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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 12:42:08 PM   
Venatrix


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP
There's probably some special cat sign at the doorpost telling other cats to come visit.



I went through a phase like that when I lived in Miami.  I swear it must have said "Sucker" in cat language on my back.  I'm now down to one cat (voluntarily adopted), but perhaps that means my libido is increasing?

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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 12:47:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Hammerlove

I want to thank the People in here that gave good opinions and advise. <snip> 


I would have stopped there.

If you felt mocked, judged, and berated, I think challenging them in a civil, graceful manner would have been more effective. The response of the type in post 31 turns off those who gave the benefit of doubt, and discourages them from chiming in for future incidents of seeking advice.

Cheers,

Sea

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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 1:06:14 PM   
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Did you get the first while between relationships?

The second one doesn't count since it was obviously a companion animal for the first. And animals that adopted you don't count either. If it shows up at your door claiming to be in need of tlc, that just says you're an easy mark. There's probably some special cat sign at the doorpost telling other cats to come visit.

Right now we have one cat, despite me swearing never will there be a cat in this house. Oddly enough she doesn't start my allergies off. One dog in residence. And one horse being boarded elsewhere. I'm a definitely easy mark.


Actually not, was moving in with my other half and the boss has lots of cats, 2 of them got pregnant before they were done, one little kitten was stepped on by mistake and was terribly shy, so boss (he saw me coming and knew I would be suckered in) asked me if I could play with the little kitten and try and socialize it, nobody wanted him because he was so shy, so I started carrying him around in my sweater (http://farm1.static.flickr.com/138/322148579_6fd525c0ae.jpg?v=0) and he grew so attached to me and I to him, that I wanted the little boy. In the meantime his brother who looked a bit funny, so nobody wanted a cat that looks and behaves like Charlie Chaplin, had also attached himself to me, so we ended up with 2 brothers, then my other half decided it is not fair that I got 2 boys, he wants a girl, and got a girl (sadly was run over a year later). Scary cat has grown into a huge tom (neutered) and his fave hobby is beating up dogs he doesn't like, funny little brother looks like a girl and some rumour mongers claim he's a bit gay.

Now both cats decided last year to rob the exotic pet shop, nice pet rat baby who was designed to be snake food was rescued from the cats, brought to the vet, nursed back to health, then had a hernia etc. (so several hundred £ later...) sadly he died after 6 months, he had pneumonia and was suffering so much that I thought it would be kinder to let him go (aka have him put down, still felt like an executioner) but I already had bought him 2 friends (http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3129/2803633650_e44ed85892.jpg?v=0) who were dumbo rats - because of the shape of their ears I thought, but oh no, they also tend to grow much bigger than regular rats and now with less than a year are 35 and 40 cm without the tail, frisky little nutters who will steal everything, glass of wine near them? Forget it, they'll have their snouts in and slurp it up.... (as much as I like them, after they had their noses in I usually don't want it anymore)

Now I'm going away for a medical vacation on Saturday, but a friend of mine asked me if I would come to the dog rescue place with her as she wants a dog, I'm afraid I might increase the family....



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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 2:20:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Venatrix

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ORIGINAL: OttersSwim

I think that says a lot about someone's psyche as well...



To say nothing of his phsyche.


ROFL!!


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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 4:33:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

Btw can I be the fat ass?



Can I get back to you on that Ma`am

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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 5:03:24 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

Btw can I be the fat ass?



Can I get back to you on that Ma`am


Sure, but I might get you back for that

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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 5:38:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		Lady C, I don't know if it's just my internet settings, but I can't open any of the weblinks in your former post. 

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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 5:40:27 PM   
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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 5:42:01 PM   
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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 5:51:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think I conked that up with putting the name and the web address in the wrong window...

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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 6:02:59 PM   
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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 6:05:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

"Conked"? 


Messed it up!

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=conked+out


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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 6:12:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm not sure you can really say "conked" there, Lady C. 

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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 6:17:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Hammerlove

I can only speak for myself. I realize as a male I am driven by my passions and need to serve A Woman in the manner she requires. It is understood in order to maintain a level of the slave mindset that taking control of a man's harmones. When I release, the level of my enslaved mindset diminishes somewhat, until nature reloads me! My driving passion to serve is fueled by the hope that Mistress will allow me the fetishes that she knows I crave. Like rewarding a dog that obeys.
Naturally in the male's fantacy land I see photo's and vid's of female domination, catering to the male Phyche.
My question to the Superior Gender, what is in the Female Phsyche with regards to male slavery? What is your needs from a slave? Sexual pleasures, discipline, whippings, obedients, fetishes. Do you believe that all the cooking, housekeeping, laundry, erronds, and personal service given to Mistress is deserving for a slave's rewards? I am trained to be pampering and domestic. Without say or provisions for my fetish needs and sexual gratification. I would like to know if I am wrong in my thinking.
Respectfully:
hammer


That's pretty much textbook of what I require when I own male slaves. You sound delightful.

I find that my male slaves are more productive when their orgasms are witheld until after all tasks are completed to my satisfaction.  But, I do enjoy watching them orgasm as it is a complete and total loss of control for my slave.  And having that type of power and control over another, is quite, intoxicating.

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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 6:34:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

I'm not sure you can really say "conked" there, Lady C. 

(Where is Beeble when he's needed?)


I can say whatever I want, I'm the Domme (Let me go and have a little strop now, stomping my foot and all that stuff)

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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 7:00:25 PM   
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ORIGINAL: VelvetCruelty

You sound delightful.



I can only assume that you didn't read the OP's subsequent posts.  But chacun à son goût, as they say.

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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/14/2009 10:13:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Hammerlove

I want to thank the People in here that gave good opinions and advise. For those who mock, judge, berate. Take a good look in the mirror, it explains why you have nothing better than to mock others who truly want opinions. You are no better then the vanilla clowns in the world! So fuck off!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Especially the fat ass, the naked back, and the one with her siganture about what her daughter wrote. Very classy! So what bowling alley were you born in?


You forgot the furry guy in the bathroom mirror.

Hammerlove, I was trying to gently point out to you that your focus in your original post was about you, and what was in it for you.  Several Dommes have complained to me that male subs will contact them and dictate how they want to be Dominated.  And if things don't work, they throw a tantrum.

Get over yourself and grow up.  The come back here, after you're capable of self control.


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RE: Male Slave Phsyche - 5/15/2009 1:19:57 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MsDDom

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

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ORIGINAL: Hammerlove

My driving passion to serve is fueled by the hope that Mistress will allow me the fetishes that she knows I crave. Like rewarding a dog that obeys.

.........................

Do you believe that all the cooking, housekeeping, laundry, erronds, and personal service given to Mistress is deserving for a slave's rewards? 


Nope.  You're not a slave.

A slave is driven by the desire to serve and make another happy. You have some fetishes and hope to earn them through acting like a slave.  The selfless aspect is not there.


yeah!

I think many submissives have the wrong view about being a slave. Being a "slave" to your fetish may create the desire to submit, but is not close to being a slave to a Mistress.



Knodding profusely. Nothing wrong with fetish desire as long as you know that's what it is.

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