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Daddysredhead -> RE: black/racial domination (2/1/2009 4:25:55 PM)

Tulip,
You'll be picking me up from the airport Thursday.  Maybe we can drive around and see what we can find and who we can do?

~ Red




dreamerdreaming -> RE: black/racial domination (2/1/2009 4:32:20 PM)

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ORIGINAL: UPSG


You read to much into what I said.

I've got nothing against her acquiring a Black dom. What I suggested was that she be cautious.

Anyone from the inner-cities is aware - at least I think so - of the popularity over the last several decades of young, White, women or teenage girls, cruising several in a car down high traffic areas of the Black inner-cities. My impression is that many of them think the inner-cities are like what they see on MTV. That's my impression. They giggle asking directions and think they're entering a world of "honor" like some Godfather like movie they see on TV. What is regarded as "honor" is much different then what they see on TV. When they end up on all fours with a group of more vicious young men standing, encircling them, watching a pit bull fuck them, then they might learn that the only honorable thing around here is to strike hard a fast and to keep quite after bodies are buried.

Not every young man is like that in the inner-city, in fact I would say the vast majority aren't that vicious to do something of that nature. However, there are some out there like that, and it would behoove a person to be aware they do exist.

Now, everyone is free to their own opinion, I was only offering a suggestion (and I'll admit I can see how it could be misconstrued due to some of my diction and tone). Would it help if I were to add - cede - that in the inner-cities one can also find some big sisterly and big brotherly figures that will charitably extend advise and protection to you? Those are more the types of figures I would suggest she try and find.

But like you infer, I might be underestimating both her life experience and her "smarts." Possibly she is "smarter" than me [shrug] I don't know. 



This post is against TOS.




lronitulstahp -> RE: black/racial domination (2/1/2009 4:39:01 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

Tulip,
You'll be picking me up from the airport Thursday.  Maybe we can drive around and see what we can find and who we can do?

~ Red
You trying to give The TDHO a reason to kick my ass????  Not to mention the call from DB shortly following[8|].  Nah! i know my limits....




UPSG -> RE: black/racial domination (2/1/2009 5:13:55 PM)

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

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ORIGINAL: UPSG
When they end up on all fours with a group of more vicious young men standing, encircling them, watching a pit bull fuck them,

I've been in a lot of housing projects, and (for example) spent a lot of time in the "lower bottom" of west Oakland, before the city started gentrifying it.  So (1) a lot of residents of those projects are Vietnamese or Lao, not just black.  There are even low-income white people in the United States, believe it or not.  But also (2) I've seen a variety of things that I can't mention because of TOS issues, but young men passing gash to their animals when they could have an extra piece for themselves?  Never even heard of it happening.


So, you've never heard it happening and therefore it doesn't? Learned that in a course on logic did ya?

And I'm aware there are many impoverished White-Americans throughout the USofA. Some belong to the Simon City Royals in the urbanized Midwest. I think the larger part may live throughout the many small towns of America though. As for Asians, in my part of the Midwest the more impoverished ones tend to be Hmong. I don't know a lot about the Asians though as they tend to keep to themselves.

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You've been watching "Hostel-The Ghetto Version" or something.  The poorest black neighborhoods in the country are also the most churched neighborhoods in the country.  People fight for their ethics and morals against tremendous odds.  I agree with NCNutcase's position.  Be cautious -- but not a fucking paranoid whackjob -- and have fun.


No, I have my own view point and know what I know. I don't know Crips for example, that would be another city's story - perhaps an Oakland story. I'm familiar GD's and VL's and a little bit with the LK's because that what's where I'm at. Your knowledge and experiences may be different and that's fine.

"The most churched"? [sm=lol.gif] Are you talking about all the store-front churches popping up everywhere like liquor stores? I got news for ya...the Klan was extremely "churched" throughout the South and I'd bet money La Cosa Nostra throughout the Chicago suburb of Cicero was well "churched" as well. From Palermo, Sicily to Birmingham, Alabama these "most churched" areas haven't seem to stop their local cultures from developing into fertile grounds for thugism. So, you'll for give me if I don't have stars in my eyes or rose colored glass on when looking at these competeing store front churches - sometimes two or more to a block - filled mainly with older women, and sometimes little children.

The El Rukins are particularly religious in general. I believe usually via the "Hebrew Isrealite" doctrines and or whatever the hell they believe in the Moorish Science Temple (or whatever it's called). VL's (Vice Lords) tend to (not always but tend to) be religious as well. From my experience mainly via Islam.

