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CFslaves2 -> RE: Finding smart or well-read subs.. (11/14/2008 6:04:26 PM)
Lol, you take away my caffiene and then want me to go college??? i mays be unknowing as to them fancified school learnin's but i thought college folk lived on caffiene,,, and pizza. Yes, that is what Hollywood tells me, is true. And i am thinking everyone is having pretty good ideas on the topic.

OsideGirl -> RE: Finding smart or well-read subs.. (11/14/2008 7:01:14 PM)
So, this is the second time that you've posted this subject. Yes, we get it....you think you're smart.

xxblushesxx -> RE: Finding smart or well-read subs.. (11/14/2008 7:16:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RainydayNE well wheelbarrow is a fairly long word, and there are words, like "plethora," that don't have as many letters, but are far more interesting. =p RD, can I say, I just lurve you... You think like me, (which is kinda scary, but verrry interesting, too!)

xxblushesxx -> RE: Finding smart or well-read subs.. (11/14/2008 7:20:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze Having studied literature, I consider myself quite well read but wouldn't absolutely require that somebody is well read so I can communicate with that person out of the bedroom, some of my friends aren't bookish at all, they prefer technical stuff over reading and I still find mutual interest and plenty to talk about, having said that, part of the people I was at university with I found little to talk about because, despite being educated to the same degree, they were terribly boring. Oddly enough despite being still an avid reader (2 to 3 books in a week) I hardly ever talk about the books I read, I enjoy them and don't even feel the urge to discuss them all the time. I might recommend them to friends if I know we share a similar taste, but that's about it. I am one of LC's not so secret admirers too... She's another one of the many many bright people who post on this site. Heck you can hardly take a step in here without tripping over an intelligent person with something interesting to say.

RainydayNE -> RE: Finding smart or well-read subs.. (11/15/2008 12:04:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx quote: ORIGINAL: RainydayNE well wheelbarrow is a fairly long word, and there are words, like "plethora," that don't have as many letters, but are far more interesting. =p RD, can I say, I just lurve you... You think like me, (which is kinda scary, but verrry interesting, too!) awww hehehe :) well thanks! i adore your hair :) turns greeeeeeen

IvyMorgan -> RE: Finding smart or well-read subs.. (11/15/2008 3:10:28 AM)
Perhaps, OP, if you posted about more than just wanting to find an intelligent/smart/well read sub, you'd do a better job of finding one. As mentioned previously, there are lots of intelligent/smart/well read people who post here. Munches are another place where you might find someone. Well read is such a subjective term, as well. I've read a lot, but, never made it through Pride and Prejudice. Am I well read?

kallisto -> RE: Finding smart or well-read subs.. (11/15/2008 5:16:44 AM)
I didn't realize that subs were supposed to be able to read and write well, along with being able to converse (that means carry on a conversation, correct? Where is the sub handbook when I need it? [:)] Ok, humor aside .. I would think a few emails/chats and then phone conversations would quickly let you know if they are "smart enought" for you.

hejira92 -> RE: Finding smart or well-read subs.. (11/15/2008 5:23:24 AM)
thinks to self-Can't wait until Lushy gets a look at this thread......[8\|] [sm=beatdeadhorse.gif] (Duh, I'm just a doormat. Could you explain the question? - Dr. hejira)

Zechriel -> RE: Finding smart or well-read subs.. (11/15/2008 5:36:51 AM)
Good morning! Well I would suggest the most basic thing-read the profile totally if you are seeking on here. I get so many mails-about 3-4 a day from Doms that want to "get to know each other and go from there" when it clearly states on my front page that I am owned and happy. If they had read that and still wanted to chat about my personal interests that might match theirs-such as music or occult or such-then they should mail that instead of the other. Read everything and then talk about their interests and yours. When I first met Daddy, I saw him and thought-I cannot do this, he looks like my grandfather! But we talked and found common interests and it goes from there. I agree with what was said above-the conversation should go on outside the scene/lifestyle if a LTR is what you really want. For that , it goes back to everything you would do for a vanilla realtionship but with the knowledge that you two connect on a much deeper level. That's how I see it with Daddy when we are gardening or like now, when he is out hunting-ick. lol Good luck. Very truly, Zechriel [sm=2cents.gif]

humoo -> RE: Finding smart or well-read subs.. (11/15/2008 5:44:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Linguist I don't suppose anyone knows how to go about this? With the brain being the biggest sex organ I do need someone I can talk with outside the bedroom as well. Am i the only sub who finds this a little offensive? i had no idea that submissiveness equates to ignorance. Respectfully humoo

