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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/23/2009 10:57:35 AM

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/24/2009 12:04:33 AM

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i don't have a problem swallowing (and REALLY enjoy it) but i have a problem taking all of HIM. i have a tiny mouth and my teeth curve is narrow so consequently i have to open wider in order to not 'bite' HIM or graze HIM with my teeth. Seems that is a turn off *smiling*

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/27/2009 3:25:16 PM

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hi...this is the sub f in the relationship...(1)dont think abt swallowing...jus think abt givin ur master as much pleasure as possible...it will all be over and done with before you know it...(2)dont hold it in ur mouth as soon as it hits ur tongue swallow...(3)dont breath while you swallow u taste it less...

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/27/2009 3:37:35 PM

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Jeez. This thread makes me rather glad I can't give head!

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/28/2009 5:57:52 PM

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Since you so handily blocked me:

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/28/2009 8:37:07 PM

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It's probably a moot point by now (five or more pages? But I've only read the first).

I dun have a problem with swallowing. Never have, likely never will. I like the taste of cum, though. And the consistency (well, consistencies, depending on how much water he's had during the day

I like thicker cum the best)

I LOVE it. Every guy has tasted good except for one (who tasted like cigarette ash), and even HE I swallowed easily. It was simple for me... because I wanted it. It slithers down the throat, and I like that feeling.

Basically, what I'm saying is, you gotta want it. Really. If you don't want it then you're at a disadvantage. If you *also* don't like the taste... well, you're at a double disadvantage.

Unless it makes you sick, or similar, then these two things are what you have to work on. Learning to love the taste, and learning to love the feeling of swallowing.

Exactly what's so hard about it? What makes you 'freak'?

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/28/2009 8:42:37 PM

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if i said "just suck it up!" would that be too obvious?
personally...its a reward to me....a mouthful ...or throatful of His hot cum...letting me know i have been a good girl...and pleased Him...nothing says "you have done well my little slut" than getting my hair grabbed my nose pushed into his pubic bone and a load of hot cum shot down my throat. Guess to each their own...

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/28/2009 9:00:31 PM

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it's all body temp going on.

Just gotta say that this is (mostly) false.

The guys I've been with, at least, that enjoy oral sex the most enjoy it because of the texture of the lips and, especially of the tongue, something that you don't get even with the thinnest of condoms.

I'd still suggest oral condoms and not swallowing with someone you don't know well (or whose STI status you don't know) but that's a misconception I've seen a disturbing amount of times (largely propagated by women, who don't have a penis to know it's not true

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As a guy who *DOESN'T* like oral sex mainly BECAUSE of the 'body temp' thing (there's also the wet thing, and the fact that too many guys focus on just the head, or on the whole 'o' face thing and take the tongue out of the equation, among many of my other complaints), this is a misconception about oral sex I feel I must combat regularly (right on up there with the 'all guys LOVE getting oral' or 'all guys want to be deep-throated').

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/28/2009 10:12:28 PM

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The guys I've been with, at least, that enjoy oral sex the most enjoy it because of the texture of the lips and, especially of the tongue, something that you don't get even with the thinnest of condoms.

My point was that it makes a good set of training wheels while you learn technique. Once you are more confident, it becomes much easier to swallow. As many have noted, a little deep throat at the very end puts most of it back beyond the reach of taste buds, and practice is the key to that.

I've also had a couple of fellows who were not even aware I'd blown the condom on them. It wasn't like I was keeping it a secret (the mint ones are kinda "screaming green"), but rather that I was doing a lot more than being a vacuum pump and what I was doing was pleasurable, the condom was lubricated inside and out with saliva, and it was at body temperature going on. If you incorporate the application into the pleasurable process of the play, then it can enhance the experience rather than detract.

I'll agree that ya, a condom probably doesn't feel the same as bare to the world (I can't say definitely, being a girl) however I think a lot of people who have issues with condoms just don't get them lubed up and applied right. And in today's world with the STDs out there, it makes sense to use condoms when you play, use them every time, and learn to enjoy them.

A BJ with a little less sensation is probably better than no BJ at all. And if the blower applies skill and imagination and spends time making love to the cock (and the man!) wearing the condom rather than just trying to get him to ejaculate, then that's always a better BJ than a bad one with no condom where the person is tenative, doing it begrudgingly, and is dreading the final moments of the activity.

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/29/2009 12:37:16 AM

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I dunno if I agree.

If the point is to learn how to swallow it doesn't help at all.

If the point is to learn blowjob technique (other than the patented hoover-suck, which I pointed out before does NOT satisfy all guys) it doesn't help at all.

Pretty much the only things a condom (in the case of oral sex) promotes is disease protection, and a mental relief for those suckers who don't want to come anywhere near ejaculate at all (unless it's one of those fancy types that has lubrication on the inside that's reactive to temperatures).

