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RE: Young subs and old ugly men - 3/27/2009 6:44:09 PM   
MARAA


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Status: offline 		I dont think thats true,alot of younger-as well older-ppl do have good incomes and belongings. One things sure, I wouldt explicit go for a hot young thing if  Icouldnt sort of match it in looks myself, because who am I to demand if I cant live up to it myself. but thats just me.

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RE: Young subs and old ugly men - 3/27/2009 6:47:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

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ORIGINAL: MARAA

First,this is no offense or negative towards you with young partners what so ever.
It just stroke me, looking at one of those adds with bondage, they were all young subs with old men,most of them had seen better days. Getting off on some hot,young chic. There were nothing else! All were young and pretty.
I myself happen to be in my 30´ies but looks much younger, and I cant help relating to all those Dom´s Ive met,that more,or less,prefered it that way and or those young pretty subs. (also met the opposite those that dont care but I think there are a lot of the first group,and it annoys the hell out of me, I think its superficial. So now I ask you,what you have experienced and how important it really is. Is it getting worse for those of you,that happen to look good?
Do you meet more shallow ppl? just wondering.. in general.. im pissed thats why and curious


MARAA,

For the benefit of all who read this thread, kindly define "old" and then define "ugly"
Then I might reply.

CP


You beat me to it.    Cause I want to know what "old" and "ugly" are along with "young" and "looking good".


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RE: Young subs and old ugly men - 3/27/2009 6:50:17 PM   
MARAA


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RE: Young subs and old ugly men - 3/27/2009 6:53:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MARAA
I wouldt explicit go for a hot young thing if  Icouldnt sort of match it in looks myself, because who am I to demand if I cant live up to it myself.

That comment reveals more about you than you may realize.


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RE: Young subs and old ugly men - 3/27/2009 6:59:19 PM   
peppermint


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Status: offline 		Porn sites wish to attract old men because in general old men have a lot more money to spend on porn than young men.  I'm not surprised in the least that some porn sites are basically using the "even old men can have sexy young eye candy" technique.  It's called...making money.  

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RE: Young subs and old ugly men - 3/27/2009 7:01:43 PM   
rulemylife


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Do you meet more shallow ppl?
quote:

ORIGINAL: MARAA

First,this is no offense or negative towards you with young partners what so ever.
It just stroke me, looking at one of those adds with bondage, they were all young subs with old men,most of them had seen better days. Getting off on some hot,young chic. There were nothing else! All were young and pretty.
I myself happen to be in my 30´ies but looks much younger, and I cant help relating to all those Dom´s Ive met,that more,or less,prefered it that way and or those young pretty subs. (also met the opposite those that dont care but I think there are a lot of the first group,and it annoys the hell out of me, I think its superficial. So now I ask you,what you have experienced and how important it really is. Is it getting worse for those of you,that happen to look good?
Do you meet more shallow ppl? just wondering.. in general.. im pissed thats why and curious


No, I'm pretty sure I've never met anyone more shallow.

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RE: Young subs and old ugly men - 3/27/2009 7:10:19 PM   
kiwisub12


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ORIGINAL: MARAA

I dont think thats true,alot of younger-as well older-ppl do have good incomes and belongings. One things sure, I wouldt explicit go for a hot young thing if  Icouldnt sort of match it in looks myself, because who am I to demand if I cant live up to it myself. but thats just me.



So ...   what you are saying is that looks are more important to you than "inner beauty".
My Sir is an "old coot" - and although i am not a "hot young sub", i am a bit younger than him, and what i get from the relationship is love, stability, and the most marvelous sadistic, erotic and joyful man that it has been my privilige to relate to.

So perhaps your "young subs" like love, stability and someone who knows how to push their buttons -regardless of what they see in the mirror every morning.   You might want to work on developing something more than superficiality into your personality. You might be happier in the long run - especially as you age!

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RE: Young subs and old ugly men - 3/27/2009 8:30:07 PM   
Vendaval


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Status: offline 		That is pretty much standard for men and women in their 30-40's.  Most are ready to settle down and have a family or they have major baggage from previous relationships. 
 
I tend to date younger men for the same reasons.