The most ethical, and kind place I've ever been is in a very small town made up of predominately Whites, in Wisconsin. The people leave their doors unlock and they actually help one another. Very interesting. Very different.

But this has all drifted way off topic and I tire talking about it. Essentially people will have their own opinions. I realize Political Correctness is fairly well adhered to today, for better or worse reasons, and that is fine. If it was my intention of making Black men look extraordinarily bad, all I would have had to do was to go to statstics on Black on White violence and rape rates. I never did that. Personally, I thought my posts were fairly tempered and balanced - granted they were tained with my own ancedotal experiences or "know ofs" but I'm only human and we all draw are knowledge from those things. Plus I wasn't preparing a solidly objective report for some social science study.




RedMagic1 -> RE: black/racial domination (2/1/2009 6:03:39 PM)

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ORIGINAL: UPSG
So, you've never heard it happening and therefore it doesn't? Learned that in a course on logic did ya?

I've done original work in mathematical logic.  Not many people would choose to call me weak in that area.

You look foolish when you present a fantastical urban legend and then blow smoke when I call bullshit.  You are welcome to provide a link to a single example, from the media, from oral histories collected by community organizations, or from police reports, that backs up your claim.  You won't do it, though, because you can't.




Daddysredhead -> RE: black/racial domination (2/1/2009 6:18:12 PM)

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ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp

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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

Tulip,
You'll be picking me up from the airport Thursday.  Maybe we can drive around and see what we can find and who we can do?

~ Red
You trying to give The TDHO a reason to kick my ass????  Not to mention the call from DB shortly following[8|].  Nah! i know my limits....


Twue...  let's just go home and assemble wedding favors and talk dirty to one another.  [;)]




MsEmpwr2 -> RE: black/racial domination (2/1/2009 6:38:48 PM)

I get many request from white s type males who want to be dominated by Me because I am a black female. I am not into that so I decline. I know that what you seek exist.




Tinkerer -> RE: black/racial domination (2/1/2009 6:40:33 PM)

I think what it all boils down to is this: regardless of who you get with, make sure you know them VERY well before you engage in a D/s relation of any real depth. There are good people out there of all races, and there are a lot of bad people out there of all races. After all, it seems like most serial killers share the same race as myself (white), so your not really any safer with them, now are you?

Be safe, and use your head.

-Tinkerer




lronitulstahp -> RE: black/racial domination (2/1/2009 6:47:10 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

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ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp

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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

Tulip,
You'll be picking me up from the airport Thursday.  Maybe we can drive around and see what we can find and who we can do?

~ Red
You trying to give The TDHO a reason to kick my ass????  Not to mention the call from DB shortly following[8|].  Nah! i know my limits....


Twue...  let's just go home and assemble wedding favors and talk dirty to one another.  [;)]
Just talk dirty????*sigh* ok.............[&o]




Daddysredhead -> RE: black/racial domination (2/1/2009 7:18:48 PM)

Tulip... that was code speak for [sm=couple.gif]   [sm=flash.gif]   [sm=sex.gif].

(didn't want them to think we were yanno... gettin' busy)  [;)]




chamberqueen -> RE: black/racial domination (2/1/2009 8:20:32 PM)

littleannie, I am a white female slave to a black Master.  We both enjoy the irony in the fact that our roles are reversed from what they would have been in the past.  I was initially drawn to him by his color but what made me his slave was his personality.  Sometimes we highlight the color difference, other times ignore it. 

It is not uncommon to want to live out this type of fantasy and there is nothing at all wrong with it as long as both partners know what's going on and agree.  I love his mind and heart - the ethnicity is just a bonus.  I would never entrust my mind, heart, body and soul to someone just because of skin color.  There's absolutely nothing wrong with exploring and seeing if you can get the right combination of what most turns you on along with someone that you know will truly be a good Dom for you.




UPSG -> RE: black/racial domination (2/1/2009 9:30:00 PM)

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

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ORIGINAL: UPSG
So, you've never heard it happening and therefore it doesn't? Learned that in a course on logic did ya?

I've done original work in mathematical logic.  Not many people would choose to call me weak in that area.


Your comments were predicated not on mathematical logic but sentential or propositional logic. For a deductive argument be valid all premises and conclusions must be true. It is a logical fallacy that something has not happened or does not exist if RedMagic1 has not heard of it.

