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RE: Fisting - 11/16/2008 10:36:55 AM

LadyConstanze

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They go fairly high up but the vet gloves are real gloves, the fisting gloves are more like mittens without a thumb, they do look a bit like gigantic black condoms.

Hey, if he loses a glove in you, he has the wrong sized gloves or tiny hands ;)

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RE: Fisting - 11/16/2008 10:44:00 AM

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I second the turning of the hand as it is inserted, it does help the working in, if you will. As for the knuckles, they are always tricky for us as well. Daddy's hands are soooo big and I am, well, so little. Sometimes it is just best to push through, I mean when we get to the point that the knuckles are pressing and all that stands between me and the most amazing orgasm is an inch of his hand, I generally press back against as I relax and breathe out. Daddy letting me control the pressure helps a lot. After that, everything is right with the world. I can only accept him to about mid wrist, but that is quite enough to allow for him to touch my very soul.
It might be a good idea to use hot compresses (wash cloths, as hot as you can stand) for a period of time beforehand. Makes the whole area more elastic and less likely to tear.

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RE: Fisting - 11/16/2008 10:45:21 AM

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and don't forget more lube

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RE: Fisting - 11/16/2008 10:50:15 AM

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*sigh* ....Fisting... *she said wistfully*.... Someday....

(I mean, sheesh, have you seen the size of Sir's hands????)

I've pushed three out, but we haven't yet managed to get His hand IN.....

I know! Maybe we should use more lube!

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RE: Fisting - 11/16/2008 10:52:36 AM

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I agree with Darius, fisting is much easier after sex and a few orgasms. yes LUBE & Gloves go along way, but here is what I do and it gives Me great results. get a little drunk before you start, buy yourself an inflatable dildo or have your Master use 2-3 dildos in you all at once while applying lots of clitoral stimulation.

once the dildo(s) are in, KEEP THEM THERE w/o moving in and out. do not allow yourself to orgasm u want to get comfortable with the stretched feeling as well as build up the anticipation. just keep them in and every so often push in a bit deeper until they are all in you, while your Master keeps stimulating you. elsewhere. eventually once you are ready (hornier, wetter, feeling less filled) have him begin to stroke it/them in and out slowly, with the strokes becoming longer and deeper. again try to avoid cumming but if not possible have him switch the dildos for his gloved , lubed hand afterwards or just before you are allowed to cum and begin the slow in and out process, with lots of no n genital stimulation throughout process.

I find kissing helps relax your mind and muscles, as does having your nipples nibbled on, pulled or if it makes you hot, tortured throughout the event.

in the end however it is something that requires a patient fister, and sometimes even then, if the fist is just too big for your particular opening you will have to just enjoy what you can accomplish and move on.

lastly for better results use a silicon based lube, they make things much smoother and it does not wear off half way through.

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RE: Fisting - 11/16/2008 11:03:01 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefianceIn my limited experience (having had it done once,) I didn't even know what he was doing at the time. I just found myself hanging precariously from the headboard, like an orgasmic version of a female spiderman, and he was laughing his ass off and pointing to where his arm disappeared at the wrist.

Haha. that's how it happened to me XD

Except I wasn't hanging off a bed... I was lying on the ground...

It was great, but if it hadn't been a surprise I likely wouldn't have enjoyed it as much... it was literally a 'oh my god...' orgasming moment and then a 'what the hell are you doing that... oh fuck!' at noticing that his hand was gone XD

So that's how you should do it! Make it a surprise! (just use lube!)

(Note: This is NOT a good idea

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RE: Fisting - 11/16/2008 2:11:07 PM

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So yeah, any advice on how to take it further, so His knuckles will actually go in?

As mentioned elsewhere, but add some clitoral stimulation, in whatever way turns you on. And have vanilla sex first, to dilate. Having babies first helps too, but that could be considered long foreplay

. Considering your age, if he is as young as you are, get him to slow down. And don't get beguiled by all those pics you see, those women have had babies, lots of young women have a hard time getting fisted. Trust yourself, relax, think of England, your vulva is designed to let an entire human being through.