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I'm a 40 year old man who doesn't want children of my own.  My experience dating (both kinky and nilla) is that most of the women I've met age 33-43 are either hunting for a baby-daddy, or have tremendous baggage from a nasty divorce. 


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RE: Young subs and old ugly men - 3/27/2009 8:49:15 PM   
kidwithknife


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ORIGINAL: Vendaval

That is pretty much standard for men and women in their 30-40's.  Most are ready to settle down and have a family or they have major baggage from previous relationships. 
 
I tend to date younger men for the same reasons.

That's been my experience as well.  Not only do I not want children, but what I do for a living means that I'm pretty nocturnal and spend a lot of time hanging round clubs and pubs.  It's been my experience that most women round my own age simply aren't compatible with my lifestyle.  (The exceptions tend to be women who are things like actresses or artists, who live much more similiar lives).

In terms of the OP, some younger female subs are dating older males doms because they choose to  Either because they specifically prefer older guys or because age is unimportant to them.  End of.

Which is fine with me.  I don't think that I'm entitled to date someone because I find them attractive.

Your post does give off an air of outrage.  Bluntly, I left the "why do girls like him instead of me" whine behind when I finished school.


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RE: Young subs and old ugly men - 3/27/2009 8:50:46 PM   
Vendaval


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Status: offline 		What on Earth are you talking about?  I am blunt and plain spoken is all.

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RE: Young subs and old ugly men - 3/27/2009 8:58:02 PM   
windchymes


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ORIGINAL: MarsBonfire

Let's see... If "I" were a pretty young woman, and I had a choice between a guy my age, who has nothing... is still struggling to make his rent and drives a battered old Ford Aspire, and has all the subtlty in lovemaking of a bull in a china shop charging for the clit...




I know quite a few "old" guys who fit that description, too.

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RE: Young subs and old ugly men - 3/27/2009 9:06:00 PM   
stella41b


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Status: offline 		If you're judging people on their looks then you're either a teenager.. or have the mentality of one..

Physical attraction and personal preferences aside, if you lack brains, personality and/or experience, what else do you have to go on other than looks?

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RE: Young subs and old ugly men - 3/27/2009 9:15:27 PM   
MadAxeman


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Status: offline 		Surely it isn't always about money? Some younger women prefer an older guy who is comfortable around females, settled in what they are about, can converse without staring at their tits and especially in this lifestyle, confident and experienced.

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RE: Young subs and old ugly men - 3/27/2009 9:17:21 PM   
marie2


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ORIGINAL: MadAxeman

Surely it isn't always about money? Some younger women prefer an older guy who is comfortable around females, settled in what they are about, can converse without staring at their tits and especially in this lifestyle, confident and experienced.


Oh come on.  No man is capable of this, but some are better at doing it discreetly.

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RE: Young subs and old ugly men - 3/27/2009 9:19:35 PM   
Vendaval


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Status: offline 		Even gay men like tits.   Warm, soft and sensitive, what's not to like?  

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RE: Young subs and old ugly men - 3/27/2009 9:23:10 PM   
ThatDamnedPanda


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ORIGINAL: Vendaval

What on Earth are you talking about?  I am blunt and plain spoken is all.


And that wasn't even close to qualifying as "blunt." It's hard to imagine you ever sounding outraged, and you're certainly nowhere near it in that post. I think someone must have seriously misread you!


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RE: Young subs and old ugly men - 3/27/2009 9:24:19 PM   
marie2


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ORIGINAL: Vendaval

Even gay men like tits.   Warm, soft and sensitive, what's not to like?  


Hell, even women can't keep from looking at tits.

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RE: Young subs and old ugly men - 3/27/2009 9:26:35 PM   
MadAxeman


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Status: offline 		Now the thread is curving towards a more interesting theme

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RE: Young subs and old ugly men - 3/27/2009 9:27:42 PM   
Vendaval


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Status: offline 		Thank you dear. 
 
My very hot and sexy 14-years-younger-slave-boy sends his regards too and wants to know when you are coming back to Cali so we can show you around.



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So in this gray haze we'll be meating again, and on that
great day, I will tease you all the same."
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RE: Young subs and old ugly men - 3/27/2009 9:33:09 PM   
Master101Vegas


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Status: offline 		 HEY!!! I was young once............ I grew old, the subs didn't. 

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