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You look foolish when you present a fantastical urban legend and then blow smoke when I call bullshit.  You are welcome to provide a link to a single example, from the media, from oral histories collected by community organizations, or from police reports, that backs up your claim.  You won't do it, though, because you can't.


You are the one looking foolish, especially since you seem incapable of distinguishing between anecdotal knowledge (and oral reports passed on) and scientifically gathered data (or documented reports e.g. news and police reports).






Godhand502 -> RE: black/racial domination (2/1/2009 10:44:07 PM)

Actually, its not far out at all. I get lots of request for those types of scenes quite frequently. I take them on a case-by-case basis. I have no problem fulfilling these fantasies, since its just preference. Nothing strange about it.




RedMagic1 -> RE: black/racial domination (2/2/2009 6:39:24 AM)

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ORIGINAL: UPSG
Your comments were predicated not on mathematical logic but sentential or propositional logic. For a deductive argument be valid all premises and conclusions must be true. It is a logical fallacy that something has not happened or does not exist if RedMagic1 has not heard of it.

Dude.  For a deductive argument to be sound, all premises and conclusions must be true.  For the argument to be valid, each step in the argument must be well formed in the axiom structure and the inference rules.  The truth value of the axioms themselves is not relevant to validity.  Be careful when throwing big words around on an international message board, because sometimes you're talking to an expert, and the expert can tell when you're talking through your hat.

Moreover, the OP was asking a question about real life.  In real life, inductive inference and heuristics are key.  If young black men, with any frequency whatsoever, did the TOS-able thing you claim, there would be some written record, available through some rape crisis center or police department.  Your inability to produce anything except blather indicates that you are blathering.

Bottom line: white women who want to date black men are not risking their lives by doing so.  And all your misuse of technical terms isn't going to make it more dangerous to date interracially.




ExSteelAgain -> RE: black/racial domination (2/2/2009 8:20:15 AM)

Geez, all this logic stuff. I never got past, the red cars have more accidents, thing in school.




RedMagic1 -> RE: black/racial domination (2/2/2009 8:24:30 AM)

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ORIGINAL: ExSteelAgain

Geez, all this logic stuff. I never got past, the red cars have more accidents, thing in school.

Yeah.  I apologize to everyone reading this thread, for subjecting you all to this nerdy smackdown.  I'll try to be less uncool tomorrow.




MadRabbit -> RE: black/racial domination (2/2/2009 8:27:01 AM)

Well, wow, I was going to swoop in to play the role of wise, benevolevent Internet mentor (masking, of course, my real intentions of trying to look at the titties of a young submissive poster) and educate the naive girl with a whole host of over-the-top and laughable racial stereotypes, but UPAG has pretty much got that covered.

Instead, let me deal with the question of whether or not it's racist to want a black dominant. We, as people, regularly select a whole variety of criteria for potential partners ranging from body weight to attractiveness level to education level to income to breast size. Wanting a black partner is really no different then wanting a partner who isn't obese, in that sense. Shallow? Maybe, but not really "wrong".

Of course, if the line is crossed from black skin being merely a criteria among many other criteria to dehumanizing a black person into a fetish object because of their skin, then that's a bit different.





UPSG -> RE: black/racial domination (2/2/2009 9:00:51 AM)

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

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ORIGINAL: UPSG
Your comments were predicated not on mathematical logic but sentential or propositional logic. For a deductive argument be valid all premises and conclusions must be true. It is a logical fallacy that something has not happened or does not exist if RedMagic1 has not heard of it.

Dude.  For a deductive argument to be sound, all premises and conclusions must be true.  For the argument to be valid, each step in the argument must be well formed in the axiom structure and the inference rules.  The truth value of the axioms themselves is not relevant to validity.  Be careful when throwing big words around on an international message board, because sometimes you're talking to an expert, and the expert can tell when you're talking through your hat.


I believe you are correct about that, in which case I stand corrected. It still holds however that it is a logical fallacy that something can not exist or happen if RedMagic1 has not heard of it.

It is the purpose of logic that one learn how to reason better. Your comments on deductive argument can likely be found online (I would suspect at least) because it is basic to courses in logic. I suspect that's where you found it, seeing as I had to point out to you the grammatical nature of your comments.