Ooh. Your picture. That shouldn't be allowed, it's distracting.... hmmmm.. and you talk about fisting... sigh

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RE: Fisting - 11/16/2008 2:12:52 PM

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Hey, if he loses a glove in you,

And then he can go look for it, poor baby, that's a good game too... *grin*

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RE: Fisting - 11/16/2008 2:17:10 PM

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my mistress fists me anally on a weekly basis

gawd i love that feeling once she slides in

yes lots of lube

and sometimes she does strapon play to get me to relax and open up for her ..once the 10 in strapon slides in her fist slides in much easier

so may i suggest strapon play or a good fucking before hand to get you to open up ..relax ...and get really wet

first time for us it took her like 6 times before she slid in but i swear that feeling is simply amazing

last week she fucked me with the bam and finally i was able to get her elbow in as far as length is concerned ..feeling her that deep i was totally hers and at her mercy while she was penetrating me

if you love strapon play as much as we do ..try having her fist you next time ..once she slides in i love that feeling

must warn you it can become addicting --lol ..have fun and relax and enjoy and dont forget the lube

mal

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RE: Fisting - 11/16/2008 2:23:55 PM

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I am one of those ones where fisting in any point of entry is not on the menu. It just ain't gonna happen, not even if I were swimming in a vat of lube. And I have had a kiddo or two (or more). Now I am not a guru of all things anatomical, but perhaps I am one of those ones where yeah, I am able to sqweeeeeeze out a baby, but something fist sized? No way.

But hey, there's a thought...dip yourself to the waist in a big tub of lube! Think that would be enough? I'm thinking so...

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RE: Fisting - 11/16/2008 3:12:21 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

Hey, if he loses a glove in you, he has the wrong sized gloves or tiny hands ;)

i love you can i worship at your feet lookinglovinglyatyourfaceandotherbits?

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RE: Fisting - 11/16/2008 3:23:05 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: kiwisub12

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

Hey, if he loses a glove in you, he has the wrong sized gloves or tiny hands ;)

i love you can i worship at your feet lookinglovinglyatyourfaceandotherbits?

I swear, there is no glove lost where you are looking, honestly....

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RE: Fisting - 11/16/2008 3:27:30 PM

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For a big man my hands are on the small size so I have had good success rate in fisting...I have only played with two women that I haven't been able to fist...I would put that onto one young 18 and inexperienced,the other was up tight and unable to relax...Lots of good oral and hard banging sex should sorta pave the road .....Diane has several male subs that she will fist every once in a while, she has very small hands those sucker pop right in...Keys to good fisting is relaxing and oh yeah lots of lube...

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RE: Fisting - 11/16/2008 4:14:27 PM

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I cant believe nobody has mentioned using LOTS AND LOTS of lube, yet?

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RE: Fisting - 11/16/2008 4:17:15 PM

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

I cant believe nobody has mentioned using LOTS AND LOTS of lube, yet?

NO they haven't greedy but I suppose inm a pinch you could always spit on your fist......

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RE: Fisting - 11/16/2008 4:19:06 PM

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*snort*

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RE: Fisting - 11/16/2008 4:19:31 PM

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Position matters too. I can't take something that big standing up, or even lying down unless my knees are up.

The only two postions that work for me are on my back with my feet tucked close to my butt. If my legs are up or over my head it doesn't work. An ankle-to-thigh tie that allows my knees to flop outwards works good for me. Otherwise I need to be on my front, with my knees close together enough to provide support. If I'm totally splayed it doesn't work either. I need to be able to squirm around enough to help out. It's like there's one certain posture that lets my pelvis open up enough, but it's like the three bears and thier porridge: somewhere between not enough and too much.

I'm pretty small though, never had kids either so it's only workable with a slender hand.

Oh yeah, make sure he/she isn't wearing a ring or anything. You think that would be obvious, but I made that mistake... but only once.

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RE: Fisting - 11/16/2008 4:50:56 PM

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The Man wears a 2XX glove, huge hands. He's never going to be able to fist me. there just isn't enough room.

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RE: Fisting - 11/16/2008 4:52:12 PM

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ummm - you forgot to mention the ---- drumroll ------ lube!!!!

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RE: Fisting - 11/16/2008 4:55:14 PM

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

The Man wears a 2XX glove, huge hands. He's never going to be able to fist me. there just isn't enough room.

Not unless you get your own echo ;)

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