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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/21/2009 9:55:00 AM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		Nope. People are free to hate pussy eating just as much as I don't find it offensive to hate cum eating. If to you such an act is nasty and repulsive that's your right and I have no business being offended, If I want such an act I just won't date you, or  I will make you agree to allow others to eat me out if you won't or I'll gage how important it is to me and decide if I can go with out and not resent it later..


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ORIGINAL: catize

~~fast reply~~
 
This is a case where I can empathize with men.  Oral sex is extremely pleasurable for most persons receiving it.  Wouldn’t we as women be highly offended if the men expressed such revulsion and disgust about cunnilingus? 


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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/21/2009 10:04:27 AM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		There's nothing wrong with being disgusted by cum being in your mouth or on your body or where ever else he puts it. Because it's not a big deal to you it's not our rights to have it  be a big deal to us?

Personally my partners food and drink intake is so unhealthy his cum is indeed like toxic waste  to me, it smells bad it tastes bad and it's very thick and sticky in my opinion, and  it burns my tong and is an unpleasant sensation on my toung  on the rare occasion I do allow him to put it in my mouth. It also leaves a very bad after taste, for a long time. Now sure I can go brush my teeth afterwards, but why should I. Why can't I say no, I have issues with your cum.

Now I don't go into the whole no it's disgusting every time the topic of cock sucking and swallowing comes up, but I will tell someone once, and only once, if their cum tastes disgusting or it's such a huge issue to me I won't allow you to put it in my mouth.

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i'm glad someone finally said this....its CUM....not toxic f*ckin waste already



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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/21/2009 10:49:01 AM   
GYPZYQUEEN


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Status: offline 		SOOOOOOO...BACK TO THE ORIGINAL POST...

IF swallowing is important to your partner
 and IF it is important to you to try to do it to please...
WE could go on and on about if we want to..not liking it..liking it..taste etc..many CUM threads but OP asked for advice about HOW
SO.......... a suggestion..
 
I put this on another thread..
A pharmacist told me how to swallow pills and why I could not..

Its in the mind he said..and asked me to imagine how big a chunk of apple was..
and did I swallow it..I said I did.
He said ........
now when you take a pill IMAGINE an apple chunck ......
it worked,
 
I then applied this to cum..
I IMAGINE it as potato..apple..steak..pudding whatever..
sounds weird but it works for me..
THE moment I feel it all in my mouth..
I imagine the apple chunks or whatever and down it goes..
usually in one gulp....much to their excitement


GQ


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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/21/2009 10:57:08 AM   
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IF swallowing is important to your partner
and IF it is important to you to try to do it to please..

i am one that would rather not swallow. However...i would in a heartbeat as opposed to telling him i do not like it, it is gross, etc. And telling him it is toxic waste is simply not something i would even think of.

What i do is to fake it (earlier post). He has no clue i do this so we both end up happy


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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/21/2009 11:05:51 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

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IF swallowing is important to your partner
and IF it is important to you to try to do it to please..

i am one that would rather not swallow. However...i would in a heartbeat as opposed to telling him i do not like it, it is gross, etc. And telling him it is toxic waste is simply not something i would even think of.

What i do is to fake it (earlier post). He has no clue i do this so we both end up happy



*searchinghisemail...whatwashisnameagain...tsktsktsk...shollygirlagain*

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/21/2009 11:09:32 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly

quote:

IF swallowing is important to your partner
and IF it is important to you to try to do it to please..

i am one that would rather not swallow. However...i would in a heartbeat as opposed to telling him i do not like it, it is gross, etc. And telling him it is toxic waste is simply not something i would even think of.

What i do is to fake it (earlier post). He has no clue i do this so we both end up happy.



Awesome. i have to try it. See if it really works or if you're just that fortunate. i'll report back (surely this thread will still be alive and well by then).

