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RE: Being Bi within this lifestyle - 11/4/2008 2:47:09 PM

VampiresLair

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I am dominant and bisexual. I have had relationships with men and with women. I do not have a preference for the gender, I have a preference for the person.
I am also mainly monogamous, so when I am with someone, I do not wander. I am still bisexual, I am just taken. I have heard such insane things as being "nonpracticing bisexual"... it isnt a religion.
When you are straight and single, you are not considered asexual, so why should i be considered straight just because im taken?

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RE: Being Bi within this lifestyle - 11/4/2008 2:51:06 PM

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ORIGINAL: JustDarkness
I find bi is bi. When I noticed peopel putting words befor bi, like "partime" bi for example. I was wondering if they did that that to "soften"what they said. As if they were ashamed? Like whispering instead of saying it out loud.

Nope, not ashamed. I just don't want to give anyone the wrong impression, by allowing them to think they have a chance of an exclusive relationship with me. I'm primarily interested in men. I want their manliness, their strength, their physical size, their deep voices, their big hands and their manly man parts.

And I'm also not a non-reciprocator; in fact, I'm pretty sure the majority of the time with women, I've made the first move. I'm also between a 1 and a 2 on that scale.

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RE: Being Bi within this lifestyle - 11/4/2008 2:51:43 PM

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I am bisexual and thouroughly enjoy myself with my experiences with women. I love to have a 3some sexual experience with myself, another woman and a man. I love both energies in the room. I however, fall in love with men and have relationships with men. Yes, unfortunately women are just plaything to me, not love interests. Women however do make the best friends.

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RE: Being Bi within this lifestyle - 11/4/2008 2:52:43 PM

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Ahh ok..good explanation.
thank you

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RE: Being Bi within this lifestyle - 11/4/2008 2:53:11 PM

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I could have fallen in love with a woman had I met the right one.

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RE: Being Bi within this lifestyle - 11/4/2008 2:54:43 PM

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i am like lusciouslips on this one, plaything only.

I do need the strength of a man, i need someone who i think can protect me and comfort me with a strong hug. I think only a man can give that really.

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RE: Being Bi within this lifestyle - 11/4/2008 2:54:45 PM

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I am bisexual..and i have been since i was 13 year old. I have had relationships with both male and female. Being with a Woman for me, is not for my Master nor would he consider it for him, but being I state im a Switch, i normally domme the ladies as i go for younger ladies between ages 18 to 25. He Likes the fact im bi and wouldnt mind joining but he doesnt require that, and he doesnt really want to bring in a 3rd person into what we have special.

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RE: Being Bi within this lifestyle - 11/4/2008 2:57:11 PM

StrictnSaucy

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I find (some) women incredibly sexy and have had some mind-blowing fun with girls but I would never have a woman as a primary partner. Its kinda like chocolate - highly addictive but wouldnt want it for breakfast, dinner and tea!

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RE: Being Bi within this lifestyle - 11/4/2008 2:57:31 PM

StayOfExecution

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ORIGINAL: pissdoll

i hate "bi-curious" women.

Bi-curious means "i'm not really into chicks, but you can go down on me and get me off....
btw, don't expect me to reciprocate with any level of enthusiasm."

been there, done that a few too many times.

I'm bi-curious, because I'm genuinely curious what it would be like to have some sexual interactions with a female. Having said that, I'm actually turned off at the idea of going down on a woman or worse yet having a woman go down on me. So your statement doesn't apply to all bi-curious females.

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RE: Being Bi within this lifestyle - 11/4/2008 2:58:03 PM

JustDarkness

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Its kinda like chocolate - highly addictive but wouldnt want it for breakfast, dinner and tea!

not?

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RE: Being Bi within this lifestyle - 11/4/2008 2:58:48 PM

sweetlittlegirl1

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I am the opposite i prefer to give than to recieve, when it comes to a girl on girl thing.. even when i was just courious.

