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mistoferin -> RE: pro submissives (9/8/2008 7:41:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: azropedntied Again i so find it funny that bdsm Pro's get a comparison to hookers shakes head .. azropedntied, you have provided some excellent information on this thread that shows the value that can be had in such an arrangement. I appreciate that very much and I actually learned some things from your responses. As you can see though, there are bdsm pros who do participate in this on a sexual level. If one person is paying out money for a sexual service..and another person is providing a sexual service in exchange for that money....that is the definition of prostitution. No, not everyone who is a pro does that. But bdsm has a very strong sexual aspect to it. Somehow though, because it is bdsm there are people who do engage sexually in this and profit monetarily from that but will then go on to say that it's not prostitution because of the dominant/submissive factor. That doesn't negate that a sexual service is being provided in exchange for money. High dollar escorts don't like to be called hookers either...even if they are doing the same thing. But a hot dog vendor selling hot dogs on a corner is still technically a restaurant. Once again I will try....I don't look down upon anyone who chooses to pro sub, pro dom/me or for that matter, if they choose to stand on a street corner and prostitute themselves. Personally I am of the belief that it is their bodies and they should be able to choose how they use them. I do have problems with the terminology. If you're gonna do something, at least be clear about what it is you are doing and not try to wrap it in fluffy pink bows to make it more palatable to some. I'm fairly certain that if you ask a married prostitute if what she does in the bedroom with her husband and what she does in some no tell motel with a john are the same thing and should be called the same thing, she'd likely tell you no that they were very different.

RedMagic1 -> RE: pro submissives (9/8/2008 7:58:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lynnxz My boyfriend/dom/whatever he is, is OBVIOUSLY not a dominant man, as all of you o-so-worldly people have figured out. He's just my pimp daddy, and I take my money to him every night or he beats me with a extention cord! If I'm a good girl and make over 37$ a night, he gives me my little baggy of crack. I've beaten women with an extension cord. They didn't give me any money afterward though, because I'm still a noob, and I didn't know that was part of the deal until just now. And Lynn? desiringmachine asked me today about planning a trip to NYC sometime this fall. If you and C would like to go, too, we'd be interested in tour guides/partners in crime. I'd like to tempt her with Atlanta too -- it's been almost a year since I was there -- but I think she's wary of the South.

Lynnxz -> RE: pro submissives (9/8/2008 7:59:53 PM)
quote: But a hot dog vendor selling hot dogs on a corner is still technically a restaurant But if the vendor isn't on the street, and isn't selling food, then they aren't a restaruant. You make it quite clear that you do look down on people that choose to do this. You don't hide your opinion well at all. Go ahead and call everyone a whore, it's what you're trying to get at in the first place. ;)

Lynnxz -> RE: pro submissives (9/8/2008 8:01:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RedMagic1 quote: ORIGINAL: Lynnxz My boyfriend/dom/whatever he is, is OBVIOUSLY not a dominant man, as all of you o-so-worldly people have figured out. He's just my pimp daddy, and I take my money to him every night or he beats me with a extention cord! If I'm a good girl and make over 37$ a night, he gives me my little baggy of crack. I've beaten women with an extension cord. They didn't give me any money afterward though, because I'm still a noob, and I didn't know that was part of the deal until just now. And Lynn? desiringmachine asked me today about planning a trip to NYC sometime this fall. If you and C would like to go, too, we'd be interested in tour guides/partners in crime. I'd like to tempt her with Atlanta too -- it's been almost a year since I was there -- but I think she's wary of the South. Ok, ok he DOES beat me with an extention cord, that part at least is true. :P The south is great fun! See the travel thread in Random Stupidity for proof.

christine1 -> RE: pro submissives (9/8/2008 8:10:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lynnxz quote: But a hot dog vendor selling hot dogs on a corner is still technically a restaurant But if the vendor isn't on the street, and isn't selling food, then they aren't a restaruant. You make it quite clear that you do look down on people that choose to do this. You don't hide your opinion well at all. Go ahead and call everyone a whore, it's what you're trying to get at in the first place. ;) aha! if i ever decide to go pro i'll just sell hot dogs on the corner to hide my real intentions. the secret code for "beat me until your buck twenty runs out" will be a squiggly line of mustard down the center of the bun. i just love capitalism! (does this mean i can be called a whore now too? i just love it when people talk dirty to me!)

