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RE: Beaten into submission - 12/8/2008 7:51:45 PM

DesFIP

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I had the discussion over the weekend about what would happen to submissives who couldn’t find Doms. I, too, feel many would end up in abusive situations.

I don't think that subs without dom/mes find themselves in abusive relationships. I think masochists without trustworthy sadists do. If it's a pain thing, you need the pain to get someplace then you'll look for someone to provide you with the pain. Okay, you may not get off on the pain but if you seek out pain, I think you more closely fit into the masochist label than not.

Although it ought to go without saying, that obviously one can be both.

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RE: Beaten into submission - 12/9/2008 4:29:10 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

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ORIGINAL: ExSteelAgain

I had the discussion over the weekend about what would happen to submissives who couldn’t find Doms. I, too, feel many would end up in abusive situations.

I don't think that subs without dom/mes find themselves in abusive relationships. I think masochists without trustworthy sadists do. If it's a pain thing, you need the pain to get someplace then you'll look for someone to provide you with the pain. Okay, you may not get off on the pain but if you seek out pain, I think you more closely fit into the masochist label than not.

Although it ought to go without saying, that obviously one can be both.

Even I, who does not identify as a masochist, would have to agree with what you said here.

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RE: Beaten into submission - 12/9/2008 6:22:28 AM

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Well, I'm not surprised. The person I was talking with didn't agree either. Matter of fact, she told me, "I bet you wouldn't say that on CM."

Ha, guess I showed her.

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RE: Beaten into submission - 12/9/2008 8:01:14 AM

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In all honesty, in the terms of straight reality, this is horrifying.

I've been there. I submitted because it was easier than the torture I was being put through.

In a kink, SCENE sense, I suppose this can be fun... Consensual would be the key there.

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