persephonee
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everyones advice is on the right track...its just that there are some problems mentally with fisting....women worried about being all stretched out...the ramifications of having someone else know that its physically possible for someone to insert an entire fist inside you...yadayada....
Fisting/stretching/filling...very common practices and wants. There should be no emotional baggage dragging a person back away from something they want to do. i swear to all that is holy that i have been doing this for years and am just as tight as i ever was....it will go back to where it was...kegels help, and speed that along, but its completely doable and the potential harm is much less than some other activities i hear people doing on a routine basis.
Anyone can be fisted...the most common excuses i hear...i have a tipped uterus and that interferes with fisting. i havent had kids yet so im not big enough to to that. my pelvis is too small.....the list goes on but it kind of gives me a headache to think about it.
im biased, but i find fisting to be best when done by a woman as her hands and fist span is smaller and there is more room for her to really get moving in there once the fun starts.
Fisting can take time, but it doesnt have to be a 3 week process....someone stated it was a 2hour session for her...that sounds about right. The body is more receptive after orgasm and during...so sex before hand is a good idea, but sometimes the friction from fucking swells the tissues that you are later going to be trying to move around in, so i would suggest that the fucking happen afterward...more to the point, your partner should pack a picnic lunch and plan to stay down there for an extended period of time. Oral and digital stimulation is the best prep. Lots of lube close at hand...i find that its the biggest part of the fist and then once its in, whatever is still outside the body that needs the extra lube...i once had someone try to squirt the lube directly into me....like my vagina was the problem....nope....its the fist, trust me.
Taking a lot of time with 2-3-4 fingers circling and stretching out the opening and then moving internally to massage the cervix and especially to stimulate the gspot repeatedly...take your time and explore the area...all the while prepping it for invasion. Circular movements while applying slow steady pressure to insert is the most effective movement to try to get into a pattern....slow and steady progress with a lot of checking in and vibrator to the clit is always helpful...not a big intense vibration but enough to keep her excited during the slower parts and be able to ramp it up when necessary to have the orgasms help...its a slow process but fun...and worth it.
There are lots of references for this activity in almost all the sex guides...happy fisting.
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perse
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