Lynnxz -> RE: pro submissives (9/8/2008 8:11:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: christine1 quote: ORIGINAL: Lynnxz quote: But a hot dog vendor selling hot dogs on a corner is still technically a restaurant But if the vendor isn't on the street, and isn't selling food, then they aren't a restaruant. You make it quite clear that you do look down on people that choose to do this. You don't hide your opinion well at all. Go ahead and call everyone a whore, it's what you're trying to get at in the first place. ;) aha! if i ever decide to go pro i'll just sell hot dogs on the corner to hide my real intentions. the secret code for "beat me until your buck twenty runs out" will be a squiggly line of mustard down the center of the bun. i just love capitalism! (does this mean i can be called a whore now too? i just love it when people talk dirty to me!) Sure! And we can have whorish mustard wrestling contests by the bums at 6th street so peeps can throw quarters at us :D

christine1 -> RE: pro submissives (9/8/2008 8:15:06 PM)
whorish mustard? (cousin of grey poupon right?)

Lynnxz -> RE: pro submissives (9/8/2008 8:18:25 PM)
A quick google of whore mustard gave me this. Not quite what I was going for... You have to bring your own pimp though! We can't fit anymore hookers in the cadillac.

christine1 -> RE: pro submissives (9/8/2008 8:21:40 PM)
oh great, now i have to go talk the guys over at the caddy dealership into borrowing me a car, i don't think my honda would fit the image. wonder if they like hotdogs...

mistoferin -> RE: pro submissives (9/8/2008 8:22:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lynnxz You make it quite clear that you do look down on people that choose to do this. You don't hide your opinion well at all. Go ahead and call everyone a whore, it's what you're trying to get at in the first place. ;) Please stop telling me what my opinions are. You don't know jack shit about me. If anyone looks down on this I'd say that your little $5 crack whore post said it pretty plainly. You ridicule them...for what...so you can feel like you're "above" them? You're not the first pro sub on this thread to make a negative comment about prositutes. I think that's sad. When I worked in substance abuse MOST of my clients were street whores. Hundreds of them. And you know what, they were EXACTLY like any other woman....other than their profession which arose either by choice or more often by circumstance. They had hopes, fears and dreams, they had kids who they loved, they had God's that they worshiped. They bled red blood and cried real tears. So I'm sorry, while you can make smartass posts that denigrate them....I just see them as people. And if I had ever found myself in a situation where selling my ass on a street corner was the only way I could get by in this world....I'd have been right there with them being the best damn whore I could be. The thing that strikes me as funny though....I can't remember even one of them that couldn't look me straight in the face and tell me that they were a whore when I asked them what they did for money. No sugar coating necessary.

CruelDesires -> RE: pro submissives (9/8/2008 8:24:26 PM)
I guess then by your definition the bottom line is, if someone derives sexual pleasure from someone else who sells their services as a "pro" both D and s, then that in your mind falls under the "prostitution" catagory. Correct? Should we call it a "pleasure exchange" relationship rather then a "power exchange" one? C-D

Lynnxz -> RE: pro submissives (9/8/2008 8:30:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mistoferin quote: ORIGINAL: Lynnxz You make it quite clear that you do look down on people that choose to do this. You don't hide your opinion well at all. Go ahead and call everyone a whore, it's what you're trying to get at in the first place. ;) Please stop telling me what my opinions are. You don't know jack shit about me. If anyone looks down on this I'd say that your little $5 crack whore post said it pretty plainly. You ridicule them...for what...so you can feel like you're "above" them? You're not the first pro sub on this thread to make a negative comment about prositutes. I think that's sad. When I worked in substance abuse MOST of my clients were street whores. Hundreds of them. And you know what, they were EXACTLY like any other woman....other than their profession which arose either by choice or more often by circumstance. They had hopes, fears and dreams, they had kids who they loved, they had God's that they worshiped. They bled red blood and cried real tears. So I'm sorry, while you can make smartass posts that denigrate them....I just see them as people. And if I had ever found myself in a situation where selling my ass on a street corner was the only way I could get by in this world....I'd have been right there with them being the best damn whore I could be. The thing that strikes me as funny though....I can't remember even one of them that couldn't look me straight in the face and tell me that they were a whore when I asked them what they did for money. No sugar coating necessary. I can sugarcoat anything I want...nothing changes the fact that I DON'T.HAVE.SEX. Jesus. I could call myself a prostitute, but it wouldn't be true. I don't care what girls do to make money, I've got a couple escort friends who I do double sessions with, and we poke fun at eachother the entire time- I call her a slut bucket, and she jacks my handcuffs and puts them on the back of my truck before I drive off. What's with the 'don't tell me what my opinions are? You've been posting them all over the thread. quote: oh great, now i have to go talk the guys over at the caddy dealership into borrowing me a car, i don't think my honda would fit the image. wonder if they like hotdogs... Well if the johns are looking for a little hotdog, I'd think you'd be the wrong person to talk to... [:D]

