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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 5:17:35 PM   
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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 5:22:49 PM   
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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 5:38:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		This is why flavored condoms were invented. Honestly, a nice mint-flavored unlubricated condom - most sex shops sell the flavored condoms cheap in a bin at the front.

Put the condom in your mouth and blow it on him. Learn how using a banana, practice a lot. Your own saliva lubricates the thing, and it's all body temp going on. You will end up doing a much better blow job because you won't be dreading the ejaculation. You can spend more time and concentration teasing and making sure you caress and pamper every inch of him instead of worrying about the end of the act.

As you get better at oral sex, you can learn to deep throat. I agree with other posters that if you are going to swallow, going deep as the ejaculation starts helps, just keep swallowing over and over through it.




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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 9:27:36 PM   
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where is he, i wanna suck!
 

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 9:38:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		It's easy. Just think of it as swallowing snot.... someone ELSE'S snot.

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/19/2009 9:49:20 PM   
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I have swallowed before but im having trouble being consistant which i feel limits my sucking to the bathroom. but its more than that, sometimes i become reluctant to suck at all. i think about sucking and swallowing all the time but when it actually comes to doing it i cant.

thanks again!

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/20/2009 2:29:17 AM   
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It's easy. Just think of it as swallowing snot.... someone ELSE'S snot.


Blech. This doesn't help.

i do agree, though.

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/20/2009 3:34:29 AM   
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I also hate it. Hubby does not ever let me do it..he pulls away and uses a towel. So after 15 years to have Daddy want me to??? Whoa. Anyways, I always let him know that I am scared and he rubs my head and says it is okay. Twice, when he has (in 13 months) he made sure that he was very far into my throat so that it just went down quickly and I only had to forcefully swallow a bit. After wards was the biggest hugs and cuddles and such I have ever gotten cause he knew how much I was unsure about it.Maybe in time it will change but only for Daddy!!!
I also agree with "licking it up"?? Thankfully, I have not been told to do that-yet....hopefully not. Good luck!
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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/20/2009 8:06:56 AM   
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Like most, I find it very hard to swallow. I have found it much easier to get this done when the male is on top straddling my face, with me on the bottom laying face up. As he more or less pushes his cock and weight into my face the cock seems to go in deeper and when he cums I am unable to pull away. He is happy and I am happy to swallow him, a win, win for both.

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/20/2009 9:37:53 AM   
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It's easy. Just think of it as swallowing snot.... someone ELSE'S snot.


Blech. This doesn't help.

i do agree, though.


I think every guy that wants a woman to swallow... especially those men who expect the submissive to lick their lips, swish it around in their mouths and smile...should experience it himself first so he truly understands what he is asking for... and it should be done in the presence of their submissive so she can watch :)

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/20/2009 2:53:06 PM   
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greetings, jdjd
Like most, I find it very hard to swallow. I have found it much easier to get this done when the male is on top straddling my face, with me on the bottom laying face up. As he more or less pushes his cock and weight into my face the cock seems to go in deeper and when he cums I am unable to pull away. He is happy and I am happy to swallow him, a win, win for both.


hello candisa
have you had a lot of practice with deepthroating though?

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/20/2009 3:38:41 PM   
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greetings, jdjd
Like most, I find it very hard to swallow. I have found it much easier to get this done when the male is on top straddling my face, with me on the bottom laying face up. As he more or less pushes his cock and weight into my face the cock seems to go in deeper and when he cums I am unable to pull away. He is happy and I am happy to swallow him, a win, win for both.


hello candisa
have you had a lot of practice with deepthroating though?


greetings jdjd,
I have had my fair share of practice, I mean most men wish for it and enjoy it. I would be the first to tell you I am not a pro, but that is one technique that works for me.

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/20/2009 4:08:10 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

I think every guy that wants a woman to swallow... especially those men who expect the submissive to lick their lips, swish it around in their mouths and smile...should experience it himself first so he truly understands what he is asking for... and it should be done in the presence of their submissive so she can watch :)


I’ve adapted a philosophy on the subject; of someone I had acquaintance with long ago.

“I care just as much about my dick, as I do my tongue; if I am not willing to lick it, I’m not going to stick it.”

Having someone stop just before I came, would suck, and its not like they wouldn't have to deal with taste from the onset; I wouldn’t feel right doing it to someone else; especially not someone I have given myself to.