KatyLied -> RE: Finding smart or well-read subs.. (11/15/2008 6:01:54 AM)
quote: Yes, we get it....you think you're smart. But if he really wants to prove it he needs to post his IQ score and mensa card!

Maya2001 -> RE: Finding smart or well-read subs.. (11/15/2008 6:39:33 AM)
Well as a psychologist you are probably aware that some with extremely high IQ's do not enjoy reading , will have poor grammar, need a spell checker and have poor communication skills your best bet is to start with an email to get a conversation going and see if the person wants to go into an IM chat with you on a friendship level first which will make is easier to find out if they are able discuss a broad variety of topics This is how one Dom who is an actor/director/playwrite with 180 IQ and extremely verbose... started learning about me....he had been online one night an was simply bored and was looking for conversation , and noticed I was online ..I was in another country ..800 miles away so at the time was not considering me for a relationship..at the time was just interested in idling away a few sleepless hours....my use of words and grammar is lacking ..I have a bit of post secondary ..but after the first night of conversation I had peaked his interest.. so over months we had discussed a lot of different and off beat topics ..like bubonic plague, US politics, rock and roll history, corporate greed, free trade agreements, civil uprisings, korean war, past relationships, family, european history. It eventually led him to a desire to meet me , so he flew here and spent a week with me.. and we have remained friends since, we would have liked to take it beyond that to a D/s relationship but immigration laws and other obligations stand heavily in the way

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: Finding smart or well-read subs.. (11/15/2008 6:54:38 AM)
I think IQ's are over-rated. My ex-husband has an IQ of what is typically considered 'genius,' but the man wasn't smart enough to know better than to drill through a board that was sitting on his thigh. Here's a news flash, if it will drill through hard wood, it won't have much problem continuing on through jeans and flesh and yes, bone. He also managed to create a mote of fire, yes fire, around my home after deciding that the reason my car wouldn't start was because of bad gas. After ciphoning it out of the tank, into the ditch (yes ditch,) he was jonesing for a cigarette and somehow forgot that gas was flammable. And let us not forget the time he decided to re-wire the bathroom cabinet over the sink, but forgot to ground the wiring so that every time I touched the metal part of the entirely metal cabinet, I got knocked on my ass, by a jolt of electricity. Oh yes, and the time he decided to upgrade our ceiling fan, and when I asked him if he'd remembered to flip the breaker, said that all he needed to do was flip the switch off, which he did. Of course, he forgot that we had switches on both sides of the room, and he actually flipped it on. That time HE got knocked to HIS ass by a jolt of electricity, and yes I did feel happily vindicated (in case you were wondering.) I could go on, but I wouldn't want to bore everyone. Yes, IQ's are definitely over-rated.

kiwisub12 -> RE: Finding smart or well-read subs.. (11/15/2008 7:28:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RainydayNE well wheelbarrow is a fairly long word, and there are words, like "plethora," that don't have as many letters, but are far more interesting. =p Yes, but wheelbarrow brings up such interesting visual, from the crusty old gardner, grumbling about having his peas picked too soon, to the serial murderer wheeling off his latest victim to be buried! The possibilities are endles!!!! And think what a plethora of wheelbarrows would be possible of. Talk about exponentially expanding possibilities! [:D]

daddysliloneds -> RE: Finding smart or well-read subs.. (11/15/2008 9:46:00 AM)
so which do you want; well read or smart? they don't necessarily equate to being the same thing you know. you get what you give, so if you're getting nothing but sheer ignorance and stupidity, perhaps that's what you're projecting!

