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RE: The sexualization and fetishization of dommes - 10/14/2008 8:16:21 PM   
Venatrix


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Edited to add:  You know, I think this is why I enjoy submissive men so much - the courtliness of Politesub, PforH, Elansubdued, even you, littlesarbonn - makes such a lovely change from the vanilla men out there.  The fact that you let us femdoms do . . . erm . . . interesting things to you just adds to the enjoyment.
 
Thanks for that compliment, Venatrix.  Also thanks for kindly ignoring probably the rudest pun I've ever done on this board.  ;-)




Actually, I had planned to take that up with you privately.

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RE: The sexualization and fetishization of dommes - 10/14/2008 8:38:44 PM   
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Hah!  I get just the opposite.  The doms start out by saying they want to be friends, and the next thing I know, they're telling me they want to submit "just to see what it's like for the sub."  So altruistic of them.


Well, it's that one or..."Yes, I'm listed as a Dominant, and I'm Dominant to EVERYONE, but there is just something about you that makes me want to kneel and submit..." LOL


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RE: The sexualization and fetishization of dommes - 10/15/2008 6:16:06 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Venatrix

Hah!  I get just the opposite.  The doms start out by saying they want to be friends, and the next thing I know, they're telling me they want to submit "just to see what it's like for the sub."  So altruistic of them.


Mine just cut to the chase and send me one-liners about being available to serve...  because I'm so beautiful, yanno...

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RE: The sexualization and fetishization of dommes - 10/15/2008 10:18:25 AM   
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Status: offline 		Mine just cut to the chase and send me one-liners about being available to serve...  because I'm so beautiful, yanno...
 
Indeed you are beautiful, Lady H - as well as sweet and cute. 

You look very nice.  Yes, nice is definitely the word for the way you look.  Nice.

Nice - yes.

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RE: The sexualization and fetishization of dommes - 10/15/2008 10:41:45 AM   
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RE: The sexualization and fetishization of dommes - 10/15/2008 10:50:26 AM   
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RE: The sexualization and fetishization of dommes - 10/15/2008 11:06:29 AM   
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Status: offline 		Nah.  Francine is a pussycat.

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RE: The sexualization and fetishization of dommes - 10/15/2008 1:02:44 PM   
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Nah.  Francine is a pussycat.


Awwwww!!  It's nice to be appreciated!

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RE: The sexualization and fetishization of dommes - 10/15/2008 1:04:13 PM   
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Mine just cut to the chase and send me one-liners about being available to serve...  because I'm so beautiful, yanno...
 
Indeed you are beautiful, Lady H - as well as sweet and cute. 




You are working your way to sassmonkey status, I can tell!

Actually, I don't think most of the men get much past the cleavage...  and why should they?  That's why I chose that primary pic, after all!

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RE: The sexualization and fetishization of dommes - 10/15/2008 1:41:10 PM   
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RE: The sexualization and fetishization of dommes - 10/15/2008 2:40:23 PM   
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RE: The sexualization and fetishization of dommes - 10/15/2008 4:46:27 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Venatrix
Hah!  I get just the opposite.  The doms start out by saying they want to be friends, and the next thing I know, they're telling me they want to submit "just to see what it's like for the sub."  So altruistic of them.


I'm not offended or annoyed by such petitions. I've even taken a few of these jokers up on their offers. After all, I can be altruistic, too.

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RE: The sexualization and fetishization of dommes - 10/15/2008 5:14:57 PM   
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RE: The sexualization and fetishization of dommes - 10/15/2008 5:20:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Venatrix
Hah!  I get just the opposite.  The doms start out by saying they want to be friends, and the next thing I know, they're telling me they want to submit "just to see what it's like for the sub."  So altruistic of them.


I'm not offended or annoyed by such petitions. I've even taken a few of these jokers up on their offers. After all, I can be altruistic, too.


Oh, that *is* kind of you.  I was last altruistic in 1975; no, wait, it was the winter of '76.

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RE: The sexualization and fetishization of dommes - 10/15/2008 5:38:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		Wonderful post as usual, stella!
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I often think of the words to "It's the same ole song", on here.


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RE: The sexualization and fetishization of dommes - 10/15/2008 5:55:01 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Venatrix

Hah!  I get just the opposite.  The doms start out by saying they want to be friends, and the next thing I know, they're telling me they want to submit "just to see what it's like for the sub."  So altruistic of them.


Sometimes they don't even bother the facade of friendship first.... but they don't want to sub, I find... what they want is to bottom.  *shrugs*

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RE: The sexualization and fetishization of dommes - 10/15/2008 6:01:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have just been fetishized, and it's all stella's fault.  stella, I will find a way to make you pay.

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RE: The sexualization and fetishization of dommes - 10/15/2008 6:24:54 PM   
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I have just been fetishized . . .


There, there.  It's not so bad after the first time.  You might even come to like it.

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RE: The sexualization and fetishization of dommes - 10/15/2008 7:56:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		I suppose I've been fetishized and objectified as a domme by every guy who has ever sent an email to my profile on this site, without actually reading said profile.  (It's either the photograph or the red name that brings those guys out--sometimes it's obviously the red name.)

More often I'm objectified in real life, face to face, just as a woman old enough to be a sexual target--or rejected as a sexual target.  Men who look at me with a sneer and call me "fat" names are objectifying every bit as much as the ones who look at me and say "I'd hit that".  They're just objectifying me in a less affirming, even-more-demeaning way.

*shrug* All women deal with objectification, positive and negative.  There is a prevailing ideology in this society that a woman's worth as a human being should be measured solely in terms of how sexually pleasing or attractive she is to men.  Women are effectively objects by this measure, tools for the attainment of pleasure--it makes not one lick of difference what sort of fantasy the man has, whether it's male submissive, straight-up vanilla sex, or sexually sadistic murder a la Ted Bundy.

Dommes are no different from other women in this regard.  Personally, I don't worry about all the objectification.  I concentrate less on feeling victimized by the world and more on enjoying the objectification of men every chance I get.

'Cause I'm a voyeur, and it's fun.

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RE: The sexualization and fetishization of dommes - 10/15/2008 10:51:45 PM   
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ORIGINAL: yourMissTress

I have just been fetishized, and it's all stella's fault. stella, I will find a way to make you pay.


*disarming smile*


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