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RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. - 3/12/2009 2:39:41 PM   
beargonewild


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Status: offline 		Are you just exclusively looking in Vancouver?  Why not try areas such as Victoria, Naniamo, Surrey, Sidney or any other areas in that general location? Victoria has a good variety of fit yummy men and most are straight!

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RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. - 3/12/2009 3:03:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mistoferin
I just keep thinking that if the OP"s post had asked where all the "fit" female submissives were and she stated that all she ever sees are "chunky" female submissives....well, this thread would be about 17 pages long by now! LOL


I think your observation's accurate, erin.  'Course, to balance that sort of thing out, one could cite the many men who desire 'bbw'. 
I also think that male, female, whatever, preferences are fine.  The op's perception of herself as of a particular level of attractiveness makes likely her seeking out someone she deems comparable somewhat predictable, though a bit more rigid than are some females regarding the stature of their male partners.  I've gotta say, though, I find the op's approach (Albeit a bit harsh) a refreshing change from people who say that all of the usual identifying factors aren't important to them: those folks track to me as either desparate or dishonest. 
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RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. - 3/12/2009 3:17:24 PM   
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RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. - 3/12/2009 6:54:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		I read your rant on that other site, and LOL'd---and just for the record, Ms Onyx does not come off as anti-fat there, in her much longer and very humourous post.

I never thought of Vancouver as "small", but   I do know what you mean about everyone knowing EVERYONE... still, there are all sorts of new folks popping up.  I have had an amazing run of luck finding completely NON bisexual men lately! 

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RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. - 3/12/2009 7:08:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		You see many here have problems… they are not your normal funny fit guys…those people are mostly normal and do not participate in the lifestyle.

Lets face it most normal adjusted men have no desire to be dominated by a woman. Face this as well most normal well adjusted women do not want to dominate men.

So… your choices are severely limited and you will have to join the rest of us trying to find that rare man or woman…Just don’t hold your breath.
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RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. - 3/12/2009 8:00:09 PM   
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Lets face it most normal adjusted men have no desire to be dominated by a woman. Face this as well most normal well adjusted women do not want to dominate men.

This post in itself should be a new thread.
 
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RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. - 3/12/2009 8:00:54 PM   
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ORIGINAL: kdsub

You see many here have problems… they are not your normal funny fit guys…those people are mostly normal and do not participate in the lifestyle.

Lets face it most normal adjusted men have no desire to be dominated by a woman. Face this as well most normal well adjusted women do not want to dominate men.

So… your choices are severely limited and you will have to join the rest of us trying to find that rare man or woman…Just don’t hold your breath.
Butch


Hi, Butch----
I am sorry that you have such a dim view of people and apparently yourself...unless you're kidding, which I actually hope you are, and I am being dense. 
I've found kinky people to cross-section out just like society at large in lots of ways.  I don't think there are inherent physical 'flaws' or psychological ones as prerequisites. 
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RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. - 3/12/2009 8:02:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: kdsub


Lets face it most normal adjusted men have no desire to be dominated by a woman. Face this as well most normal well adjusted women do not want to dominate men.


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RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. - 3/12/2009 8:07:01 PM   
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RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. - 3/12/2009 8:13:03 PM   
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RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. - 3/12/2009 8:18:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		Says common sense… the vast majority of all people do not desire to participate in this lifestyle…what does that tell you.

To me it means I have less choice within the lifestyle than I would outside of it if I had normal desires…plain and simple.

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RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. - 3/12/2009 8:21:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: kdsub


Lets face it most normal adjusted men have no desire to be dominated by a woman. Face this as well most normal well adjusted women do not want to dominate men.




Ok, now you're just trying to be provocative.


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RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. - 3/12/2009 8:24:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		There is  vanilla site in the states that some of my friends are having luck on. I am not sure if they are in Canada or not. It's called OKCupid dot com.

The questions are entertaining, and the more you answer, the better the site will match you with potnetial partners. You can also earn a kinky badge. (Ask me how I know this! Hehehe)

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RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. - 3/12/2009 8:29:51 PM   
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Says common sense… the vast majority of all people do not desire to participate in this lifestyle…

According to Wikipedia, the global sex toy industry is 15 billion US dollars annually.  Do you really think people who show up at munches and fetish clubs are buying all that?  There's a whole hell of a lot of kink out there in "nilla" land.  Plus there's a ton of curiosity, about both physical acts and  mental stuff.  I used to think I was extremely limited in who I could date.  Let me tell you, that stupid idea of mine got its ass kicked recently.  Don't limit yourself unnecessarily.


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RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. - 3/12/2009 8:31:16 PM   
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Says common sense… the vast majority of all people do not desire to participate in this lifestyle…what does that tell you.

It tells me that the vast majority of people don't know what they are missing. It does NOT tell me that they are any more well adjusted or normal than I am.
 
Thanks Girly! :)
 
D...I am right with you on this one..
 
Lynnxz...I agree!
 
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RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. - 3/12/2009 8:31:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		To the OP- the serch for one's partner is rarely easy but always worth it.

kd- my two cents; being fit or heterosexual does not mean one is well adjusted.
a favorite quote of mine is, "the cute ones are always crazy," imho.

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RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. - 3/12/2009 8:33:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

quote:

ORIGINAL: kdsub


Lets face it most normal adjusted men have no desire to be dominated by a woman. Face this as well most normal well adjusted women do not want to dominate men.




Ok, now you're just trying to be provocative.


I never just try...I'm just me… plain speaking. I didn't mean it to be provocative…I don’t mean it to be a condemnation of the lifestyle or the people in it… just the facts madam.

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RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. - 3/12/2009 8:38:59 PM   
MoGa


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just the facts madam

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the vast majority of all people do not desire to participate in this lifestyle


Cite your source. I agree with Redmagic.
 
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RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. - 3/12/2009 8:40:15 PM   
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OooOoo... MoGa has a smexy new pic! (I likey!)

*Back on topic now*


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RE: Where are all the fit straight subs and slaves. - 3/12/2009 8:47:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

*off topic*

OooOoo... MoGa has a smexy new pic! (I likey!)

*Back on topic now*


<Blush> Thank you

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