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RE: Spelling/Grammar (again?) - 7/18/2009 5:27:57 PM   
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Philosophy, you have met some extreme cases.  If you don't know the difference between a thing existing and not existing...right before your eyes, I don't know if anyone or anything can help you. 


...you what?

It's one thing to bang on and on about good grammar....but unless you're going to use that grammar to actually make sense it's all a bit futile isn't it?

Now point out to me where it was stated that i can't tell the difference between a thing existing and a thing not existing.

...live by the sword.......

I thought the difference between a casual style in conversation and bad grammar/spelling were obvious.  I am not going to insult you by pointing out the difference.  You may have not been the one to specifically say that a person could not see the difference between capital A and lower case, but someone did earlier.  Someone also used a similar justification for lack of punctuation.  I was saying that I have never met anyone who saw nonexistent periods or who could not tell B from b.

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RE: Spelling/Grammar (again?) - 7/18/2009 5:29:29 PM   
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I think the main point I was trying to make was that anyone with a challenge that means they are a bit different than the typical person will often have insecurities about that difference.  I am one straight shooter and believe me I believe in giving the straight facts in most everything, but I think we need to use a bit of tact, compassion and love in doing so.


Yes I see what you mean, however what word should one use, as soon as a word for such things becomes commonplace it get negative associations. Should one continue to invent new terms to try to stay ahead of the negativity weave?

Now I have Asperger syndrome and while that is not even close to the seriousness of what troubles your son. And is not mental retardation, Aspergers do give learning difficulties, and behavioral difficulties that many confuse with it. I have been bullied, so bad in fact that I had a mental breakdown while still in school. I do sympathize.

However, let us take another example, insanity, insane have negative associations, so we can not use that, troubled have negative associations, mentally disturbed, no can't use that. Disturbed, no not that either, what word should one use? Why can one not just take the word insanity back, and call a spade a spade? The same with mental retardation is the clinical term, I see no reason why one should not use it. Using it do not mean that one disrespect the person in question. It simply means that we can not continue to invent new terms for whatever ails pepole every time a term get to be slag for something negative.

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RE: Spelling/Grammar (again?) - 7/18/2009 5:33:00 PM   
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Which brings me to nephandi, although I like her, I have given up reading her posts because of her dyslexia and her English as a second language. Not because she has these difficulties that impact her writing in English in a text only medium but because she believes she does not have to mention this, that instead we should all look up other posters' profiles in case they mention any problem. I don't believe that's my job, I do think it is theirs. I am not a mind reader, and I rarely see the need to check a profile before responding. Quite frankly I don't have the time and I abhor people who expect me to mind read and know there is a problem.


I have never had a real need to inform pepole about where I come from or that I have mild dyslexia. I write stories, I write RPG modules and I am working on a book. I usually have nothing but positive feedback from those I communicate with online, well except idiots in online arguments that at times will play teacher and point out any flaw when they run out of intelligent replies. Basically while there are some spelling and grammar errors in what I writhe, I do consider my English skill to be good enough that warning signs really is not necessary.

And if someone can not look past a few errors here and there to bother with my post without a warning label, then seriously, that is more their problem than mine and they would probably not be the intended audience for my posts anyway.

I wish you well


Your posts are much more comprehensible than they were four years ago. Today I have no trouble reading them, then I did.

I have limited time to read and post. If I can read ten posts in five minutes as opposed to spending those five minutes trying to decipher one post, I will choose the ten that are easy to read. My time, I choose how to use it.

However it is not my responsibility to ask a poster if they have special needs. If they do, and need people to understand, it is their responsibility to state it.

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RE: Spelling/Grammar (again?) - 7/18/2009 5:36:56 PM   
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text speak KILLS me.  Then/than annoys me.  Most of the most common transpositions annoy me.   The only place I get irky about it, I think is in personal emails.   usually, anyway.  

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RE: Spelling/Grammar (again?) - 7/18/2009 5:41:30 PM   
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Oh honey I never thought anyone here did! lol He calls himself an idiot, when he last spoke that is. I have seen some amazing things and a lot of them on tv.  Where someone who was challenged in some way and yet was amazing in something else they could do.  I would rather highlight what they do well than to highlight what they don't do well. I just thought to bring out a few views of how cruel things can be when there are challenges that some may not understand.


When I was a child one of my best friends had extreme learning difficulties. While not clinical, his IQ was on the limit to it. Now my friend always believed himself stupid and he always put himself down over it. And I always told him you are not stupid. He always believed there was something wrong with him, but in fact he is one of the most hard working, kind and intelligent pepole I know. Yes intelligent, for while is IQ was low, he understood things others never got.

