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though I agree to point with the post that said it was likely more about the physical contact and her sensitivity than the words, I dare say the "pillow talk" exacerbated the event.

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ORIGINAL: sobayblackmaster

as an addendum to my previous post on the subject of keying in on the most sensitive part of the female body, I shared that my "initiation" onto D/s was primarily owed to a woman I was seeing who had a very sensitive clit. we used to spend a lot of time fooling around in her car (she never wore panties), and it got to the point-as I became more bold, where I pretty much trained her to cum on command.

among the subs/slaves out there (or doms/masters), have any of you experienced that level, where between direct stimulation of the clitoris and harsh verbal instructions-you can cum on command?

yep as long as they coinside with my body being ready and me not able to fight it back i sometimes could even come on command even if i was ralled up and never touched but that harsh "Cum Pet" growl of my master or how ever master would say it to my wimpers of on edge would make me cum in certain situations.

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Dang I really see what NV was talking about.

Yes- most chicks are faking it, no matter what they say

Yes- submission has nothing necessarily to do with it

Yes- it's not really anything other than a nice parlor trick and most people use it to show off and get an ego trip

Yes- most of the time people are talking about delayed or controlled orgasms, not on command

But sheesh people- to deny that it exists and that people can and do orgasm immediately from command with no pre thought, no pre touch when they are in an emotionally and spiritually balanced place?  That's just silly.  Of course it exists, it's just not common and not really a big deal.

going forward I'll choose my words more carefully. "on command" never meant instantaneously. thanks all for another lively repartee.

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ORIGINAL: graceadieu

If we're talking about being on the edge and denied an orgasm, and then coming within moments when told to..... yes, I can and do. In fact, that's pretty much the only way I get one these days, unless I'm doing it myself.

But like others on here, I wouldn't consider that coming on command - I think of coming on command as doing it basically from a cold start. And while I'm sure that's possible, I think it'd require some serious conditioning training (think Pavlov's dogs) and probably a sub that's receptive to stuff like hypnotic suggestion.

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ORIGINAL: NoFury

"what I find most fascinating is the number of responses that took me so literally as to believe that I think mere words alone can drive a woman to orgasm. what a talent to covet! "  Before reading through the thread, I took your original statement the same way because when I have seen this "trick" "performed," that's always the way it's been played out.  The Dom may have performed some bondage and/or corporal punishment on the sub, who is then commanded to "cum" and who obligingly does.

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ORIGINAL: NoFury

I find it interesting that I've never heard a male claim to be able to "cum on command." Has anyone else? And if so, was the male erect when the command was given? And, if no one else has heard of men "cumming on command," why do you suppose the gender-based disparity?

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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

There have been some threads on here about this; in one of them, someone pointed out that male orgasm is not the same thing as ejaculation...but the thread didn't get much further, if I remember correctly.

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So again, any men here able to "cum on command" -- with or without ejaculation?  Men in general, what is your experience with cumming without ejaculation -- other than the multi-orgasmic, fluid-deprived kind of thing.  Happen often? sometimes? never?

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ORIGINAL: mistoferin

Sure I can....just so long as the command comes at the same exact moment I am about to cum.

I have had quite a few girlfriends who swore on their mother's graves that they could cum on command.....only to have them confide to me later that they really could do no such thing and that they were stroking their dominant's ego by faking it.

lol. you made my morning! thanks for being honest. I really think this lady was extraordinary, however once the precedent was set my hunger took root.

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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

Nope, I haven't ever be able to accomplish that particular feat and I've got a hair trigger clit myself. I've attended public play parties for a couple of decades now and have never witnessed it being done although there was this time at APEX where I saw it (obviously) faked but apparently the dom in question was so cool ::koffs:: that everyone just oohed and aahed and bought into it hook, line and sinker. It just made me roll my eyes. That said, I don't need physical stimulation to have an orgasm.. I can get there with just my brain, but it takes a good long time and seems sort of pointless to spend that much time just to have an orgasm. Someone else getting me to cum without some sort of direct stimulation has never happened and I don't anticipate it at this late in the game. Aroused, sure.. actual orgasm, nope.

I can't be hypnotized either.  

More power to those that can get there from here. I think it would be kind of funny to make the command word some sort of mundane, every day word like .. I don't know.. lettuce. Then ya go to the produce aisle and see if it really works. ::chuckles::

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Sure I can....just so long as the command comes at the same exact moment I am about to cum.

I have had quite a few girlfriends who swore on their mother's graves that they could cum on command.....only to have them confide to me later that they really could do no such thing and that they were stroking their dominant's ego by faking it.

lol. you made my morning! thanks for being honest. I really think this lady was extraordinary, however once the precedent was set my hunger took root.

  I have to ask...HOW do you know she actually cums?  Because she says so or some other indicators?  Remember, Meg in When Harry Met Sally  was very convincing.  I agree with mistoferin.