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Prinsexx -> RE: Dominants getting what they want (3/10/2009 1:08:02 AM)

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ORIGINAL: scottjk

The feminine will test that to see if it's still there. It'll show up as pokes and prods at the masculine's weak spots. For those that are not aware of what the feminine is doing, it may look like challenges of every kind.

Exactly.
OK hands up I admit it.... I am driven to poke and punch in a het relationship.
If the slightest insecurity shows up after I poke then I feel like a puppet being dangled over a parapet.
It's a deep part of my psyche and if the other half isn't emotionally intelligent to deal with it I'm off anyway because you know what? Dangling over an edge like that means I'm released anyway.
Ed to add: my opening gambit wasn't pure irony. The most ironic thing? Irony is never pure irony. It's always based on some degree of reality.
I poked. They responded.







scottjk -> RE: Dominants getting what they want (3/10/2009 6:08:26 AM)

Funny thing is? It can be hard to respond appropriately sometimes, even knowing what is happening.

Damn Pavlov! :)





Prinsexx -> RE: Dominants getting what they want (3/10/2009 10:01:49 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact


Again, I'm sorry for the emotional pain that seems to have inspired this thread, yet I also have to thank you for the opportunity for so many good contributions.



It wasn't emotional pain that motivated the post. Actually it was an emotional high.. a place from where I felt safe enough to reflect.
I'm grateful for the responses, all of them. I am always grateful for responses from s types but it is the responses from the d types that educate me most.





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