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Do Dommes really want to make subs cry? - 10/11/2008 7:22:13 AM   
PeonForHer


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Status: offline 		If so, why?  What does it make you feel?   I read once (I think it was in Nancy Friday's Women on Top ) that it made a Domme feel somewhat 'motherly' because she then had the opportunity of "comforting" him.  I didn't imagine that that would be the usual rationale, but I could be wrong . . .

Also, I've read recently that there's evidence that men cry a lot less than women but that this may have little to do with social conditioning.  Apparently, we just don't have the level of hormones in us to make crying more than a rare event.  I haven't cried for years and I bet many men would say the same. 

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RE: Do Dommes really want to make subs cry? - 10/11/2008 7:34:54 AM   
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Status: offline 		I've shed a lake of tears in my lifetime, and it hasn't been a good thing. I never seek to make anyone cry, ever.   If they do, I take care of them.

I've had many men approach me saying that they wanted to be beaten until they cried---maybe this is some kind of guy thing?

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RE: Do Dommes really want to make subs cry? - 10/11/2008 7:38:05 AM   
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Status: offline 		I am a sadistic bitch...... I make boys cry..... it makes me hot and bothered to see them sobbing and begging.......so yes I really do want to make subs cry.

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RE: Do Dommes really want to make subs cry? - 10/11/2008 7:39:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		See, it's the screaming and moaning that does it for me...

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RE: Do Dommes really want to make subs cry? - 10/11/2008 7:46:35 AM   
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Status: offline 		Screams & moans work for me too, begging, pleading, tears are hot......mmmmmmmm hot wet salty tears pouring down a face, moans screams ....... yes.. yes..... think I will now shut off the computer and go grab a cane *EG* poor hubbypet

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RE: Do Dommes really want to make subs cry? - 10/11/2008 7:47:37 AM   
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Status: offline 		Hey, I never said the tears weren't HOT...  just that I shoot for those low moany noises...

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RE: Do Dommes really want to make subs cry? - 10/11/2008 7:49:27 AM   
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Status: offline 		I couldn't resist weighing in on this! I love to make men (subs) cry. The more obnoxiously testosterone driven they are ... the better. My favorites are guys who have been slurking after me and acting like roosters ... they so deserve it (and more).

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RE: Do Dommes really want to make subs cry? - 10/11/2008 7:50:37 AM   
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Status: offline 		i cry plenty, i scream little, i put effort into making sure i don't moan, and i almost refuse to beg lol

emotional + self conscious = shy and quiet type


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RE: Do Dommes really want to make subs cry? - 10/11/2008 7:51:07 AM   
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i cry plenty, i scream little, i put effort into making sure i don't moan, and i almost refuse to beg lol

emotional + self conscious = shy and quiet type



oooooh, a CHALLENGE! 

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RE: Do Dommes really want to make subs cry? - 10/11/2008 7:52:18 AM   
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Status: offline 		Oh, and PeonneforHer .... it doesn't make me feel motherly and I don't want to "take care" of them when they're all shredded. Nope, only puppies and real cute cats make me feel *that* way! It makes me feel, ummm, justified and turned on in a psycho-predator sort of way (vs. a "come fuck me" sexual way).

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RE: Do Dommes really want to make subs cry? - 10/11/2008 7:56:59 AM   
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Status: offline 		I want to make him cry, but not from the pain of play. There is nothing like seeing a macho type dude fall to his knees in front of me, tears streaming down his face. And, I get it! :)

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RE: Do Dommes really want to make subs cry? - 10/11/2008 7:57:00 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

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ORIGINAL: hopelesslyInvo

i cry plenty, i scream little, i put effort into making sure i don't moan, and i almost refuse to beg lol

emotional + self conscious = shy and quiet type



oooooh, a CHALLENGE! 


that remains to be seen, honestly... no one's ever really tried to sway me from this~

but that is how i display myself and behave


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RE: Do Dommes really want to make subs cry? - 10/11/2008 8:03:23 AM   
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I couldn't resist weighing in on this! I love to make men (subs) cry. The more obnoxiously testosterone driven they are ... the better. My favorites are guys who have been slurking after me and acting like roosters ... they so deserve it (and more).


