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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

i havent read the whole thread.. possibly because its been discussed before.  but.. here is my world on cumming on command.

i do it, have for years and years.  the whole flushing, panting, moaning, drenched between my legs, ect.  i dont need to be touched, or worked up.  it can happen when i am happy, sad, mad, yelling and screaming.. doesnt matter.  if it has been long enough between orgasms, i will even squirt.  i have had men command me to cum in my sleep, and i wake up to a full blown orgasm and im ready to get busy.

this connection was established initially over the phone.. to both our surprises... then its translated to on line.. wow.. a shock that a typed word could get a response.  when i flew to california to meet him, it was my first test.  he barked the command into my ear as we were getting into his car.  he was well pleased with the response.  since then, this man and i have parted ways, and it seems i am highly sexual.  others have been able to produce the same results.

no, i dont require stimulation.  but there does have to be a trust on some level.

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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

lol.. sorry.. just edited that post ~winks~

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

I always cum on command!  But I guess it doesn't count when you are playing with yourself.

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ORIGINAL: vanessa73

Interesting subject, i can cum on command, but only during stimulation or right after,  or after being denied orgasm several times.  i can't imagine what it would be like to be able to without any stimulation, how amazing that would be.  In the beginning of my training, i had to have a special mental connection with my Master, that type of connection is no longer necessary as long as there is physical stimulation.  Now to cum at any time that would be excellent, but i think i'll probably learn to pull a rabbit out of a hat before that happens!

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ORIGINAL: vanessa73

about pulling a rabbit out of a hat?  haven't learned that one yet. lol. 
As far as cumming on command i may be in the baby stages of it, but i think it would be fairly easy for anyone to learn or teach. i think any girl could probably even teach herself. In the beginning he would keep his finger in my ass to "time" muscle spasms.  There's also no way for your girl to fake it that way.  Are you wanting to learn how to train your girl or just interested if it's possible?

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ORIGINAL: vanessa73

Well, i think it would be fairly easy to train any woman.  at least it was with me.  i'm currently trying to show my new Master how to train his wife to do this.  (the way i was trained) i had never realized how fun it could be to teach :) It's easier being on top and of course always asking to cum.  Not being allowed, which is so difficult if peaking.  He would stop me from moving until the urge was going away(if i was disobedient and did cum he would stop completely and bend me over his knee) but if i was able to hold off  then he would start again slowly.  After being denied several times, and succeeding he would pull me down really hard and tell me to.  that's how it started.  It takes pretty awesome self control,  i still can't understand how the mention of a word could do it with no stimulation.  i'm also wondering what technique could be used to teach a man this.  I'm not a switch at all, but seems like it would be fun to learn. Do you have any input on that? i think it would still be possble to be sub and achieve this, if Master is openminded about it.  Do you have any suggestions on how a sub could approach the subject?  It's crazy but i feel a little selfish, it seems like the sub gets so much more sexually, i know it's pleasing to him, but i would think it would be even more pleasing if he could have more quantity(and quality) in his orgasms as well.   aaah the delimma.  lol.