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swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 5:27:49 AM   
jdjd


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Status: offline 		hello, im very new to sucking so i was wondering if any other subs out there have any tips that could help me. In particular i am having trouble swallowing, i think about it all the time and really want to however when the opportuinity presents itself, i freak!

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jdjd!
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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 6:36:16 AM   
dreamerdreaming


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If you really want to swallow, you will. If not, you won't. Practice.

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 6:47:43 AM   
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Status: offline 		Do you drink at all?.....i mean alcohol? If you don't like the taste, and just want to get it down... Do like you are taking shots....Just gulp the shit down baby!

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 7:18:33 AM   
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Status: offline 		did you ever try it ?

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 7:23:42 AM   
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did you ever try it ?

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 8:27:38 AM   
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Status: offline 		lol (not at OP).  open wide, do work, swallow (close your eyes if you have to) and smile when its all done.  It'll be over quick and practice enough, you may get to a point of enjoying it all

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 8:32:31 AM   
YoungBlondeSlave


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Status: offline 		It makes me puke. How do you get around that?

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 8:35:06 AM   
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Status: offline 		DON'T .... DO NOT! hold it in your mouth. Just woof it down fast, and hold your breath until you DO swallow, thats all i got.

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 8:57:38 AM   
leadership527


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It makes me puke. How do you get around that?

I'm going to try to not sound trite writing this... but I need to ask a question...

If your life depended on NOT puking.. no wait.. If the life of a child or loved one of yours depended on swallowing and not puking and I gave you two weeks to figure it out, are you saying you wouldn't? I know for me, I'd try just dealing. If that failed, then I'd get a sample and hold small amounts in my mouth until I acclimated. But I can utterly guarantee you that if eating [insert disgusting thing here] without puking was required for Carol's survival, then I'd find a way to do it.

That's perhaps a less direct way to say what breatheasone said.

Don't get me wrong. Carol doesn't like it either.. a texture issue in her case... and I don't command her to. So I'm not some dom standing here saying, 'just deal girl'. But if it's important to you, then it's important, so deal. *laughs*.

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 8:59:02 AM   
YoungBlondeSlave


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Status: offline 		Me swallowing and breaking the land speed record and crashing into things to get to the toilet to puke it up is sort of a buzz kill. i don't hold it in my mouth. And i balk when i'm asked to "lick it up" after he cums.

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 8:59:08 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		It is just pratice. I mean the first time it happened i freaked myself. I somehow managed to swallow and from then on i actually enjoyed doing that. Just swallow quickly and it will not seem so bad. What is it exactly that freaks you out ????

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 9:03:19 AM   
YoungBlondeSlave


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Status: offline 		i think it's just the awful taste. i figure that this is going to end up being one of those things that i only do for *the one*. Because, i want to learn how but it squicks me big time, too.

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 9:07:51 AM   
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Status: offline 		It's not any more gross than swapping spit.

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 9:27:49 AM   
YoungBlondeSlave


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Status: offline 		Well, everyone has their preference. To me it is, and i can't recall the last time i played tonsil hockey. Light sweet kisses are difference, but swapping loogies is something totally different.

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 9:29:29 AM   
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It makes me puke. How do you get around that?



this slave is suprised no one has encouraged you to make it a hard limit.  what is wrong with all of you folks?
 
doing something one does not want to do or will cause undesired reactions is often reported as one of the reasons why submissives have hard limits for their partners to respect and adhere to in the first place.
 
as far as how not to puke...this slave doesn't have a problem with cum, specifically.  however, there have been several times in this slave's life when the only way this slave can stop is by injection at the hospital or phenergan suppository...but that's after it has been going on for longer than 24 hours.  for this slave,  ingesting anything that contains synthetic salicylic acid (aspirin, pepto-bismol) will start the uncontrollable puking cycle.(no fun)

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 9:35:57 AM   
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ORIGINAL: YoungBlondeSlave

It makes me puke. How do you get around that?
Fake it. He has to be laying flat for this to work. Have your head directly over Mr Winkie...not to the side. When he cums have only your lips on him, and your cheeks slightly inflated. Relax your lips (hell...at this point he won't even notice) and let everything run back down Mr Winkie.
You get a little in your mouth, but there is nothing to swallow.


