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sunshiinedreamer -> RE: The sub/slave version of the ‘top 5 annoying Mistress traits’… (5/18/2009 9:23:06 AM)
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domme to meet me for a cup of coffee so I can see her in person…and often she has already made quote:
ORIGINAL: LAgirlsub
Have you really been told this to your face....'you're not a true submissive?' - I think my first gut response would be 'obviously you're far from a true domme.' I'm truly starting to wonder if I just want some kink in the bedroom because I feel like a lot of this is just nonsense. I want to be open and I am for the most part, but I have a tough time if a domme comes off arrogant, controlling and domineering (which some in their profiles - heck even their pictures where they don't smile - sound that way). That just won't work for me ever. I have plenty to offer and if some woman, just because she's more dominant then I am, plays this game with me, I'll be gone quickly.
Maybe I should throw out the question since I know it's been talked about with subs, but what about dommes and if they lack self-esteem (or have self-esteem issues)? Will they take it out on you? (their insecurities) - I guess that's not something that can easily be answered, but it just came to mind when thinking of a domme having the audacity to say you're not this or that...regarding being submissive. Maybe it's the part of me that has never liked bullies...I wouldn't want to see a domme who treated a sub in that way.
i hate when someone asks you a question about how you feel about a certain area of the lifestyle, and when the answer isn't something they like, they automatically do say something put-down, like "you're not really a true sub" or "you don't know what you're doing/talking about." there are NO right/wrong answers, especially when you're just starting to get to know someone for god's sake!
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