Your son should not think of himself as stupid, having an illness is not stupid, having ones brain not working like everyone else's is not stupid, and learning slowly is not stupid. There is far more involved with intelligence than how much IQ you have or how fast you learn. Your son works hard, he develops, he learns, and from what you have told us here, he is not stupid. And in fact, the so called less intelligent pepole often get things those of us that score higher on a IQ test never get. And that is not me being kind, I am a cynical bitch. I speak from experience.

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RE: Spelling/Grammar (again?) - 7/18/2009 5:45:09 PM   
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Greetings

Thank you. I have worked hard on improving my English skill, when I first started communicating in English online I could only write a handful of short words and use copy paste on what others wrote to get what else I needed to form rather primitive sentences. And I understand if you meant before. However I believed you where talking about today, where I do still make plenty of errors, I do believe I write English well enough to be understood.

Sorry for my harsh reply.

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RE: Spelling/Grammar (again?) - 7/18/2009 5:51:11 PM   
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nephandi..  although sometimes I have to sit back and do translations back and forth (I tried to learn to speak Dutch,, same thing there... LOL)  I do enjoy your posts.....

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RE: Spelling/Grammar (again?) - 7/18/2009 6:12:06 PM   
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good grief this is right up there with fat threads, IMNSHO

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RE: Spelling/Grammar (again?) - 7/18/2009 6:17:35 PM   
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Philosophy, you have met some extreme cases.  If you don't know the difference between a thing existing and not existing...right before your eyes, I don't know if anyone or anything can help you. 


...you what?

It's one thing to bang on and on about good grammar....but unless you're going to use that grammar to actually make sense it's all a bit futile isn't it?

Now point out to me where it was stated that i can't tell the difference between a thing existing and a thing not existing.

...live by the sword.......

I thought the difference between a casual style in conversation and bad grammar/spelling were obvious.  I am not going to insult you by pointing out the difference.  You may have not been the one to specifically say that a person could not see the difference between capital A and lower case, but someone did earlier.  Someone also used a similar justification for lack of punctuation.  I was saying that I have never met anyone who saw nonexistent periods or who could not tell B from b.


........way to miss the point. What i'm saying is that the way you constructed your paragraph earlier suggested that it was i who couldn't tell the difference between an upper case A and a lower case a.  Odd how someone who bemoans the apparent lack of grammar in others doesn't seem to think that if they're going to criticise others then they really ought to be more careful.

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RE: Spelling/Grammar (again?) - 7/18/2009 7:06:09 PM   
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Some folks even try to use big, fancy words, but they don't bother to look up the spelling (Shakespear, viseral?).


While my spelling and grammar tend to be passable, I am certainly not inclined to look up the spelling of a word, when I could use that time to express myself better instead. After all, who cares if some nitpick is upset with the spelling. It's far worse to lose the readers who are actually making an honest attempt at reading and understanding, or to fail to fully convey one's meaning, which is what can easily happen when one spends audit time on spelling instead of content and semantic clarity.

Incidentally, what the -bleep- is a "big, fancy word?"

For the most part, people who- like me- employ an extensive vocabulary, do so in order to avoid monotony in writing, or to convey the intent with as much precision as possible. That assists in reaching some readers, although some also find it harder to read, since they end up having to either guess at the meaning of those words, or look them up (there's that thing again, looking stuff up). Vocabulary sizes can differ by orders of magnitude, after all. That doesn't mean that all who use an extensive vocabulary have to be doing so out of vanity. Some simply realize that any approach will be a compromise, and choose to make as few compromises with the text itself as possible.

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How adults don't know the difference between YOUR and YOU'RE is beyond me.  And of course there is the old favorite, confusing DOMINATE with DOMINANT.  It is kind of amusing to see a profile from a self proclaimed goddess who thinks that alot is one word.


Let's have a look at this from a few different angles...

First, there's the one you're talking about: people who are simply careless. Those are usually accompanied by a number of very distinct errors, and the absence of certain other errors, unless they are intentionally writing that way, which tends to only be the case with people who are writing phonetically (which falls under the heading of the other angles), or who are using l33tspeak or some other intentional mangling.

Second, as far as the spelling "alot" is concerned, it's actually in some dictionaries, notably the one my browser uses. It is also notable that from a prevalent linguistic point of view, actual use is the real reference, meaning that "alot" is really an emerging word, whose primary use is demonstrated in the phrase "a lot of people post here alot." The alternative is to go with the definition based approach, in which case I'd note that Her Majesty the Queen's English- as well as the American misspellings thereof- hasn't always had the same form. Its spelling, its vocabulary, and even its grammar, has changed over the years, and will continue to do so. In that view, it is desireable and inevitable that some will be out of sync with the normative form, to allow the language to continue to evolve.