MasterTslave -> RE: Finding smart or well-read subs.. (11/15/2008 10:34:27 AM)
Not everyone that is into this lifestyle is an idiot! Master and I have a great time doing other things outside of our sex lives. We can go places, do things and even just talk...just find someone that isn't a total dope and you are fine.

OsideGirl -> RE: Finding smart or well-read subs.. (11/15/2008 10:35:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KatyLied quote: Yes, we get it....you think you're smart. But if he really wants to prove it he needs to post his IQ score and mensa card! Very true. But, the fact that he posted the same subject twice and still hasn't figured out how to find an intelligent partner speaks volumes, doesn't it? For those that missed the joy of his first post: http://www.collarchat.com/m_1941580/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#1941580

KatyLied -> RE: Finding smart or well-read subs.. (11/15/2008 10:53:52 AM)
Okay, it's not every day that a thread off-topics into a discussion of merkins! [:D]

LadyConstanze -> RE: Finding smart or well-read subs.. (11/15/2008 11:00:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: KatyLied quote: Yes, we get it....you think you're smart. But if he really wants to prove it he needs to post his IQ score and mensa card! Very true. But, the fact that he posted the same subject twice and still hasn't figured out how to find an intelligent partner speaks volumes, doesn't it? For those that missed the joy of his first post: http://www.collarchat.com/m_1941580/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#1941580 It could always be that he found somebody but they weren't interested... We can only speculate about the reasons...

LadyConstanze -> RE: Finding smart or well-read subs.. (11/15/2008 11:16:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance I think IQ's are over-rated. My ex-husband has an IQ of what is typically considered 'genius,' but the man wasn't smart enough to know better than to drill through a board that was sitting on his thigh. Here's a news flash, if it will drill through hard wood, it won't have much problem continuing on through jeans and flesh and yes, bone. He also managed to create a mote of fire, yes fire, around my home after deciding that the reason my car wouldn't start was because of bad gas. After ciphoning it out of the tank, into the ditch (yes ditch,) he was jonesing for a cigarette and somehow forgot that gas was flammable. And let us not forget the time he decided to re-wire the bathroom cabinet over the sink, but forgot to ground the wiring so that every time I touched the metal part of the entirely metal cabinet, I got knocked on my ass, by a jolt of electricity. Oh yes, and the time he decided to upgrade our ceiling fan, and when I asked him if he'd remembered to flip the breaker, said that all he needed to do was flip the switch off, which he did. Of course, he forgot that we had switches on both sides of the room, and he actually flipped it on. That time HE got knocked to HIS ass by a jolt of electricity, and yes I did feel happily vindicated (in case you were wondering.) I could go on, but I wouldn't want to bore everyone. Yes, IQ's are definitely over-rated. IQ tests actually only show that you are good at doing IQ tests, hate the things, we did one in school and unfortunately I scored high on that, the evil chemistry teacher decided then that I was just lazy (doesn't speak much of her IQ if she needed an IQ test to find that out, the fact that I never bothered with homework might have been an indicator) and she decided to put my goals higher, which I thought was unfair because everybody in the same course should be tested according to the same standard, otherwise where is the point in having marks? Now at uni there was a guy who always scored top marks and I decided it might be a good way to actually prepare with him for exams (I honestly did that sometimes, though not very often) and basically he was just memorizing everything. On top of it all, my electric kettle was broken so I boiled water on the gas cooker for tea, I was taking the cups out when it started to whistle and asked him to switch off the gas, he BLEW it out.... Formal education only shows that you actually have the commitment to sit something out and put energy into following a goal, the degrees have sometimes helped me to get jobs (though it gets a bit tired to be knocked back with "you are overqualified") but what I learned never had much relevance in the job I was doing and it doesn't make for great conversation, unless my aim is boring people to death. PS: xxblushesxx are you flirting with me? If so keep it up, I like it[8\|]

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