Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use, or someone to cherish?

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MidMichCowboy -> Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use, or someone to cherish? (2/2/2009 7:19:05 PM)
Why are you on CollarMe? Are you looking for people for scenes or play sessions? Are you looking for someone for sex with some kink? Do you want someone that will take care of you? Someone to make money from? Someone to support you or serve you? Or are you looking for someone to share your life with? I'm asking because as I perve profiles, I see people who seem to want a toy or object to use. I see others who seem to want to disappear from the world into a fantasy world. Some seem to want more and some don't seem to have any idea of what they want. So tell me please, what do you want and why?

T1981 -> RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use, or someone to cherish? (2/2/2009 7:22:26 PM)
My husband and I created a profile here to look for playmates to scene with, but found that it's actually easier to make friends with people first and THEN go onto the kinky stuff. (You'd think that would be a "duh" statement, but we didn't have that one figured out!) As a result, we've met a few really great people from Collarme and are hoping to meet more that we can play with. Once I discovered that CM had a messageboard, though, it was AAALLLLLL over. I'm a huge messageboard junkie, so now, as Gwyn has it in her sig, "I came for the boobs, but stayed for the brains!"

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use, or someone to cherish? (2/2/2009 7:22:48 PM)
I want good discussion forums. That's about it. Occasional hot pictures are fun.

DesFIP -> RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use, or someone to cherish? (2/2/2009 7:23:52 PM)
Another one who is just here for the fora.

NCNutCase -> RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use, or someone to cherish? (2/2/2009 7:27:28 PM)
I do rope bondage/suspension shows locally and like to make myself available to meet people either before or after I tie them up... I've recently become single again so naturally I'm also keeping an eye out to 'meet someone'... That may be a new play partner or something more... I have been active in the local scene to varying degrees and in a few places in the Carolinas. I like to meet others who are active to keep an idea of what's going on as and also like to be available to help other's in their quest to find out what's going on... Oh yea... then I found these danm forums that I too easily get sucked into...

GreedyTop -> RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use, or someone to cherish? (2/2/2009 7:30:51 PM)
Forums. THen I got surprised...LOL

dreamerdreaming -> RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use, or someone to cherish? (2/2/2009 7:31:30 PM)
I'm having a staring contest with chiaThePet.

littlewonder -> RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use, or someone to cherish? (2/2/2009 7:33:15 PM)
Just here to waste time when I can't sleep which is pretty much always. When I was single I was searching for a long term committed monogamous relationship with a dominant personality man. If I ever become single again then that's what I'll be searching for again. I have zero desire for anything less.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use, or someone to cherish? (2/2/2009 7:33:53 PM)
Playmates, friendships, semi-true love, heartbreak, new ideas... that's what I found here so far. I joined here so long ago, who knows what my intentions were!

RichieB -> RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use, or someone to cherish? (2/2/2009 7:35:27 PM)
I'm always looking for another female to use and abuse... Diane

VampiresLair -> RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use, or someone to cherish? (2/2/2009 7:36:42 PM)
I was on here to find someone, at first. Then I was interested in making friends. Now, Fox and I both make friends, and we are looking for the occasional model. I found my someone. Now, its just friends and forums for me. DV

MidMichCowboy -> RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use, or someone to cherish? (2/2/2009 7:40:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus I joined here so long ago, who knows what my intentions were! Lady H, I know what you have done. You've been a wonderful friend to ladies who need someone to talk to, you've been a very good friend to an old cowboy and some day, some lucky submissive man will find in you, the answer to his lifes quest.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use, or someone to cherish? (2/2/2009 7:41:03 PM)
Awww! smooches my ToughGuy!

LunaVenus -> RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use, or someone to cherish? (2/2/2009 7:42:18 PM)
At best all of the above in one TPE package.

SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use, or someone to cherish? (2/2/2009 7:48:37 PM)
What I came here for wasn't what I found. What I found wasn't what I want. What I want apparently doesn't exist. So when I figure it out, I'll let you know. Meanwhile, I amuse myself with the forums.

DominantDamsel -> RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use, or someone to cherish? (2/2/2009 7:49:27 PM)
I'm looking for someone to share my life with who blends into just about everything vanilla but can also share a healthy intimate sex life with me as well. For me, just being able to share BDSM/power exchange wouldn't be enough. I guess I want it all and believe I can find it all in one person. I prefer that said individual be my last great lover, companion, and life partner. I am kind of old fashioned and believe in traditional values, and I desire one who is family oriented, loves animals, and is someone I could comfortably introduce to friends and family proudly. I'm a very assertive, know-what-she-wants kind of woman, thus I need a man who understands and accepts this. Im not sure if I'll find what I'm seeking here on Collareme, but I'm taking a look around!

califsue -> RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use, or someone to cherish? (2/2/2009 8:09:58 PM)
I originally joined to find a Dom, partner for LTR. Now, mostly here for like minded individuals, forums and the possiblity of finding playmates.

MistressXahDee -> RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use, or someone to cherish? (2/2/2009 8:11:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MidMichCowboy Why are you on CollarMe? Are you looking for people for scenes or play sessions? Are you looking for someone for sex with some kink? Do you want someone that will take care of you? Someone to make money from? Someone to support you or serve you? Or are you looking for someone to share your life with? I'm asking because as I perve profiles, I see people who seem to want a toy or object to use. I see others who seem to want to disappear from the world into a fantasy world. Some seem to want more and some don't seem to have any idea of what they want. So tell me please, what do you want and why? At first, I wanted just to play with whomever; I thought that would be o.k. Then, it was interview the play partners first, then play. Now, I want friends and to meet people face-to-face and I have little expectation that I will play with whomever. Why, because my other approaches didn't lead me where I thought it would. In the long run, I want someone to scene with that I actually LIKE and have common vanilla interests. Why, because i'm a dominant that's why [8D] ETA: The forums are the best thing going.

hardbodysub -> RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use, or someone to cherish? (2/2/2009 8:13:13 PM)
I thought all this was supposed to be in people's profiles.

oceanwynds -> RE: Are you looking for a scene, someone to play or use, or someone to cherish? (2/2/2009 8:18:37 PM)
I came here to read the message boards only. I didnt really put much on my profile, because I am not seeking a Dom. I am open to friends.

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