Third, there are people with disabilities that affect their ability to spell, and in some cases to even properly distinguish the letters they are writing. Regardless of any errors that may arise, it is plain ignorance to fail to acknowledge that there is a substantial amount of effort that has already gone into writing. That level of effort, which I- unlike you- have had the opportunity to witness firsthand, is a substantial credit to those people, and dismissing someone with the motivation and fortitude to overcome such a disability just saves the good ones for less ignorant or less nitpicky people than yourself.

Fourth, there are a number of non-trivial issues with not having English as a native language, e.g.:
  • Germanic languages readily construct compound words on the fly ("alot" is how we'd do it in Afrikaans, Danish, German, Icelandic, Norwegian, Swedish, etc.), which English used to do, but now mostly does in trademarks; this reduction in the productivity of the English language is bound to cause some mistakes to occur when those who are native speakers of compound-productive languages write English text. Mistakes that aren't all that easy to avoid.
  • Regarding "your," "youre," and "you're," those three are not phonetically distinct, which raises the bar significantly for a non-native speaker or one that relies on phonetics (many dyslexics do). These people readily distinguish the  semantics of the three, but not the spelling. Also, in some languages, the relevant bar construct doesn't even have an explicit syntactic representation. (English is terribly redundant in terms of vocabulary, grammar, syntax and idiomatic inventory, as you hopefully know.) That makes it akin to being red-green color blind and having to discriminate red-green color contrast on a regular basis.
  • Many of the contractions in English are for all intents and purposes not distinguishable from a suffix in writing or speech. Several languages, including my own, use suffix based conjugations for many of the things where English uses contractions, sometimes also employing a form of the suffix as a particle in the constructs where English will not allow a contraction. That is almost certainly how English will end up, as well. Some languages that have gone through this transition already will lend themselves to confusing these. Note that many courses in English will tend to emphasize the need to use contractions to lend a natural feel to the language, often long before the students have an adequate comprehension of the concepts involved, or of the uncontracted forms, thus adding to the risk of introducing a lasting confusion. A vocabulary, of course, doesn't help at all with this.
Finally, the English vocabulary, and its obscure, convoluted spelling conventions- the result of several major transitions in spelling that have been partially overlapping with the codification of standards- has a very large set of words that are either phonetically identical or have identical spellings, or both.

But, sure. It's incomprehensible how people can fail to keep the "simplest" matters straight. To you, at least. That's a limitation all of your own (well, in all fairness, you do share it with some other nitpicks), and sadly enough, it seems to be of your own making. Really, how retarded is that?

I find it fully comprehensible that, given as much time to study my language as e.g. nephandi has spent studying yours, you still won't be able to distinguish between something as simple as the number "one," the indefinite article "a" / "an," and the definite article suffix equivalent to "the." For me, it requires actual concentration to be aware of the distinction between "en" (one), "én" (one), "en" (a/an), "ei" (a/an), "et" (a/an), "-en" (the), "-a" (the), and "-et" (the), since they're part of my native language. For you, however, there will be hours upon hours of rote memorization, and you'll still be making more mistakes with it than nephandi does with am/are/is or your/you're, while making less sense.

And, of course, from what I've seen of your posting so far, the content will be less interesting, as well.

For a self proclaimed slave (Princeton definition follows), you're rather free with your sarcasm.

slave, n.:
  • a person who is owned by someone
  • someone who works as hard as a slave
  • work very hard, like a slave
  • someone entirely dominated by some influence or person; "a slave to fashion"; "a slave to cocaine"; "his mother was his abject slave"

    Or were we going with the "actual use" version?

    The one that allows "alot?"

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    P.S.: English punctuation is not universal, either, and quoted punctuation associates the "wrong" way.






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    RE: Spelling/Grammar (again?) - 7/18/2009 7:09:12 PM   
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    Greetings

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    Which brings me to nephandi, although I like her, I have given up reading her posts because of her dyslexia and her English as a second language. Not because she has these difficulties that impact her writing in English in a text only medium but because she believes she does not have to mention this, that instead we should all look up other posters' profiles in case they mention any problem. I don't believe that's my job, I do think it is theirs. I am not a mind reader, and I rarely see the need to check a profile before responding. Quite frankly I don't have the time and I abhor people who expect me to mind read and know there is a problem.


