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What makes a wannabe in your eyes - 11/17/2008 6:52:44 PM   
JoyfulMistress


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As we all have different tastes and experiences I thought it would be interesting to see what is on your personal check list of * you MAY be talking with a wanna be/wanker*
 
Guess I will start ...
 if the person I am talking to is all about their genitals when we talk ...
if the cannot respect My request of what they can call me... (I ask what they wish to be called and make a point of calling them that... I would hope for the same but sadly have been disappointed )
did I mention the ones that won't stop talking about how their genitals ??
The ones that think I should be always in the head space to make slaves lick my boots... (heads up not all Dommes/Mistress/Tops etc wear boots.. I have fun in chucks aka Converse... )
gosh this list is getting longer by the moment .... I will jump to the bottom
if the person cannot see me as a person but rather a mean male bashing womanizing b*tch .. yeah ... they might be a wanker ...
 
 
okay so who else wants to share their lists?
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RE: What makes a wannabe in your eyes - 11/17/2008 7:12:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		It's when they ask if I let my boys cum.
It's when they ask what I wear when I play.
It's when they ask if I play while naked.
It's when they say how they can service me orally for hours.
It's when their train of thought seems all about my sexual pleasure even though they've been told that may never happen between us, in any form.
Etc.
Etc.
Etc.

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RE: What makes a wannabe in your eyes - 11/17/2008 7:21:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		I never see anyone as a "wannabe"..just someone who is simply incompatible with my personality.

One's wannabe is another's dream.

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RE: What makes a wannabe in your eyes - 11/17/2008 7:31:36 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: JoyfulMistress
 * you MAY be talking with a wanna be/wanker* 


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RE: What makes a wannabe in your eyes - 11/17/2008 7:31:46 PM   
rachel529


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Status: offline 		sex can have bdsm, bdsm can have sex.  the two dont necessarily have to coexist.  most wannabes dont realize this, and its obvious from their juvenile comments.

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RE: What makes a wannabe in your eyes - 11/17/2008 7:31:48 PM   
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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

I never see anyone as a "wannabe"..just someone who is simply incompatible with my personality.

One's wannabe is another's dream.

Exactly :) I've had people call me wannabe for incredibly silly reasons such as having my own definitions and opinions for some things or not having the kind of relationship that they judged "normal". In the end, it always comes down to having different views and/or interests and that's pretty much it. Of course, everyone runs into some folks that we find silly or annoying but they could very well be ideal partners for some other people...

I think as long as a person is honest to themselves then they are real no matter what other people may think of them :)

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RE: What makes a wannabe in your eyes - 11/17/2008 7:39:54 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

I never see anyone as a "wannabe"..just someone who is simply incompatible with my personality.

One's wannabe is another's dream.



Yep, this is how I see it as well.

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RE: What makes a wannabe in your eyes - 11/17/2008 7:50:58 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't think I have ever used the term wannabe... wanker... troll... sex addict... yup... I've used those! lol I have seen people use bdsm as a way to be a player.  I think in that situation I might be tempted to call them a wannabe.

I find the men seeking a mistress-play-toy types disgusting and the signs of those... too many to list! lol  But the main focus tends to be them and sex.

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RE: What makes a wannabe in your eyes - 11/17/2008 8:13:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		Haven't got a clue what makes a wannabe. I prefer to use my energy and time looking for the positive in people, not the negative.

Just saying.

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RE: What makes a wannabe in your eyes - 11/17/2008 9:14:38 PM   
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RE: What makes a wannabe in your eyes - 11/17/2008 9:15:02 PM   
greeneyedreamer


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Status: offline 		lots of negative comments, but really I perceive most wannabe's listed as just inexperienced, ignorant of what happens. Maybe they are intrigued, or want to find out more so they ask naive questions, I don't remember being born with a BDSM handbook in my hand LOL

Just my own opinion...

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RE: What makes a wannabe in your eyes - 11/17/2008 11:55:23 PM   
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Repost - Someones wannabe or fake is someone elses somebody.  It's incompatability, not another label.
For me, someone who posts lists would be pretty much a turnoff.
 
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RE: What makes a wannabe in your eyes - 11/17/2008 11:57:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: stella41b
I prefer to use my energy and time looking for the positive in people, not the negative.


Yeah but stella, you are one in a million.
 
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RE: What makes a wannabe in your eyes - 11/18/2008 12:56:03 AM   
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RE: What makes a wannabe in your eyes - 11/18/2008 1:04:53 AM   
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RE: What makes a wannabe in your eyes - 11/18/2008 4:25:50 AM   
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Status: offline 		Since I've been called a wannabe and a fake, I don't like to do it to others. I'm submissive to one, to the right one for me. I hope everyone else deserves the same courtesy.

What are immediate cues of incompatibility is a different story. In that, a dominant who says he will decide which of my hard limits he will or will not respect gets an immediate 'thanks but no thanks'.

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RE: What makes a wannabe in your eyes - 11/18/2008 4:45:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		I have never met in person, talked to  online or in person; this so called 'wannabe' that you refer to.

I have, however, come across others who are incompatible with  myself; physically, mentally and emotionally. This does not mean that they are 'wannabe's or fakes' though; it  simply means that we have different goals.

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RE: What makes a wannabe in your eyes - 11/18/2008 8:49:21 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: stella41b
Haven't got a clue what makes a wannabe. I prefer to use my energy and time looking for the positive in people, not the negative.


yeah, that.  Also what littlewonder said.

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RE: What makes a wannabe in your eyes - 11/18/2008 9:24:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		I kinda felt like a "wannabe" this morning... I have been waiting for my collar for a VERY long time now, and I finally got it.... bt this morning, I had to take it off.... My allergies were so bad, that I felt like I was suffocating.... It felt like it was too tight...

Feeling like I wasn't good enough isn't a good feeling.... I would never tell anyone that they are a "wannabe" and risk hurting thier feelings... I am a submissive, but I tend to tell Sweets what to do (in a playful kind of way).... He does things for me, and I do things for Him... He doesn't exactly order me around... and I don't exactly kneel at His {Nasty hobbit} feet.... Does that make us BOTH "wannabes"?  I don't think it does... We know what works for US... That doesn't mean that it works for everyone... Before Sweets and I got together, I hated how He always talked about sex... it was annoying... (And yes, he knows this.. lol) But Now, I am the one that brings it up more... He hasn't changed anything... So, see, Just because it's not something that YOU want, doesn't mean that SOMEONE out there doesn't think that they will be the PERFECT one for them...  So, I don't think that anyone is a wanna be.... Maybe someone wants to just be a bedroom subby, or Dom.... and not have ANYTHING like that in R/L.... Someone will find that is exactly what they want... Don't knock anyone.... Besides, I'm sure that YOU weren't always the wonderful and perfect one when you first got into the lifestyle....

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RE: What makes a wannabe in your eyes - 11/18/2008 9:27:54 AM   
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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

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Edited due to typing too fast for my own good.

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