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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 10:10:15 AM

Kat713

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Like some other posters are saying, if this is something that truly makes you ill and you just can't stand it, set it as a hard limit or tell the person you don't want to swallow. I have only sucked one guy in my life and I love doing it for him. And even though I do not like swallowing, because the person is really important to me, I want to please them. So yea, some people swallow because they like to- that is NOT me lol. I do it because it makes me feel like I did something nice for him. And I don't do it all the time, because sometimes, I just KNOW I might puke lol.
So basically what I am trying to say is don't think you HAVE to swallow in order to be a good... sucker.
But if you insist,then here's my take on things:

Ok, maybe this is cheating lol but this is what I do. If I really don't want to swallow, then I will alternate between using my hands and mouth , also using both at the same time. And when he is about to come (you can normally tell if you are used to the person's moans, also the balls tend to tighten), I just switch to using my hands at the last minute. Then is shoots all over my face normally, or boobs, or sometimes just my hand (boring lol).

Now, if I want to swallow but am just really not wanting to deal with the taste, I dilute lol. So when you are sucking it, you're bound to get lots of saliva in your mouth. Most people just swallow it or let it run from their mouth after a bit builds up. I do, too. But as he gets closer to coming, I don't. So finally when he comes, I also have a mouthful of saliva. It really dilutes the tatse. Then, I just take a big gulp, and bam, all the saliva and cum go bye bye, then i give him a sexy little look and lick the tip one more time to clean it off.

So yea, I know it might sound wierd, but that's just what I do.

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 10:25:00 AM

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Some of these responses are a riot.

Have so many of you never heard the words, “and don’t you dare miss a drop”?

I am fortunate, I guess, my natural/conditioned response to him cumming in my mouth, is to shove my face into his crotch.
Most of his sperm never touches my mouth.

In the past, texture has been a slight issue, but I have trained my mind to concentrate on other things.

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 10:29:15 AM

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Ive been a swallower since I got my first taste of cock. lol. What worked for me at first is drink something beforehand so I can produce saliva so that when the end result is ejected its more spit than sperm and then swallow super fast like its a cough medicine ya hate. Maybe keep tictacs on hand for a stronger flavor to drown out one you dislike? I think I am just rambling now, but good luck!

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 10:52:46 AM

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No offense but that's a really silly analogy, there's no way, that swallowing will ever likely save someones life, so there for it's not a reason to learn to swallow, and what does that have to do with the subject matter making you puke, unless by some odd bizarre circumstances someone is holding your wife or your child hostage, and only swallowing their cum will ll spare their lives. Or maybe it was supposed to be a really round about way of saying just learn to deal.?

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ORIGINAL: leadership527

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ORIGINAL: YoungBlondeSlave
It makes me puke. How do you get around that?

I'm going to try to not sound trite writing this... but I need to ask a question...

If your life depended on NOT puking.. no wait.. If the life of a child or loved one of yours depended on swallowing and not puking and I gave you two weeks to figure it out, are you saying you wouldn't? I know for me, I'd try just dealing. If that failed, then I'd get a sample and hold small amounts in my mouth until I acclimated. But I can utterly guarantee you that if eating [insert disgusting thing here] without puking was required for Carol's survival, then I'd find a way to do it.

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 11:34:18 AM

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But basically if a guy insists you do something that makes you ill, he isn't interested in your safety so why would you be interested in him

*laughs* Wow... let's see yesterday I disagreed with NihilusZero and later had to recant. So now I'm gonna go out on a limb yet again and disagree with you Des. I think things are a bit more complicated than that.

So Carol, as I noted, has issues with texture. I have not commanded her to swallow nor do I intend to. But, I have also let it be known that I would like it if she did. Basically, I'm getting my way, but in a slower, more patient sort of way. As I expected, it bugs her that there's this one tiny area wherein she doesn't please me as well as she'd like to and she's working on it herself. Now, given that I anticipated that exact reaction, you really have to consider that I might as well have given a command. It's just a command in slow motion *laughs*.

As is always true in long-term committed relationships, you kind of get the hall of mirrors effect. It gets really hard to see where things start and stop. Does she want to? Well no, but yes because I want her to. DO I want her to. Well, yes, but no because she doesn't want to. Did I command her... Well no, but kind of yes.

