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RE: is an 18 year old sub too young for a 30 year old dom? - 2/1/2009 2:21:16 PM

eponastar

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When I first entered the scene I was about your age. My first Dominant was 38, he is still to this day a close and cherished friend of mine. Age is un-important, and should not be a factor in the relationship if the emotion there is genuine. Follow your heart. If its meant to be, it will happen, if not, well, don't regret anything. There is always something to learn.

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RE: is an 18 year old sub too young for a 30 year old dom? - 2/1/2009 3:31:06 PM

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No darling, I love my 20 year old boys LOL
And I am 35.
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RE: is an 18 year old sub too young for a 30 year old dom? - 2/1/2009 4:48:52 PM

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ORIGINAL: lilmisssubmiss

I'm really interested in this 30 year old guy...he's unlike any other dom i've ever talked too...i really do like him . The only thing that seems to be getting in the way is the age difference..but in the end when i'm like 20 something and he's in his 30's do people even pay that much attention to age anymore?
what do you guys think?

I just don't know...............i really like him.

Interesting question and ill need to read through the replies but for now i can only give you my limited experience to see if you can draw anything from it.

I began to get to know a slave in online chat and we clicked very quickly and started to talk on the phone(both making our minds up if meeting was a good idea as we live about 300 miles from each other) with both of us seeing where it was going and there was definately a sexual chemistry there.
But i was really uncomfortable with her age (I was 42 at the timeshe was a very beautiful 22 year old girl)...anyhows we had a misunderstanding on the phone one night over something which cooled things quite a bit (which as in fact more down to me than her)

We had a break for a week or two as she had to go to visit a sick relative but on her return we continued talking but this time it was more with a view of friendship in mind rather than any lifestyle dynamic being in mind.

Id have to say that we are now very good friends with neither of us wishing anymore than friendship from the other but id have to say she is an incredible person full of wisdom and with enough r/t experience in the lifestyle that we have enjoyed some very deep conversations and just now simply enjoy occasinally talking with each other.

Are you too young or he too old?? i would say its more about how both your minds work together rather than how many years apart those minds are

good luck whatever you both decide

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RE: is an 18 year old sub too young for a 30 year old dom? - 2/1/2009 4:55:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: feydeplume

Thank you for taking the time and effort to type that. I feel a bit silly getting bitchy about it, honestly.

Yes a lot of my early WIITWD relationship didn't last for a lifetime, but they weren't supposed to. It was about learning and growing and having a ton of good sex. So they worked out for me (and i would like to think for my partners) for what we wanted out of them.

Relationships are hard and complicated and wonderful and strange at any age, i guess.

Reading that, I imagine I am in a church where the minister shouts out -- "do I hear an Amen?!" And I immediately leap to my feet and respond: "Amen!"

you made a nuanced point which was worth making.

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