50


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quote:

ORIGINAL: moonbeam713

i am a slave, have been for many years. i had a Dom comment on my profile, stating that i had no right to state that i was looking for an intelligent Man. i didn't think i was worng, am i?

I only refer to myself as 'Master' when I'm in an M/s *relationship* - actually owning a slave is what validates the claim.  Otherwise, I'm a Dom; I don't need anyone else in my life to validate that.
 
I generally agree with the rest - it's your profile and you're a mature adult so it's no-one's business what you put in it.  But I'd still recommend considering my point above.  Calling yourself a slave when you're unowned is kinda like calling yourself a wife when you're not married.... 
 
One thing you can never do is post a fool-proof profile so don't give too much credence to arrogant arses whose sole claim to fame is to tick the 'dom' box in their own profile.
 
Focus.

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RE: what constitutes what an uncollared slave can ask for? - 8/23/2008 3:40:45 AM   
RavenMuse


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quote:

ORIGINAL: moonbeam713
i had a Dom comment on my profile, stating that i had no right to state that i was looking for an intelligent Man.


I guess he didn't like the fact that it obviously ruled him out!

An Owned slave is accountable ONLY to her Master, she has a right to state whatever He allows her too.

An unowned slave is accountable ONLY... to herself, she has a right to state whatever she thinks gives her the best bet of catching the attention of a compatable Master. Those who don't like what she writes... are simply uncompatable.... and irelevant!


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RE: what constitutes what an uncollared slave can ask for? - 8/23/2008 4:00:31 AM   
badlilthang


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Focus50

I only refer to myself as 'Master' when I'm in an M/s *relationship* - actually owning a slave is what validates the claim.  Otherwise, I'm a Dom; I don't need anyone else in my life to validate that.
 
Calling yourself a slave when you're unowned is kinda like calling yourself a wife when you're not married.... 
 
Focus.


*** i see You call Yourself a Dom - when You do not own a slave - but what - in Your opinion - should a slave call herself when not owned? This is asked seriously...because i feel i am who i am - owned or not?***

< Message edited by badlilthang -- 8/23/2008 4:01:07 AM >

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RE: what constitutes what an uncollared slave can ask for? - 8/23/2008 4:16:19 AM   
DavidS8ist


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quote:

ORIGINAL: moonbeam713

i am a slave, have been for many years. i had a Dom comment on my profile, stating that i had no right to state that i was looking for an intelligent Man. i didn't think i was worng, am i?


Uncollared, you are you.  You're technically not a slave unless and until enslaved by someone.  Therefore, you have every right to ask for whatever you want.  Most M/s dynamics that fail do so because the people have *not* been honest in their expectations, needs, demands, wants, et al. prior to commiting to the dynamic.

So go for it.  Make all the demands you want up front.  It's the best way to weed out what you *don't* want.  Sure, you may not have 8 "doms" between now and Christmas.  But when you are finally enslaved, it will have a greater probability of being a good fit.

D.

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RE: what constitutes what an uncollared slave can ask for? - 8/23/2008 4:20:30 AM   
goodpet


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quote:

ORIGINAL: badlilthang
*** i see You call Yourself a Dom - when You do not own a slave - but what - in Your opinion - should a slave call herself when not owned? This is asked seriously...because i feel i am who i am - owned or not?***


For some people the title of master or slave is just that: a title. So it is just fine that it is use and not used based on if they are in that role at the time. no problem. that works, good for them.

For some people (perhaps like you and me), the term master or slave is more of an orientaion. I do not stop being heterosexual or homosexual if i am not in a relationship because those term identify our orientation.  We use these term to identify who we are and what we feel in our hearts and soul, not what our current status is with a relationship. 

using the identifer of "unowned" or "collared" is what identifys us as currently being in a relationship or not.

you are fine using the term slave if you feel you deserve it..     Now that brings up a whole new can of worms... if you identify as a master or slave, people will assume, expect a level of behavior. the problem is sorting out WHOSE level you will live up to.. and the reality is it has to be your choice..  not some unintelligent HNG who says you have no rights since you use the term 'slave'.. but your choice in what level of behaviors you will live up to.  you choose your partner, your groups, your friends, your leatherfamily, your clubs, all based on your own code of ethics. 

Opps, looks around to see she is on the soap box and no one is around.. stepping down quiely.....

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RE: what constitutes what an uncollared slave can ask for? - 8/23/2008 5:09:09 AM   
RavenMuse


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Status: offline 		This crap about "you are not a slave unless you are owned" rather shows that some people put more importance on apperance than on substance.

Wether I Own a girl at this precise time or not doesn't change who nor what I am, it doesn't change how I am WIRED. I am wired to be a Master, that wiring doesn't go away simply because I don't Own a girl... I may not currently be able to act on it but it is what I am.

Same with a slave, if an unowned girl is labeling as slave I assume she is simply saying that is how she is wired, that is what she seeks, what she needs.

What I am doing can carry different labels... Master, Dom, Top..... but what I AM only has one label, it speaks to how I am wired... I am a Master.


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RE: what constitutes what an uncollared slave can ask for? - 8/23/2008 5:10:00 AM   
theGuideGoddess


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Status: offline 		You don't have the right???  This is your life.  These are your feelings.  It is YOUR needs that you rightfully seek to meet.  The only person, at this point in your life, that can define what will determine happiness for you is you.
At this point in time “demand” away.  If someone who claims to be Master tells you that you do not have the right it is they whom need to self examine.  Only an idiot would enter such a relationship without any personal requirements at all.  You have every right to require something so basic and NECESSARY as intelligence.  After all, only an idiot would allow themselves to become slaves to someone lacking that basic (essential) quality.
Now is the time to carefully assess all of the things that will bring you happiness in a relationship.  Then when they come ‘knocking’ it would be wise to continue to require that they meet those qualifying factors to be granted the position that you seek to fill in your life.  For if you do not it is likely that the end result will be dissatisfaction.
I disagree, respectfully, with Focus50 regarding your status of being.  Of course I meet many whom attach the definition Master to their name and often question by what qualification they have attained that definition.
Number6:  Get a vocabulary!
The final thought that I have to share is:  The difference between fantasy and reality can be vast.  The beauty of fantasy is that we are entirely in control of how it plays out in our own little minds.   Whom you align yourself with will absolutely determine HOW the fantasy becomes reality.
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RE: what constitutes what an uncollared slave can ask for? - 8/23/2008 6:19:17 AM   
natasha66


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Status: offline 		Who died and made this idiot boss?  What a twit. 

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RE: what constitutes what an uncollared slave can ask for? - 8/23/2008 7:14:55 AM   
quickened


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i had a Dom comment on my profile, stating that i had no right to state that i was looking for an intelligent Man.

I believe this thread belongs under the Humor category.  What a great laugh!

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