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DontLookBack -> RE: Lesbians: Why do you hate transsexuals so much? (10/14/2009 3:54:44 AM)
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ORIGINAL: pahunkboy
Well- I dont understand trans. Sorry.
I am not crazy over gay people....I have no interest in moving to a gay ghetto. There is a self hate- and it can come out at various times. I have known only 2 trans in my life. Both were in a place mentally that- was where I could not develop a friendship. Like- are you a man or a woman. How do I act? A woman that used to be a man is odd. I like my penis and would not want it cut off.
Gays in general have a high rate of drinking- drugging, and sex. gambling. and suicide.
The preferred life style IS hetero sexual. I don't have the need to change the world to be more fair.
Gays are messed up. But- when compared to straight people, straight people give it a run for the money in being messed up.
How I talk to a lady and how I talk to a male is different. It simply is.
But then I get confused.... man woman, cut off the penis, hold the door open? refrain from vulgarity? be curious or is that considered being nosy.
Of course- if you stand next to a person- you are banging that person.
Trans are messed up. Gays are messed up. and even the preferred lifestyle- Heterosexual has a large amount of messed up losers there.
The wold isnt sure how to deal with a a trans. and it is totally frustrating to fake like I under stand- because I do not.
In terms of sticking for gays; ... dont. Lets a good idea stand on its own weight. Criticism can lead to improvement.
Candidly- gays deserve to get a rap- on the messed up part.
While I prefer to know the gender of the person, i don't view things as sexual. I take it the other direction. I could care less who does what in bed. I don't want to be forced into bed- one way or the others- and to me- while at the dentist- my concern is professional proficiency, not on if he wants to cut off his penis. When I get my hair cut- I am not interested in what the cutter needs in bed.
....here is a way to think of it. Suppose my fly is down. I ram around out in the yard and at the store and people get a odd look about them. What I dont need is someone to stick up for me.... I might need someone to alert me that my fly is down. But maybe that pair of shorts the zipper is broke and I ignore that- and frollic about the town carefree and with glee.
-- at the end of the day- it is on me to improve my pants- or not. Possibly face a ticket- scorn- cat calls- or ever a fist fight.
Be ok with you- because when you gawk at me- and stare me down- what you then see isn't quite me- but your own reflection of the insecurity that is per you.... not I.
Think of life as a vacation. There are people who do so- making the pictures more important then the moment. Rush to relax. I have to have it ALL. Get a good picture. Hurry up so we can see all the spots... but what if you get no pictures? a bad picture? what if you had such a god time- you plum forgot to bring the camera.
...well guess what? that is when you are in fact- then LIVING.
You could call it "zen"-
See?
I don't see this as a hateful post, I see this as a pull up your socks, face the world and hold your head up high post.
I think he was being honest and trying to explain to you why some people may come across as hating you when that is not necessarily the emotion they are feeling, one of my favorite quotes is "first seek to understand, then to be understood", I think his intentions were good and he tried to do you a service, hopefully after a good nights sleep you can reread this and see it from a different point of view.
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