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/21/2009 11:12:28 AM   
sirsholly


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ORIGINAL: YoungBlondeSlave

quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly

quote:

IF swallowing is important to your partner
and IF it is important to you to try to do it to please..

i am one that would rather not swallow. However...i would in a heartbeat as opposed to telling him i do not like it, it is gross, etc. And telling him it is toxic waste is simply not something i would even think of.

What i do is to fake it (earlier post). He has no clue i do this so we both end up happy.



Awesome. i have to try it. See if it really works or if you're just that fortunate. i'll report back (surely this thread will still be alive and well by then).
Mentioning no names, but some men (JIM!) really do not pay a while lot of attention to you when the big moment arrives


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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/21/2009 11:18:00 AM   
Phoenixpower


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Status: offline 		*blush* ... *startstofigureoutiffakingmightworkwithmradorableaswell* phew....I doubt...Holly you are a hell of a lucky woman you...the guys I had to deal with were almost as thorough as BKSir mentioned...(though thankfully not as demanding as if I would have had to open my mouth afterwards, but they used to keep a damn long eye on me during and afterwards).

But I am still waiting for the bloke who would be willing to drink his own stuff before demanding from me to take it...guess that search...will lead to neverland *sigh*

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/21/2009 11:22:01 AM   
lighthearted


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Status: offline 		it helps to breathe only through your mouth, kind of dulls the tastebuds too.  kind of like what someone else said, pretending it's cough syrup or somthing.

if you do for some reason found that you've held it in your mouth, even if you didn't mean to, it helps to hold your breath, add some of your own spit, and then do the cough syrup swallow.  less chance of it hitting the taste buds that way.

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/21/2009 11:24:04 AM   
YoungBlondeSlave


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ORIGINAL: Phoenixpower

*blush* ... *startstofigureoutiffakingmightworkwithmradorableaswell* phew....I doubt...Holly you are a hell of a lucky woman you...the guys I had to deal with were almost as thorough as BKSir mentioned...(though thankfully not as demanding as if I would have had to open my mouth afterwards, but they used to keep a damn long eye on me during and afterwards).

But I am still waiting for the bloke who would be willing to drink his own stuff before demanding from me to take it...guess that search...will lead to neverland *sigh*


Funny thing about that, i know a guy who will...i still won'tdrink it.

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/21/2009 11:36:50 AM   
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ORIGINAL: YoungBlondeSlave

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ORIGINAL: Phoenixpower

*blush* ... *startstofigureoutiffakingmightworkwithmradorableaswell* phew....I doubt...Holly you are a hell of a lucky woman you...the guys I had to deal with were almost as thorough as BKSir mentioned...(though thankfully not as demanding as if I would have had to open my mouth afterwards, but they used to keep a damn long eye on me during and afterwards).

But I am still waiting for the bloke who would be willing to drink his own stuff before demanding from me to take it...guess that search...will lead to neverland *sigh*


Funny thing about that, i know a guy who will...i still won'tdrink it.


lmao

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/21/2009 11:41:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Phoenixpower

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ORIGINAL: YoungBlondeSlave

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ORIGINAL: Phoenixpower

*blush* ... *startstofigureoutiffakingmightworkwithmradorableaswell* phew....I doubt...Holly you are a hell of a lucky woman you...the guys I had to deal with were almost as thorough as BKSir mentioned...(though thankfully not as demanding as if I would have had to open my mouth afterwards, but they used to keep a damn long eye on me during and afterwards).

But I am still waiting for the bloke who would be willing to drink his own stuff before demanding from me to take it...guess that search...will lead to neverland *sigh*


Funny thing about that, i know a guy who will...i still won't drink it.


lmao


In fact, i think to myself "Why does he need me to drink it when he's more than willing to?" Whatever, i think it's cute.