Madamekitty,
Good answer! Welcome to CM <s> I couldn't agree more, it is the toughest men's tears that I appreciate the most. What kind of satisfaction is there in making a sissy girl cry? None for me, but then again, that is just who I am <bg>

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RE: Do Dommes really want to make subs cry? - 10/11/2008 8:03:38 AM   
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ORIGINAL: hopelesslyInvo

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

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ORIGINAL: hopelesslyInvo

i cry plenty, i scream little, i put effort into making sure i don't moan, and i almost refuse to beg lol

emotional + self conscious = shy and quiet type



oooooh, a CHALLENGE! 


that remains to be seen, honestly... no one's ever really tried to sway me from this~

but that is how i display myself and behave



See, now I just want you for a chew toy, hallway boy!

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RE: Do Dommes really want to make subs cry? - 10/11/2008 8:10:44 AM   
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer



Also, I've read recently that there's evidence that men cry a lot less than women but that this may have little to do with social conditioning. Apparently, we just don't have the level of hormones in us to make crying more than a rare event. I haven't cried for years and I bet many men would say the same.



Emotional crying is justa coping method used to help people feel better because it eliminates stress hormones and makes them feel better. The beta-endorphins contained in tears is a natural pain reliever. Everyone uses coping methods to reduce stress, nothing new there, though not everyone, including WOMEN, cry as a coping method. Instead some talk it out with friends, or some exercise it out, and unfortunately, some drink it out, or take it out on other people in aggressive ways. Pity those individuals (mostly men) who keep things bottled in. Keeping emotions in does not make them go away. Keeping emotions bottled in, like most men do, leads to serious damage to your bodies, minds, and spirits, giving you an earlier death.

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RE: Do Dommes really want to make subs cry? - 10/11/2008 8:12:10 AM   
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Status: offline 		It would be hard to make me Cry, I mean really cry... Physical pain would make me scream and moan and my eyes water. Verbal and mental pain, would be really hard, because I would just sit there want take it and stair at the ground probably, i'm kinda numb to it, of its verbal I tend to talk back.

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RE: Do Dommes really want to make subs cry? - 10/11/2008 8:14:12 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

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ORIGINAL: hopelesslyInvo

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

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ORIGINAL: hopelesslyInvo

i cry plenty, i scream little, i put effort into making sure i don't moan, and i almost refuse to beg lol

emotional + self conscious = shy and quiet type



oooooh, a CHALLENGE! 


that remains to be seen, honestly... no one's ever really tried to sway me from this~

but that is how i display myself and behave



See, now I just want you for a chew toy, hallway boy!


well, i do squeak at least~

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RE: Do Dommes really want to make subs cry? - 10/11/2008 8:22:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		I have no desire to make my boy cry, but I'm also not into giving him enough pain to bring him to tears.

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RE: Do Dommes really want to make subs cry? - 10/11/2008 8:24:51 AM   
madamekitty


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Status: offline 		MoGA, thanks for the welcome! Cute pup you have!

I like to think that when they're crying, it's because the poor things (not) have had an epiphany about what a stripped down, raw, needy little sub they are -- in other words; the bullshit has been stripped off and they see themselves.

Just because I'm a Domina, actually, all the more because I am ... I have to deal with the reality of myself (and my imperfections) all the time, so I figure it's only fair. : ) (smirk)

Talking back? Are you kidding me? I hope that's to say "yes, Ma'am" - if not, gag him!

MK

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RE: Do Dommes really want to make subs cry? - 10/11/2008 8:35:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		lol, I probably say Yes <incert her preferd title>. however I am very stubborn and loose cannonish at times

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