As an interesting side excercise, I wonder how many people would think of that as being in control -- it's a fairly loose sort of control and I've oft speculated that for the vast majority of subs or doms, it wouldn't be enough. To me, it is as surely in control as any other way. I know how this story is going to end and I'm going to get my wish. But that sort of subtley doesn't fit in well with those who need the more overt, "kneel and blow me bitch" sort of control. That sort of thing is, in large part, why I reverted more to calling her my wife than my slave unless I'm specifically referring to our authority dynamic. It's also why I am routinely thankful that it is her and not some random other sub who's mine.

*** we now return you to our regularly scheduled thread on spit vs. swallow *** *grins*

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 12:12:34 PM

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One thing that you might want to try is have your man drink some pineapple juice. I hear that this changes the taste of cum significantly. Avoid foods like onions, garlic, asparagus, and broccolli. Cinnamon, peppermint, and lemon supposedly help as well. Reducing overall redmeat and dairy intake can help reduce the salty taste. Junk food, with all the dyes and such make it worse. Celery is supposed to help....and always have him drink tons of water. Hope this helps!!

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 12:20:09 PM

YoungBlondeSlave

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jdjd i apologize if i seem to have hijacked your thread.

i appreciate all of the responses and help that has been provided. Holly, as mentioned i will definitely try what you suggested.

However, seriously, i think i've come to the conclusion of making it a limit to be revisited later. beth was the first to have that idea, so thank you beth. i'm not going to do it with *any* Dom but maybe after i've established a long-term, secure, trusting relationship then i will probably want to work to develop this particular skill more for whoever i'm with because, i would want to make him happy. i figure it's a win-win, sort of, unless he's hell bent on me swallowing from day 1...then he's SOL and not for me anyway.

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 1:49:45 PM

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When you feel his ejaculation starting, take his cock as deeply into the back of your throat as you can and keep swallowing as he's shooting it. You have less taste buds on the back of your tongue, so it's not as intense, and it either goes down your throat or gets swallowed quickly so it's not oozing around in your mouth to taste. Always worked for me!

If you want to make them feel good, however, lick your lips afterwards and say, "mmmmmmmmmmmm". They really dig it.

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 1:52:34 PM

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I dislike swallowing too, I seriously prefer not to. However, when I was in relationships and they insisted on it I used to receive gentle force with the guy "holding my head in its place"

Doesn't make it any better, but at least it helps me to get used to the taste of the guy and it breaks down the barrier.

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 1:58:00 PM

Kat713

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quote:

ORIGINAL: YourhandMyass

No offense but that's a really silly analogy, there's no way, that swallowing will ever likely save someones life, so there for it's not a reason to learn to swallow, and what does that have to do with the subject matter making you puke, unless by some odd bizarre circumstances someone is holding your wife or your child hostage, and only swallowing their cum will ll spare their lives. Or maybe it was supposed to be a really round about way of saying just learn to deal.?

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 2:09:16 PM

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the further down your throat he is when he cums, the easier it is to swallow. if you don't like the taste, don't keep it in a position where you will get it on your tongue.

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 2:11:53 PM

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ORIGINAL: windchymes
If you want to make them feel good, however, lick your lips afterwards and say, "mmmmmmmmmmmm". They really dig it.

You cunning wench, you

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 3:16:58 PM

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< Message edited by leadership527 -- 5/19/2009 3:43:10 PM >

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 3:56:53 PM

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ORIGINAL: jdjd

hello, im very new to sucking so i was wondering if any other subs out there have any tips that could help me. In particular i am having trouble swallowing, i think about it all the time and really want to however when the opportuinity presents itself, i freak!
thanking you,
jdjd!

you don't need a person of submissive orientation to help teach you...

you need a man to shove his cock so far down your throat that you can't help but swallow, and breath through your nose only, of course

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 4:40:24 PM

jdjd

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Hello Matt's littleone!
Thank you heaps for your reply. Dont get me wrong i really enjoy swallowing, i get alot of satisfaction from doing it, however it is the taste i do not like and this really fustrates me because i really want to like it.