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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 9:38:09 AM   
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Status: offline 		I also don't like to swallow --- you might try this --- as he cums, open your mouth some so most drains out. The taste in your mouth will help you get used to it - and go to the bathroom to get a nice warm wet washcloth to clean him with --- he will enjoy the sensation and you can quickly swallow a bit of water as you are waiting for it to warm up --- and best wishes --

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 9:41:35 AM   
YoungBlondeSlave


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly

quote:

ORIGINAL: YoungBlondeSlave

It makes me puke. How do you get around that?
Fake it. He has to be laying flat for this to work. Have your head directly over Mr Winkie...not to the side. When he cums have only your lips on him, and your cheeks slightly inflated. Relax your lips (hell...at this point he won't even notice) and let everything run back down Mr Winkie.
You get a little in your mouth, but there is nothing to swallow.


DISCLAIMER TO HUBBY: I have never done this, of course



i am so trying this.

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 9:43:37 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Some people are allergic to the protein in semen and will get stomach pains etc if they swallow. If this is a physiological issue, and you simply can't do anything about it, then hard limit it.

If not, you shouldn't be swallowing anyway unless you're fluid bonded. Beyond that, simply tell people that it causes vomiting and you are going to let it drip out of your mouth. If they say they would prefer you to vomit on them, well they've been warned.

But basically if a guy insists you do something that makes you ill, he isn't interested in your safety so why would you be interested in him?

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 10:01:16 AM   
whimzgirl


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Status: offline 		Well...here goes...I think you girls are going to hate me but this is one of my favorite things and I've only discovered it recently as I had a mental block about it before.  The actual mechanics of swallowing is still a little tricky because I have to be sure that I don't have a large portion of Him in my mouth when the time comes.  If I keep it to just the head, then I have more room to manipulate and capture his cum.  My Master tends to be very forceful in His ejaculate so sometimes I get choked because it shoots too fast at the back of my throat and I don't have time to truly swallow it since it forces its own way down.  In those cases I end up gagging and spitting out bit of it but My Master understands and knows that it's not because I don't want to do this.  He also tends to have copious amounts of cum and I end up having to swallow several times so I have to be cognizant of what is going on and not get lazy.

Regarding taste -- I've heard that the taste can be influenced by what He is eating.  Garlic and other strong herbs definitely do not mix well.  Fruits such as strawberries and melons are much better.  I'm not sure how long it takes for this to get through the body but if the taste is really causing you problems then maybe you can try this.  My Master eats a very varied diet from many different ethnic regions but his taste tends to be very sweet.  I'm not sure how that works since he does like spicy and strongly seasoned food and doesn't really eat a lot of sweets.  Maybe I'm just a lucky little slave!!

I do find that I need to drink something afterwards to dilute the thick coating down my throat and I also notice that if I drink enough I don't get the stomach cramping that comes with taking in such a high protein substance.  The first time I swallowed My Masters cum I had a horrible stomach ache a few hours later and read on the health forum here to try drinking water.  It worked for me.

What everything comes down to for me is My Master's happiness.  If swallowing His cum will make Him happy and I wasn't comfortable with it, I would find a way to make it happen or would at least talk with Him about it until we found a way to fix the issue.  My Master would never ask anything of me that would harm me and I know this which makes it easy to trust.  With that trust I am able to find creative solutions to what He is asking of me.  I would not be able to do that with anyone else so even though the issue you brought up is not an issue for me I can see the same coping skills spilling over into other areas of our relationship.

I hope something I've said here is helpful and I will now take my blushing embarrassed little self back to my chores.
Hugs,

gabby

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