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RE: I feel compelled to ask, are you serious? - 1/20/2009 6:47:18 AM

IrishMist

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In my experience, it's a basic equation, the more extreme the profile, the less experience...

If this is your experience, then perhaps you are reading and corresponding with the wrong people.

My profile is almost completely blank, but that's because I am not looking for anyone. However, if I was to fill it out it would include things like....extreme gun play, extreme cutting and bloodletting, extreme scarification, extreme breath play, ...it would also state that I enjoy abuse...in it's most extreme form...I like to be punched, kicked thrown...you name, I like it.

Yet, for all my extremes, everything that I have listed above is something that I have been through, had done to me, and would gladly do again...and I have been this way for over 20 years.

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RE: I feel compelled to ask, are you serious? - 1/20/2009 7:54:01 AM

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this reminds me of the other post about the girl who fantasized about being used and then when she was wondered why she felt disgusted by the whole thing.

yes, i have written a 'are you serious?" email to people. even though i do believe in the 'live and let live' i just had questions. some interesting responses.

the one that scared me the most was a Dom who liked to break his slaves ankles and then watch her serve him in pain.

He was very serious about it, but had yet to find a girl willing to him do it. (go figure)

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RE: I feel compelled to ask, are you serious? - 1/20/2009 7:58:40 AM

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ORIGINAL: sparkyRBF

this reminds me of the other post about the girl who fantasized about being used and then when she was wondered why she felt disgusted by the whole thing.

yes, i have written a 'are you serious?" email to people. even though i do believe in the 'live and let live' i just had questions. some interesting responses.

the one that scared me the most was a Dom who liked to break his slaves ankles and then watch her serve him in pain.

He was very serious about it, but had yet to find a girl willing to him do it. (go figure)

sparkyRBF

LOL I have had broken bones, but not done deliberatly...they happened in the ummm...heat of the moment lol. Though, I have been deliberatly cut and stabbed for no other reason then he could.

I really feel no shock or disgust when I see a profile that goes to extremes...it takes all kinds and despite what many think or feel...there is always someone, somewhere, who matches your own extremes.

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RE: I feel compelled to ask, are you serious? - 1/20/2009 10:54:21 AM

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Irish,

Yet as you stated above, you don't advertise your extremes in your profile... which supports the point your arguing against...

Also, there are exceptions to every rule, if you are the exception, be flattered, but that doen't change the truth about the majority...

Lastly, being someone into such extremes, do you think it's sensible to start advertising your looking for someone to kick you, beat you and stab you on a SM dating site? If you chose to do so what % of the people responding do you feel would be people capable of safely satisifying your desires?

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RE: I feel compelled to ask, are you serious? - 1/20/2009 11:15:39 AM

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Yet as you stated above, you don't advertise your extremes in your profile... which supports the point your arguing against...

And which point would I be arguing?

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Also, there are exceptions to every rule, if you are the exception, be flattered, but that doen't change the truth about the majority...

Sorry to bust your bubble nutty boy...but I am in no way an exception...nor does it change the fact that it is extremely rude to email someone asking them 'are you serious?" simply because they enjoy something that you do not.

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Lastly, being someone into such extremes, do you think it's sensible to start advertising your looking for someone to kick you, beat you and stab you on a SM dating site? If you chose to do so what % of the people responding do you feel would be people capable of safely satisifying your desires?

Being such a nitwit, you will have to come back and explain this to me a bit more...I am a bit confuzzled as to what you are exactly trying to say.

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RE: I feel compelled to ask, are you serious? - 1/20/2009 1:48:19 PM

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No need to reduce this to name calling...

"Arguing" may have been the wrong word... but you are challenging the suggestion that most people who request extremes have little to no experience... I make that statement based on your above post(s)...

It was suggested that most people who request extreme requests have little to no experience... you have ample experience... If it is true that most people who request the extremes have little to no experience, then you are the exception...

The last part is explained very clearly in proper english... No need to restate it...

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RE: I feel compelled to ask, are you serious? - 1/26/2009 11:39:39 AM

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When I see these types of posts, as you speak of, I just laugh because of the outlandishness of it all. However, I did practice leaving a slave caged over night, hanging from the rafters. I've given a girl an all night session as a cum cow and that of being tormented with a fucking machine, though she had breaks in between of course. My girls never had rights. Okay, before I get nailed left and right with flying fists, in this case, rights meaning she wasn't allowed to refuse my advances, nor the right to refuse sex with a slave sister unless for medical reason. Things of that nature. As to being chained...does being chained to my desk for 8 hours (I work inside the home) and being granted permission for bathroom use and meal time only, count?

Many people come into the lifestyle based on something they read in a book. They feel they will meet this fantasy, but will in turn come up against some pretty strong reasonable and intelligent people and once they learn what type of work they must do and the knowledge they need, they take exit out the door and go on to some other site that is easier for them to fulfill this dream.

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