I haven’t used it as mouth wash, nor gargled with it, but licking my lips and smiling after, just happens.

Kim

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/20/2009 5:06:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

I think every guy that wants a woman to swallow... especially those men who expect the submissive to lick their lips, swish it around in their mouths and smile...should experience it himself first so he truly understands what he is asking for... and it should be done in the presence of their submissive so she can watch :)

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/20/2009 7:20:16 PM   
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Not everything feels the same way to all people though, so it''d really be a moot point in terms of see that's what it's like for me lesson. He may say yum that's wonderful I don't know what you're bitching about, because to him it was wonderful or not awful.



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I think every guy that wants a woman to swallow... especially those men who expect the submissive to lick their lips, swish it around in their mouths and smile...should experience it himself first so he truly understands what he is asking for... and it should be done in the presence of their submissive so she can watch :)



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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/20/2009 8:03:27 PM   
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This is a case where I can empathize with men.  Oral sex is extremely pleasurable for most persons receiving it.  Wouldn’t we as women be highly offended if the men expressed such revulsion and disgust about cunnilingus? 


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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/20/2009 11:19:43 PM   
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the further down your throat he is when he cums, the easier it is to swallow. if you don't like the taste, don't keep it in a position where you will get it on your tongue. 


Absolutely.  When He's ready to cum, breathe in and deepthroat that thing.  He's probably gonna want His whole cock in your mouth & if it's down your throat - or at least past the back of your tongue - you won't taste the cum.  When swallowing used to bother me, that's what i did & it worked.  As for licking it up.....that's nasty ass.  That's still a BARF!! situation for me.  It's just not the same if it's not right from the cock. 

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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/20/2009 11:35:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		Wow, glad my pet doesn't have that aversion or problem.  Now, as far as the problem.  Not able to swallow quickly enough, that just takes practice.  Is it the taste/texture that throws you?  A lot of that has to do with diet, and somewhat with personal chemistry between two people.  To person A someone's ejaculate may taste just fine, even wonderful, but to person B, that same ejaculate may taste like burnt shoe leather.

Speaking of burnt shoe leather, a high meat diet, especially red meats will cause that, high caffeine diets will also play hell with the flavour and texture.  You don't even WANT to know what asparagus will do... >.<

Fresh fruits and rice help a lot with the taste and texture.

Now, let's say you just plain don't like it...  well, that's just something you'll have to take up with your partner, or just grin and bear it unfortunately.

Someone brought up the point of how offended women would probably be if men would say EWWWW to them in the same situation.  I really hope not, because I know a lot of guys (yes, straight ones) who feel that exact way.

As far as swallowing it quickly, not swishing it around and holding it in your mouth, very good idea, get that gone as fast as you can.  I actually demand my pet open his mouth afterward to show me he hasn't spilled or lost a drop.  Try that maybe, if it helps any.  Lift your head high, mouth wide open, not a single drop missed and show him with pride.  Might help, might not... just a suggestion.



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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/21/2009 5:07:26 AM   
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This is a case where I can empathize with men.  Oral sex is extremely pleasurable for most persons receiving it.  Wouldn’t we as women be highly offended if the men expressed such revulsion and disgust about cunnilingus? 


i'm glad someone finally said this....its CUM....not toxic f*ckin waste already


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RE: swallowing techniques - 5/21/2009 5:28:17 AM   
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This is a case where I can empathize with men.  Oral sex is extremely pleasurable for most persons receiving it.  Wouldn’t we as women be highly offended if the men expressed such revulsion and disgust about cunnilingus? 



*laughs* and there's a whole group of Dominants who lable cunnilingus as a "submissive" act because they don't want to admit they find the act disgusting.  Being a Dom means he never has to 'go down' again! Yea Dominance!

Not every submissive has to swallow or take it up the ass or fly into subspace or beg to have her tits skewered.  In recent hot topic CM news we've learned that even "no limits" slaves have limits.  And let me also say that there is a big difference between limits and limitations.  Cum doesn't make me puke but peas do.  It's not a hard limit for me to not eat peas, it's a physical limitation.  Should there ever arise a time when some terrorist put a gun to my grandson's head and said eat this entire can of Green Giant baby peas or the kid gets it.... I would eat and puke and eat and puke but I would be totally unable to not puke.  Geeze Louise people, we are not clones.

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