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Moreover, the OP was asking a question about real life.  In real life, inductive inference and heuristics are key.  If young black men, with any frequency whatsoever, did the TOS-able thing you claim, there would be some written record, available through some rape crisis center or police department.  Your inability to produce anything except blather indicates that you are blathering.


First off, I never insinuated it was some relatively frequent practice. I made it as a point of example, like a murder case of drug disputes in which a person had their eyes gauged out. That's not frequent, yet it is part of real life and has happened.

What I did suggest in my first post about young, White, women from the suburbs ending up prostituting in the inner-cities and being victimized had nothing to do with dogs. I never stated what I was thinking about. What was in my mind however are a few cases (mind you never brought to the police) I know of young chicks being beaten up (sometimes by Black females because they are white - at least that being the main motive) and gang rapes.

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Bottom line: white women who want to date black men are not risking their lives by doing so.  And all your misuse of technical terms isn't going to make it more dangerous to date interracially.


No shit. You can not find anywhere in this thread where that was a premises or conclusion of mine. In fact I believe I pointed that out several times. I have a White mother and Black father, still married, both alive.

I'm just giving my opinion as I see it. There are young Black-American women I have met in college who have traveled into the deep south, namely Mississippi. They tell me there are certain parts of the South (White areas) they still would caution Blacks strolling through without a care in the world. Are they being paranoid? You'll argue there are recorded police cases of Blacks being attacked by Whites. Yet, you can find police records of Whites being physically assaulted, by racial motivations, by Blacks up North. There was one case in particular I remember here in a suburb of Milwaukee maybe last year or so. Since you like police records, it would be interesting to see who has a higher rate of raping the opposite race, White men or Black men, in the United States. Would you care to provide recent data on that?


Had you read and understood my original post - or at least my latter explanations of what I was intending to try and say - you would have grasped that I was partly just offering advise for Little A to be cautious because she seemed to me to not have the cynicism and hardness etched into her face like many people that spend many years in the inner-cities (or at least people that have lots of life experience that builds distrust and even hardness). And I'll point out that I have already acknowledged that I probably have misjudged Little A in that respect.

However, far more learned men than me, have long been of the belief that a person's life experience and constitution can often find etching in persons face or stare. This may not always be true but from my personal experience I have found it often is. Many women that have endured incredibly hard lives, often seem to age faster. I remember seeing a famous photo of the Great Depression where I believe one mother in her 30's, looked as if she was in her 50's. It's been noted that the famous little, green-eyed, girl in Afghanistan, who once had rare and exceptional beauty, has aged extremely hard as a young woman.

Had Little A had a similar etched facial look in her photo as this White woman in the link below, I would figure her to have enough cynicism to easily figure out the men she's around. Of course I'm drawing on assumptions, but so what we all do it.

http://www.milwaukeemagazine.com/currentIssue/full_feature_story.asp?NewMessageID=18817&pf=yes




UPSG -> RE: black/racial domination (2/2/2009 9:08:56 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MadRabbit

Well, wow, I was going to swoop in to play the role of wise, benevolevent Internet mentor (masking, of course, my real intentions of trying to look at the titties of a young submissive poster) and educate the naive girl with a whole host of over-the-top and laughable racial stereotypes, but UPAG has pretty much got that covered.


Was it a racial stereotype in the 1950's in Mississippi that Black men should be careful talking to White women because they could risk lynching from White men? Most White men never lynched a Black man and so far as we can tell Black men have survived conversations with White women - presumably even sexual ones.

Is it a stereotype or unfair of me that I have found, through personal experience, to be careful about White men I choose to drink alcohol around (because from experience I've found some will begin to confide in you their racism)?




MadRabbit -> RE: black/racial domination (2/2/2009 9:10:25 AM)

On second thought, I think it's best that I come back and contribute my own list of "Top 5 Reasons White Girls Should Avoid Dating a Black Man".

Reason #1: The excessive diet of fried chicken will eventually lead to weight gain (particularly in the buttocks area) and heart disease.

Reason #2: The excessive diet of fried chicken will only be increased via the munchies caused by smoking blunts in the back of a Cadillac.

Reason #3: Driving in the Cadillac, which will most likely be an 86 model with 20 inch rims, will lead to increased frequency of harassment by the police.

Reason #4: The Cadillac will most likely be equipped with 18 inch sub woofers which will lead to hearing damage and impairment.

And the Number 1 Reason Why White Girls Should Avoid Dating Black Men....
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Everyone knows small white girls can't handle all that penis.




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