You're right that too often they're not applied correctly or with enough lubrication... but, honestly, the general consensus I've ever reached with male friends is that if you're having oral sex with a condom it's because you couldn't find a normal condom for 'normal' sex. The vacuum pump 'technique' does nothing more than to emulate the tightness of one of the usual penetrative holes (meaning you might as well be fucking one of them, from the guy's perspective).

Most guys, I bet, wouldn't turn down a blowjob with a condom if it was a choice between that and no sexual gratification... but the number would swing waaaaay in the other direction if the other choice was vaginal/anal sex with a condom.

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RE: swallowing techniques - 6/1/2009 11:44:03 AM

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If you're not allergic to it (which of course would be an acceptable excuse) but "just don't want to" do it...I'm surprised your Master has not included this in your training.

I've never had a slut who wouldn't at least take it in their mouth (what you do with it after that is up to you! But of course we'd prefer you share it with a slut who happens to love cum, in a deep kiss!)

Not "wanting" to??? Unless there's some deeper reason - I just don't get that!

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RE: swallowing techniques - 6/1/2009 12:23:15 PM

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It makes me puke. How do you get around that?

I'm going to try to not sound trite writing this... but I need to ask a question...

If your life depended on NOT puking.. no wait.. If the life of a child or loved one of yours depended on swallowing and not puking and I gave you two weeks to figure it out, are you saying you wouldn't? I know for me, I'd try just dealing. If that failed, then I'd get a sample and hold small amounts in my mouth until I acclimated. But I can utterly guarantee you that if eating [insert disgusting thing here] without puking was required for Carol's survival, then I'd find a way to do it.

That's perhaps a less direct way to say what breatheasone said.

Don't get me wrong. Carol doesn't like it either.. a texture issue in her case... and I don't command her to. So I'm not some dom standing here saying, 'just deal girl'. But if it's important to you, then it's important, so deal. *laughs*.

< giggling > Thank you for saying what needed to be said, Jeff! :>
These sort of threads always puzzle me...it's not a toxic chemical yet some people make a huge deal of it. I can't say I've had occasion to make a wide sampling of said item from many people but from those I have, the taste has ranged from not much to ickey bitter and the texture from liquidey to kinda curdy. Obviously, some was more, ummm, pleasantly flavorful or textured than others (And, as I've made a mental search, no, my emotions about the person didn't have anything to do with the way I interpreted taste or texture) but it's just a couple of tablespoonfuls of spunk, people: if you're gonna swallow it, freakin' swallow already, don't turn it into a harrowing experience.
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RE: swallowing techniques - 6/1/2009 12:35:13 PM

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LOL
Davan,
It was all going good and well until you said "curdy".

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RE: swallowing techniques - 6/1/2009 12:41:43 PM

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Hi, j----
I know < grimace > but a couple of times, that's been a pretty accurate descriptor (I actually thought about changing the word but thought: no, that's what it was < shrug >). Still, though, even if assume bitter and curdy (Which, I will admit is a pretty gross assumption), I don't 'get' people who refuse to be done with it and just swallow.
My take on the whole spit-versus-swallow debate is that it seems like it would hurt a lot of guys' feelings if one spits in that circumstance, so if it's a guy I'm in a relationship with, I'm swallowin'.
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RE: swallowing techniques - 6/1/2009 12:44:33 PM

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Right before he cums, I make sure it gets shoved all the way to the back of my throat, then I don't have to taste it. That of course depends on my mood, sometimes I want to taste every drop, sometimes not.

My M loves when I graze him with my teeth, if I ever have to give someone else a bj, I think I might have to relearn the no teeth rule.

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RE: swallowing techniques - 6/1/2009 1:18:50 PM

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My only pet peeve in the process is a sub that starts but doesn't finish. In your mouth, on your face, in your hands, hell even inside you (if you can get it up there that fast) really doesn't matter so much, just finish it for God's sake.

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RE: swallowing techniques - 6/1/2009 4:07:56 PM

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MMMMmmm ... There are a few posts from the past on the scearch here on this subject. Being trained in this area pretty well, there are things like pineapple juice, mint, and a slew of other food to aid with the taste. If nothing else, just have the unit shoved down as far as can go and let it rip! Good luck, i do understand how it feels to be new at this :)

Blessings,

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RE: swallowing techniques - 6/1/2009 5:50:53 PM

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I don't 'get' people who refuse to be done with it and just swallow.
My take on the whole spit-versus-swallow debate is that it seems like it would hurt a lot of guys' feelings if one spits in that circumstance, so if it's a guy I'm in a relationship with, I'm swallowin'.

I agree. Jeez, it's not like we all don't have to swallow some less-than-pleasant things for our own gratification (I'm thinking Cuervo, here). So "suck it up" for your man's gratification.
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