WIngedOne
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I am really concerned about the ignorance, disrespect and homophobia I'm witnessing on CollarMe around ALL things - gender variant. Yes some people go where they shouldn't - No doubt about it. They join the fakes, flakes, con-artists, wannabees, ego maniacs Doo Mee Princesses, Neanderthals, Psychos, Losers and the rest The problem is that some of you have pulled out that BIG BROAD BRUSH again You've done yourself and others a HUGE disservice. There simply isn't time in my life to read the volumes of mostly sad poorly-informed discussion. The ignorant posturing of underdeveloped minds struggling with the realities of the word they live in. Homophobia and ignorance in abundance. Our society has made considerable progress around many things. I recent times, "gay" and "lesbian" (Queer man). Before that we made a little progress around the color BLACK and before that SLAVERY. Of course there is still room for improvement. With the expanded awareness each generations of humans usually manifests its pretty sad to see so many here still in the Dark Ages about things Gender Variant. Grow up - Get real. This is a short if not impulse response. I'm hoping it will be read and considered .. I can but hope. However with the thickness and density of some of the Neandethals here I'm already wondering why I am bothering. Just think of the fun some of you will have reasserting your ignorance over and over again whilst you flame me. Bring it on... LABELS Oh yes .. us humans just love slapping a label here and there. My experience is that those who are most busy with their label slapping activities are usually the ones who aren't particularly comfortable within their own skin. Back YOU GO to personal development classes. Hitler (and others of his disgusting ilk) knew only too well the power of labels. When you label a group then you erase the individuals that comprise it. How convenient. All those souls conveniently rolled up into just one big horrible "thing". The Group 49ers vs Individuality Rockets When it suits us, we all band together under some banner or another: "Gay" or "Lesbian" or "Nazi" or "Leather" or "BDSM" or "I have a degree" or "I have two degrees" or "I didn't run Eron". Then - just as we are about to sit down, people are jostling about again trying to form sub groups: Here! Here! line up behind me. "Lipstick Lesbian". "Butch Dykes" CHOP "Dykes on Bikes". Sets and subsets and sub-subsets and sub-sub-subset sets. Doesn't it make ya feel good. I BELONG. AAAAhhhhhhhhh Transsexual, Transgender, Two-Spirit, Gender Fucker, Drag Queen, Cross-Dresser, Drag King, Transvestite, Autro-Erotic Gynophiliac, Supressed Gay Man, Tom-Boy blah blah blah Yadda Yadda Yadda Those among us who exhibit gender variant behavior (naturally - its not a choice you know) are actually a pretty small group, regardless that there are TON of LABELS to throw about or line up behind. Whatever "logical" basis you choose (or not) to categorize these hapless Gender Freekin Weirdo's - you get VERY small groups indeed. The term Transsexual was first appeared in 1949 and was used to define an individual who possessed a compelling desire to change apparent physiological sex. This simple definition has been refined with time and ongoing research. A medical "Standards of Care" was established. I guess it sits alongside "head-cold", "genital warts", "Bi-polar" and "Homosexual" WHAT? Its GONE hey. Wow! So those Gay Pansies along with those Lesbian B)*(()* F()*()* with hairy armpits aren't sick F*((&& mental cases who should be thrown in prison like these gender f()*(* weirdo imposters who don't belong anywhere and especially NOT HERE on COLLARME with us gguuuuurrrrrrllllllsss Are you starting to GET _ IT????? Poor Alan Turing. He did. Big Time. Here is where we take a ride on that dynamic human swing - pull together - push apart. The very very small group of individuals who truly, legitimately, in every sense of the word, fit the said definition, who simply wanna be, have to be, are driven to be, the boy/girl next door who used to be the girl/boy next door Well. they have been obliterated by one big LABEL Transgender Their identity, struggling to be known and understood (to some extent at least) has been consumed by Gay Men In Drag, Cross-Dressing Men in dresses with hairy legs, "Chicks with Dicks", all the types who regularly appear on Jerry Springer and more OUT OF EVERY 100 GENDER VARIANT INDIVIDUALS LESS THAN 5 UNDERGO SEX/GENDER REASSIGNMENT SURGERY. Pretty small group. So what are all the rest doing? (aside from incorrectly classifying themselves on CollarMe) You think about that DON"T LABEL PEOPLE REMEMBER THE INDIVIDUAL Genetics define Sex. Bbbzzzzzzz WRONG. This one has been laid flat in every significant Court of Law whenever some ignoramus attempted to assert it. If that very old and debunked argument HAD ever been held TRUE then ALL the "natal women" who just happened to have any of over 50 possible genetic conditions, would have found themselves re-categorized as a MAN the next time they saw their doctor for a checkup. "You say I'm a MAN Doc?" Far be it from me to argue about genes and chromosomes. Smarter people than YOU and I have considered over 20 fundamental pieces of substantial argument as to how we might recognize someones gender identity. Oh ... and there goes the LITTLE MISS who thinks all the High Court Judges, all the scientists, all the medical professionals, the family, the lovers, the friends, the co-workers those who spent years researching and talking to the actual person affected Those who know, understand, love and respect the "she who became a he" and the "he who became a she" ... So what does LITTLE MISS have to say now ? Whats that? THEY'RE ALL JUST STUPID .. THATS ALL Awesome LITTLE MISS WHEN YOU DONT HAVE AN ARGUMENT - JUST ASS - ERT! A great and wise scholar once said Gender should not be open to discussion or a matter of opinion If you're born female or male then that is what you are if you have surgery to change this then you are transsexual by all means consider yourself female but please don't expect others to Oooooo I get this game. Easy Peezy Q If you are diagnosed with CANCER tomorrow A Then CANCER is what you are and you should just DIE! Q If you are born with ambiguous genitalia? A Just let your obstetrics expert toss a coin and make a few snip and tuck adjustments! Gender is THAT easy. Q If there are twenty plastic surgeons in my street and I want bigger boobies? A Just put up with the ones I got Q The status of all mans knowledge and scientific endeavor A Rubbish .. all utter Rubbish How am I doing? CLASS ACTION JUSTICE & LIBERTY FOR COLLARME CATEGORIES PLEASE FEEL FREE TO ADD TO THIS LIST Christian Evil Kinkster / Non-Christian Evil Kinkster Black Man / White Man Jew / Everybody Else Good Looking Girl / Bag Ugly Under 120lbs / Over 120lbs Contented BBW / Fashionably Anarexic Republican / Democrat / Dingbat Girl with hairy Armpits / Smooth as SSSSSIIIIIIILLLLLKKKKK Bitch behind a nice smile / Nice girl with bitchen smile Hateful Ignorant and loving it / Just got back from my Sri on Goa Witch / Old woman with hut in the forest I could go on and on and on. This is ugly. So many humans are ugly. Righteousness, Biggotry, Ignorance are ugly. Just one more OK .. I'm not totally down on you I looked around and there were allot of people ... - claiming to be female who didn't shave their legs before the photo was taken (not that you have to mind you) - seemed to behave like a man when they spoke to me - didn't think that having a little peeni weeni (PENIS) between their legs was an ODD thing for a WOMEN to have and cheerish - Claimed to have successfully transitioned and yet: had no curves; had a three day growth poking through "Oh so thick foundation" - no boobies - no fashion sense (at all) - a bulge in "its" pants about 7" - 9" long and a copy of "Hot Trucks" stiking out of "its" handbag and more. No this isn't the Bizzaro World list of what defines a female. Just pumping out letters as a reaction to the HORROR of IGNORANCE
< Message edited by WIngedOne -- 10/8/2009 6:37:49 PM >
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