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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 10:44:57 AM   
PeonForHer


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Status: offline 		Andalusite: thanks to you, LadyConstanze and LadyHib for those insights.  Well, well - submissive sadists, dominant masochists . . .  It's fascinating.

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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 10:45:09 AM   
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The amount of hostility towards women that  some of these men carry is actually alarming, not to mention sad.  [/left]


Not so sure it is only the men, I also have seen profiles were women were ranting on about how much they hate men and what inferior creatures they are, makes me wonder, why would anybody want an inferior creature to serve them? And why would anybody want to serve a person that has nothing but contempt for them?

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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 10:47:52 AM   
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Status: offline 		I still can't stop laughing at the idea of that bloke barking "Mistress!" at you from the other side of a cafe, then getting straight down to kiss your feet.  Wish I'd been there to see that!

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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 10:51:25 AM   
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

I still can't stop laughing at the idea of that bloke barking "Mistress!" at you from the other side of a cafe, then getting straight down to kiss your feet.  Wish I'd been there to see that!


If you would have blinked you would have missed my exit, I was out there like a flash, breakneck speed.

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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 10:51:39 AM   
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Status: offline 		LadyConstanze, I was playing with my profile yesterday because of a lot of things I have been seeing.  So I added a bit of a test with what I wanted to say.  My first paragraph speaks of worms and worthless men... of course I go into what I mean in the same paragraph... but I must say, my profile has gotten a lot more looks at it from certain nick types! lol  That was my test.  I noticed many women speaking as if men were nothing but a waste of time... you worms you(!) and men were flocking to them and collared within hours sometimes! 

I personally have nothing against worms and worthless men as long as they are not mine!  And personally... when I hear worm... I think fishing and hooks and dinner.  I don't think of men unless they are baiting my hook.  I like men...lol... they are fun! hehe

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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 10:56:23 AM   
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Status: offline 		Teeheehee Lockit, I still can't get a scene out of my head, a submissive asked a Mistress to be her worm, she had a rather lost look on her face (clueless) but decided to agree to it, as she seemed to be the only one at the party that wasn't approached by submissives. It was pure comedy, she kept barking "You said you are a worm, I want to see you worming, do it, now!" The sub just looked helpless (I guess it is a bit hard to try and dig into a hardwood floor) while she kept on screetching like a fish-wife.

I did understand then why she wasn't approached ;)

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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 11:00:56 AM   
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Status: offline 		LOL... get to worming... do it now!  I wouldn't be able to forget that one either!

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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 11:16:17 AM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		Nope, it's not impossible, I am a masochist and I am not submissive .  I am in fact very dominant about how I do  and do want my pain and how it will or will not be provided. It's all very much on my terms in regards to what kind of pain what depth of pain and how long I want it to last. Of course some might say that, that's not being a masochist at all, but something else entirely.
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

But, I must admit, it does throw me somewhat to think of masochists who aren't subs and sadists who aren't dominant.   I thought that both those things were, somehow, psychologically impossible.

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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 11:17:51 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Hammerlove

I want to thank the People in here that gave good opinions and advise. For those who mock, judge, berate. Take a good look in the mirror, it explains why you have nothing better than to mock others who truly want opinions. You are no better then the vanilla clowns in the world! So fuck off!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Especially the fat ass, the naked back, and the one with her siganture about what her daughter wrote. Very classy! So what bowling alley were you born in?

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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 11:21:21 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Venatrix

FR - Actually, there is justice in this world.  The OP's posts will be part of his "permanent record" at CM, so everyone will know, ad infinitum, what a little charmer he is.  I like to think of it as the gift that keeps on giving.  And people wonder why most dominant women aren't tremendously thrilled by the "submissive" men they encounter. 

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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 11:24:03 AM   
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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 11:26:16 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Lockit

LOL... get to worming... do it now!  I wouldn't be able to forget that one either!


I faked an asthma attack to avoid the rudeness of laughing out loud at her behaviour and errr yes "dominance"

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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 11:27:12 AM   
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Mortgages and fake credit cards, false lotteries, free-if-you-sign-your-life-savings-away can all be laid on the table along with the ED drugs, penis extensions and implants for various body parts. 

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze
There's always viagra, I can forward you lots of emails where I am offered viagra for cheap rates ;) Would you also be interested in the "bigger boobs" emails or errrr size extensions?


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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 11:27:54 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Lockit

I noticed many women speaking as if men were nothing but a waste of time... you worms you(!) and men were flocking to them and collared within hours sometimes! 



Yes, I've noticed that, too.  But if you look at the women who are saying this sort of thing, most of them are really quite dreadful.  I'd like to think that I'm a discerning enough female that only an equally discerning male will do, and I think that is true for the vast majority of women who post on the boards.

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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 11:44:42 AM   
PeonForHer


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Status: offline 		They're not only dreadful, but in my opinion, at least a bit deluded.   How far can they take that sort of talk and turn it into real-life partnerships (even in the widest sense of that word 'partnerships')?  I was told by a dominant yesterday that she could never feel a sub of hers to be a 'friend'.  What?  How does that work?  I came from a world of unrealistic fantasies - I don't want to go back there.  Hell's bells.

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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 11:54:22 AM   
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

I was told by a dominant yesterday that she could never feel a sub of hers to be a 'friend'.  What?  How does that work?  I came from a world of unrealistic fantasies - I don't want to go back there.  Hell's bells.


Woah, another thing I've been doing wrong all this time! Mea culpa...

Gosh even when I worked as a pro-domme, if I didn't like them and couldn't imagine spending an hour with them over a coffee or a glass of wine, chatting about anything and everything, I didn't want to spend an hour with them in a dungeon, because it would have been torture for me, and I'm not the masochist!

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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 12:00:38 PM   
Venatrix


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Status: offline 		I've been doing it all wrong, too.  I can *only* dominate someone I care about.  Otherwise, it just feels like one more chore on my to-do list.

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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 12:13:28 PM   
DesFIP


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ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

1) As DarkSteven said: you're not a slave at all. You are hormone driven, by your own admission. How can you think of yourself as a slave, or even submissive, after writing that opening post?

You are only submissive as it relates to getting your way. So, you're not even really submissive, let alone a slave. You're just trying to get your fetishes indulged. You are motivated by your own selfishness.

2) I don't have a reward/punishment dynamic with my slave. We treat each other well, that's all.


Putting aside the op's nastiness, which I admit is difficult to do. I have to disagree with #1. There are plenty of male slaves in long term chastity for just this reason. They admit that they are more driven to serve when in need of release and therefore they are rarely given release as otherwise they get lazy.

I don't understand how that works because for women the response tends to be to shut down the libido and adopt a cat, but I do know it's fairly common with males.

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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 12:26:20 PM   
LadyConstanze


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP


I don't understand how that works because for women the response tends to be to shut down the libido and adopt a cat, but I do know it's fairly common with males.


Oooops I have 2 cats, what does that say about me?

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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 12:36:53 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Did you get the first while between relationships?

The second one doesn't count since it was obviously a companion animal for the first. And animals that adopted you don't count either. If it shows up at your door claiming to be in need of tlc, that just says you're an easy mark. There's probably some special cat sign at the doorpost telling other cats to come visit.

Right now we have one cat, despite me swearing never will there be a cat in this house. Oddly enough she doesn't start my allergies off. One dog in residence. And one horse being boarded elsewhere. I'm a definitely easy mark.

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