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Prinsexx -> Boring bdsm (7/5/2009 4:38:28 PM)

What bores you about bdsm?




Racquelle -> RE: Boring bdsm (7/5/2009 4:39:50 PM)

The posturing and the "protocols" which hold no personal meaning.




LadyDarkWolf -> RE: Boring bdsm (7/5/2009 4:40:34 PM)

Like anything else Repetition




Prinsexx -> RE: Boring bdsm (7/5/2009 4:42:35 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyDarkWolf

Like anything else Repetition

Some like the same ole same ole





LadyDarkWolf -> RE: Boring bdsm (7/5/2009 4:44:07 PM)

yes but some don't, if you played out a scene the same way every time would it not get boring for you??




kuriouswitch -> RE: Boring bdsm (7/5/2009 4:46:11 PM)

people who think that because they or someone else submit that means they're stupid, can't do anything right without being watched over, and that being submissive must mean they don't have any self respect.




Prinsexx -> RE: Boring bdsm (7/5/2009 4:48:20 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyDarkWolf

yes but some don't, if you played out a scene the same way every time would it not get boring for you??

I've never wanted the same scene more than once.
When it happened and kept happening and became a nightly ritual I just thought 'stupid wanker' and the spell was broken.
It was down hill all the way.





LadyDarkWolf -> RE: Boring bdsm (7/5/2009 4:55:08 PM)

so you could say you were bored and sent the wanker packing

no one wants the same scene all the time, but how many times have you been contacted by different subs wanting the same thing(spank my ass, force me to eat you, tie me up and beat me) in general I was speaking of subs with no imagination.




LadyDarkWolf -> RE: Boring bdsm (7/5/2009 4:57:28 PM)

sorry thought by your name you were Domme guess I should have looked at your profile first lol




Prinsexx -> RE: Boring bdsm (7/5/2009 5:03:36 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyDarkWolf

sorry thought by your name you were Domme guess I should have looked at your profile first lol

Alpha slave...
anyway yes understood and am endlessly contacted by doms who want the same:
I want to own you
I want you as my property
I want to fuck all your holes
I want you to procure me slaves
and that's on msn............




LadyDarkWolf -> RE: Boring bdsm (7/5/2009 5:18:04 PM)

exactly, there are also a lot of Doms out there with no imagination whatsoever.  




CatdeMedici -> RE: Boring bdsm (7/5/2009 5:30:21 PM)

Nothing, because I am free to be Me and I am far from boring.




IrishMist -> RE: Boring bdsm (7/5/2009 5:33:17 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Prinsexx

What bores you about bdsm?

The people [:D]




porcelaine -> RE: Boring bdsm (7/5/2009 6:44:59 PM)

overall nothing. i enjoy the diversity and varying thoughts and experiences i encounter. that's neat! in a relationship i would say a lack of creativity, spontaneity, and execution would leave me yawning.

porcelaine




WestBaySlave -> RE: Boring bdsm (7/5/2009 6:50:12 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Prinsexx

What bores you about bdsm?


Demanding emails from complete strangers wanting kinky sexual encounters under the guise of "training".






Missokyst -> RE: Boring bdsm (7/5/2009 6:51:13 PM)

What bores me?  Only one thing. 
I don't mind the games, I love playing and rarely get tired of what is used, no matter how many times I see it.  I would never choose a mate who did the protocal stuff so I avoid my eyes rolling back in my head.  I like men who are fun and if they are in my life I am not bored because we usually like similar things. 
What bores me is being asked.  Safe sane consensual.  Men ask me and it turns me off.  Not very PC of me but there it is.  I get a lot of flack for this but really, I am more than capable of making someone know their attention is not wanted.  So if a man tried and I was not into it, he would know soon enough.  But when he does try it and has not asked me first.. yummmmmmmmm... if I am into him it would be very difficult to resist.  lol and mostly I have not.
Kyst




peppermint -> RE: Boring bdsm (7/5/2009 7:23:25 PM)

I don't "do" boring. whether it's vanilla or BDSM.  There is nothing boring in my life.  I refuse to allow anything to be boring.  Each and every day is a new and exciting adventure.  




chamberqueen -> RE: Boring bdsm (7/5/2009 7:29:13 PM)

I never would have believed it could happen, but when I still had an account on CM I got bored by people telling me I was beautiful.  I got it from Doms and subs alike.  I think it's because I heard it so often that I totally doubted the sincerity of it.  I figured that either from the top or the bottom they wanted something from me.  




missunderstood88 -> RE: Boring bdsm (7/5/2009 7:47:59 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Prinsexx

What bores you about bdsm?

Flogging, whipping, and spanking. I'm glad other people have fun doing it, but it puts me quite to sleep.




DomImus -> RE: Boring bdsm (7/5/2009 7:55:52 PM)

Nothing at all. I don't do anything that bores me and only that which takes place in my own space is of any concern to me. There are certainly things about bdsm that fall outside of my space that I would or do find boring but those things don't happen in my space.




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