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/21/2009 11:45:51 AM   
Phoenixpower


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Status: offline 		lol I will show this to Mr. Adorable when we reach that stage  maybe I can convince him to drink it himself, when I give him one of my posh wine glasses *thoughIguessthatcouldputmeintotrouble* lol

I really dislike swallowing it and remember one Dom who used his damn seriousness in his voice that I did not dare to "pull away again" when he was about to...cum

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/21/2009 11:48:13 AM   
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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/21/2009 6:43:47 PM   
Drifa


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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/21/2009 8:01:08 PM   
GYPZYQUEEN


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quote:

What i do is to fake it (earlier post). He has no clue i do this so we both end up happy




so then..
from one of my gf's..............
She says she lets it blow in her mouth but leaves her mouth open and then just turns to the side and let's it run out on the sheets or whatever..or even deposits it there while he is still gasping..
........mouth is wet ..he's happy,,,

BUT then what would you ladie's say if he asked
"Did you swallow it all..?" or "Was it a lot..did you like it?"
"DO you like swallowing me?"

GQ

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/21/2009 10:08:29 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Phoenixpower

But I am still waiting for the bloke who would be willing to drink his own stuff before demanding from me to take it...guess that search...will lead to neverland *sigh*


I've known men to do that and neither I nor they ever blinked an eye at it.  I didn't think it was unusual.  I know I would definitely do it if I were a man and I bet most men do at least at some point.  One has got to be curious about how one tastes, no?

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/21/2009 10:32:23 PM   
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Status: offline 		You just slide it to the back of your mouth, press your tongue to the roof of your mouth and swallow, I don't know what the big deal is!

While I have never tasted the cum of other men and I have been told mine tastes better than most, I have never had a problem tasting it.  Nothing like filling a woman with hot cum and then licking a glob up and telling her to lick it off your tongue.  Or kissing her and sharing a bit of it.  It doesn't do anything for me but it does for them and then they do it for me and so, there you go!

Its like guys who laugh at you for going to yoga, ever SEEN the women who go to yoga?  Sure beats the ones hanging out smoking and drinking at a bar.  Speaking of which, smoking and drinking make cum taste nasty, as does coffee.  Drinking water and fruit juice makes your cum taste sweet. 

I just don't get it, I am like an indian, I don't think any part of a woman's body should go to waste and any women who wouldn't lick up my cum isn't worth my time either.

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/22/2009 6:07:12 AM   
Drifa


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quote:

ORIGINAL: GYPZYQUEEN

so then..
from one of my gf's..............
She says she lets it blow in her mouth but leaves her mouth open and then just turns to the side and let's it run out on the sheets or whatever..or even deposits it there while he is still gasping..
........mouth is wet ..he's happy,,,

BUT then what would you ladie's say if he asked
"Did you swallow it all..?" or "Was it a lot..did you like it?"
"DO you like swallowing me?"

GQ


How I'd answer these: "Thank you for allowing me to pleasure you."

I don't think I've ever had a man ask me if I liked the flavor or if I liked swallowing.

I have had them tell me to "swallow it all", but usually the ones interested in that are watching while you do it because they get a charge out of knowing that you did swallow, and they're likely to have both hands buried in your hair pulling you down on them at the time it all explodes, which helps with the deep throat swallowing.

I can get a lot of mileage out of the submission involved in performing oral service, and that's the main thing I do get from it if I'm not emotionally involved with the person. If I were in an emotional relationship, then I'd have the happy warm glowing feeling of knowing that I expressed my love and devotion in a way that gave them pleasure.

For my OWN pleasure, I'd pick performing oral service on a woman every time, because I find it incredibly erotic. But for a hard-core submissive experience, being on your back with your head over the edge of a bed, hands restrained, while a man thrusts into your mouth with you very much not in control is really hot, too, but it's a different set of mental triggers.



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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/22/2009 7:16:24 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael


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I just don't get it, I am like an indian, I don't think any part of a woman's body should go to waste and any women who wouldn't lick up my cum isn't worth my time either.


I AM PART INDIAN...and I think
it is best to skin men...
so there is no waste..
GQ

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