I have swallowed before but im having trouble being consistant which i feel limits my sucking to the bathroom. but its more than that, sometimes i become reluctant to suck at all. i think about sucking and swallowing all the time but when it actually comes to doing it i cant.

thanks again!

jdjd

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 4:43:43 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: jdjd

I have swallowed before but im having trouble being consistant which i feel limits my sucking to the bathroom. but its more than that, sometimes i become reluctant to suck at all. i think about sucking and swallowing all the time but when it actually comes to doing it i cant.

thanks again!

jdjd

Ever tried asking to coat the cock with something yummy, like chocolate, first?

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 4:45:29 PM

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hello Kim,

How did you train your mind to think of other things? and what types of things did you try to think about?

Thank you for your post, i appreciate it!

jdjd

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 4:54:57 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: jdjd

hello, im very new to sucking so i was wondering if any other subs out there have any tips that could help me. In particular i am having trouble swallowing, i think about it all the time and really want to however when the opportuinity presents itself, i freak!

thanking you,

jdjd!

i love to suck, swallow, and say thank you!

lol... only with two men has the issue of swallowing been an issue. by the time he is cumming, most could care less where it ends up. you could beg to feel his cum against your skin. many men love those money shots from porn flicks ask to be his porn star and wear it. but, above all else, it should be a pleasurable experience for you both. communication is the key. talk to him, explain... no matter how uncomfortable the conversation turns out. dietary changes can help, sometimes. sometimes, you cant do anything about it at all. its a conversation you both need to have.

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 4:57:28 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: leadership527

quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP
But basically if a guy insists you do something that makes you ill, he isn't interested in your safety so why would you be interested in him

*laughs* Wow... let's see yesterday I disagreed with NihilusZero and later had to recant. So now I'm gonna go out on a limb yet again and disagree with you Des. I think things are a bit more complicated than that.

So Carol, as I noted, has issues with texture. I have not commanded her to swallow nor do I intend to. But, I have also let it be known that I would like it if she did. Basically, I'm getting my way, but in a slower, more patient sort of way. As I expected, it bugs her that there's this one tiny area wherein she doesn't please me as well as she'd like to and she's working on it herself. Now, given that I anticipated that exact reaction, you really have to consider that I might as well have given a command. It's just a command in slow motion *laughs*.

As is always true in long-term committed relationships, you kind of get the hall of mirrors effect. It gets really hard to see where things start and stop. Does she want to? Well no, but yes because I want her to. DO I want her to. Well, yes, but no because she doesn't want to. Did I command her... Well no, but kind of yes.

As an interesting side excercise, I wonder how many people would think of that as being in control -- it's a fairly loose sort of control and I've oft speculated that for the vast majority of subs or doms, it wouldn't be enough. To me, it is as surely in control as any other way. I know how this story is going to end and I'm going to get my wish. But that sort of subtley doesn't fit in well with those who need the more overt, "kneel and blow me bitch" sort of control. That sort of thing is, in large part, why I reverted more to calling her my wife than my slave unless I'm specifically referring to our authority dynamic. It's also why I am routinely thankful that it is her and not some random other sub who's mine.

*** we now return you to our regularly scheduled thread on spit vs. swallow *** *grins*

sometimes i adore being commanded, makes me feel like he really wants what he wants. and other times, i like suggestions. its almost like its tossed out there. him telling me what he desires, and leaving it up to me to show him how much i want to please him.

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 5:13:59 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: jdjd

hello Kim,

How did you train your mind to think of other things? and what types of things did you try to think about?

Thank you for your post, i appreciate it!

jdjd

You're welcome.

Mostly I have stopped thinking of his cum as sperm, and started thinking of it as being a continuance of him. It helped that he has always insisted I not miss any. It has made the substance itself, important in my mind.

It is also possible to concentrate on one or more, other senses, to block out another.

Though, usually, I address the task with such a hunger; there is little time for tasting or thinking.

Another thing, he has had me play with myself, while giving him head, numerous times; an added help in causing me to force his cock further into my mouth. When his 'rocket' is taking off; I often am too!

Kim

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