azropedntied -> RE: pro submissives (9/8/2008 8:31:24 PM)
Geezs lynn i just wanted to see ya in hot pants or short short s , better still make daisy dukes while your wearing jeans ... chuckles .. Erin thanks for the kind words .I just have yet to witness a hooker pro sub , but i shall keep a watchful look out [:D] Wait if you whomp someone with and electrical cord can you then charge journeyman electrician job rates ? quote: ORIGINAL: Lynnxz quote: ORIGINAL: azropedntied Lynn > please inform me the moment those shorty shorts arrive , i know they will look HOT on you , OR you can always just wear jeans and i could make some daisy dukes wink [;)] Again i so find it funny that bdsm Pro's get a comparison to hookers shakes head .. Haha, I give up, ok fine, I'm a straight up crack whore. Gimmie 5$ and take your pants off hunny! Since I am a crack whore, OBVIOUSLY ever session I go to I lie there in disintrest, picking my nails and texting my pimp about my next john. I am incapable of emotions, in or out of a relationship! I only fake at submission 'cause I get that extra 10$ tip for wearing the collar, and squirming when they spank me with the tiny rubber flogger. My boyfriend/dom/whatever he is, is OBVIOUSLY not a dominant man, as all of you o-so-worldly people have figured out. He's just my pimp daddy, and I take my money to him every night or he beats me with a extention cord! If I'm a good girl and make over 37$ a night, he gives me my little baggy of crack. Good call everyone!

BKSir -> RE: pro submissives (9/8/2008 8:31:55 PM)
I'm just wondering why on earth you were searching for 'whore mustard'..

azropedntied -> RE: pro submissives (9/8/2008 8:33:10 PM)
Thank you SO much for tonight's visual , no sauerkraut please . quote: ORIGINAL: christine1 whorish mustard? (cousin of grey poupon right?)

christine1 -> RE: pro submissives (9/8/2008 9:27:31 PM)
no sauerkraut? blasphemer! (ok, i'll eat yours ok? i love the stuff!)

Briena -> RE: pro submissives (9/8/2008 11:10:03 PM)
HAHA christine likes a german weenie with whoreish mustard! All pros are a bunch of dirtly little whores! You dirty nasty street walker women! NASTY WHORES! Ok... Now how much do I owe for that? How much does it cost me to call you pros all dirty whores? Are you going to write out my bill in whoreish mustard on my hot dog? Let me know so I can uhhhh skip out on the bill cuz Im broke. BLAME BUSH! :D

GreedyTop -> RE: pro submissives (9/8/2008 11:15:28 PM)
ok, I have only read this last page.. and dammit, that pic put me off mustard for the foreseeable future...

Hippiekinkster -> RE: pro submissives (9/8/2008 11:46:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop ok, I have only read this last page.. and dammit, that pic put me off mustard for the foreseeable future... Did we have store-bought mustard, or stuff I made, when you were here? I don't remember.

IvyMorgan -> RE: pro submissives (9/9/2008 9:28:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: azropedntied I just have yet to witness a hooker pro sub , waves Hi. Okay, not technically standing on a street corner in hot pants hooker. But then, I see kink as sexual, inherently. And if I'm beating X and they orgasm, or fisting X and they orgasm... then, I'd call that sex. Ivy

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