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RE: Being Bi within this lifestyle - 11/4/2008 2:59:41 PM

JustDarkness

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Don't you have to be bi-curious before you actually do it with some one.
With most things you become curious/interested first.

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RE: Being Bi within this lifestyle - 11/4/2008 2:59:52 PM

spinninsweetness

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I always assumed I was a lesbian.... I know now I'm bi. Have to agree with DV, its the person not the gender that attracts me. However, I've never been in a relationship so who knows. Maybe a relationship with either gender would be a nightmare. At the moment I just have fun with both.

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RE: Being Bi within this lifestyle - 11/4/2008 3:00:18 PM

teensub

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I dont care as long as we are both having fun!

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RE: Being Bi within this lifestyle - 11/4/2008 3:04:01 PM

BreePix

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i am bi, and it is beacuse of my master that i found out i was, i always thought i was, i always found other females attractive, but never acted on my feelings till i met him

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RE: Being Bi within this lifestyle - 11/4/2008 3:05:11 PM

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ORIGINAL: allthatjaz

For those of us within this lifestyle that are bi.... are you truly comfortable with someone the same sex as your self? Would you have a relationship with someone the same sex? or is it something you would do to please your Dominant?

For those that have in a profile 'bi curious' Is it mainly because Master/Dominant wants a 3rd party and your willing to go along with that or is it that you genuinly crave to have sex with someone the same sex as yourself?

I'm pansexual and as comfortable with my own sex as with the opposite. I've in the past had relationships with the same sex, and do so now, but am in a sexually-monogamous relationship with my spouse currently. I do not have a daily dominant, I have an equals marriage where we play and dominate others outside of it. I do and have never done anything in my sexuality that I did not wish to do myself, even if it was purely a one-time-thing.

In short, my sexuality is the sexuality I've always had since earliest recollections. My relationship choices are choices I make based on my own priorities.

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RE: Being Bi within this lifestyle - 11/4/2008 3:06:37 PM

akisha

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quote:

ORIGINAL: allthatjaz

For those of us within this lifestyle that are bi.... are you truly comfortable with someone the same sex as your self? Would you have a relationship with someone the same sex? or is it something you would do to please your Dominant?

For those that have in a profile 'bi curious' Is it mainly because Master/Dominant wants a 3rd party and your willing to go along with that or is it that you genuinly crave to have sex with someone the same sex as yourself?

I'm comfortable with being with the same sex. I had a gf in highschool for 2 years, granted we both were dating guys as well, but I don't have an issue with being with other women, I don't have tonnes of experience but i enjoyed the experience I've had.

My Dom has said I can be with women if I choose, and he does not need or want to be involved. It's something just for me.

If you are actually bi then there should be no issue.

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RE: Being Bi within this lifestyle - 11/4/2008 3:06:40 PM

servantheart

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ORIGINAL: pissdoll

Bi-curious means "i'm not really into chicks, but you can go down on me and get me off....
btw, don't expect me to reciprocate with any level of enthusiasm."

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RE: Being Bi within this lifestyle - 11/4/2008 3:23:12 PM

silkncarol

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What Cali said...... this description fits me well too. I think of myself as D/s bi.....done 3 some's for my Dominant, been a third for friends when they've needed one, and occasionally just because the stars were right and i've enjoyed those moments very much....but i've never been interested in a bi-sexual "relationship" ...i like men way too much!!

quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick

I am what I call "opportunistically bisexual". I don't seek out women to have relationships, or even booty calls... but if we're in each other's vicinity and the stars align correctly and all that other b.s. ... then things might just get REALLLL friendly.

Cali

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RE: Being Bi within this lifestyle - 11/4/2008 3:30:08 PM

ericpup

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I consider myself bi, and sure not because it's fashionable. I'm so in the closet when it comes to that and my BDSM lifestyle that I'd have to open the door just to tie my shoes. (What the hell does that mean?)

I've served men and women, and enjoy the aspects of both. I really like TG and TS Dommes because it offers the best of both worlds.

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