    I have never had a real need to inform pepole about where I come from or that I have mild dyslexia. I write stories, I write RPG modules and I am working on a book. I usually have nothing but positive feedback from those I communicate with online, well except idiots in online arguments that at times will play teacher and point out any flaw when they run out of intelligent replies. Basically while there are some spelling and grammar errors in what I writhe, I do consider my English skill to be good enough that warning signs really is not necessary.

    And if someone can not look past a few errors here and there to bother with my post without a warning label, then seriously, that is more their problem than mine and they would probably not be the intended audience for my posts anyway.

    I wish you well


    I agree. I find your posts thoughtful and logical and full of insight and depth. Dont change a thing. Keep being you.

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    RE: Spelling/Grammar (again?) - 7/18/2009 8:45:49 PM   
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    I empathise with the OP's opening statement and also find poor grammar a "turnoff". However, as CallaFirestormBW quite rightly noted the OP's grammar has room for improvement. My aged eye could not help but notice that each post slavekal made in this thread contains a minimum of one grammatical error. I recommend Hodges' Habrace Grammar Handbook, it is a portable comprehensive writing tool

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    RE: Spelling/Grammar (again?) - 7/18/2009 11:56:59 PM   
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    Really?  I grabbed one at random...this one...
    [A lot of it is just laziness too.  When I wanted to respond to the guy from Norway, I realized that I wasn't sure how to spell NORWEGIAN.  So you know what I did?  I looked it up.  It's kind of easy to do when you are already on the friggin' internet.  Good spelling does not make one effete or an elitist.  It just means that they give half a crap.]

    What grammatical error did you find there?  Or here...?

    [It's not good news, for sure.  But if it's true, it's true.  On a positive note, a couple of teachers of retarded kids (we call it cognitively impaired around here), teach their classes very well.  Kids learn multiplication, how to tell time, how to read, and how to write.  Their skills are way stronger than a lot of the "normal" kids out there. ]

    Your statement is simply not true.



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    RE: Spelling/Grammar (again?) - 7/19/2009 12:20:49 AM   
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    Aswad, that was great. You have pretty much described the situations where it may apply to those outside the US or with some sort of cognitive challenge.

    However back here in the states we do have a relatively large contingent who are completely lazy in that, as well as other respects. There is a big difference in being unable and unwilling.

    To expound, I'll keep it short, I have found problems with just understanding people speak : supposedly English. It is not necessarily what they refer to as ebonics, but close. The only thing that makes me want to avoid going to jail is the language difficulties.

    Being unable to understand English spoken that is not formed properly could well be called a cognitive disorder. It has not been officially to my knowledge but I think it could happen.

    I do have two almost disabilities though, in that I cannot read or write. The written word in cursive form, I am somewhat like a dyslexic, I can only read it very slowly. Text on a page is fine though. Also, I cannot write. I have no hope of writing cursive in any readable way, and even numbers and letters suffer unless I take great care. Luckily I only have to do this some of the time, like on a work order or ticket, things like that. But the disability exists no matter what my earning power or cognitive skills may be.

    No matter what anyone thinks of me and my literary competence though, this thread has been interesting.

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    RE: Spelling/Grammar (again?) - 7/19/2009 3:55:07 AM   
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    Since we are nitpicking here, is this a thread about cognitive grammar, reconstructive grammar, contrastive grammar, universal grammar, transformational grammar, generative grammar, head driven phrase structure grammar, combinatory categorial grammar, or lexical functional grammar?

    Suffice to say syntax is syntax.

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    RE: Spelling/Grammar (again?) - 7/19/2009 4:52:36 AM   
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    Irritants: "loose" instead of "lose", "could care less" instead of "couldn't".
     
    This kind of thing wouldn't make me like or dislike someone, but I do notice. And I am aware that my spelling and grammar are not always spot on, for sure.

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    RE: Spelling/Grammar (again?) - 7/19/2009 6:03:36 AM   
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    I don't check everyones profile just because I agree with them (although I did know nephandi was a woman).  I make alot of typos when I type.  I may, at times, be guilty of typing your instead of you're.  Am I lazy, maybe.  But no one's paying me to post my thoughts, and its not homework.  If I had to take the time to look up every word and check it for gramatical punctuation, I might not bother.  If everyone didn't bother for those very same reasons, there'd be nothing to read.  My suggestion to you, slavekal is buy a book and read it.  It's most likely going to be spelled right through and through.  If you like the color and splash of reading people's thoughts and opinions on a forum board, deal with the color and splash of their writing, too.

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    RE: Spelling/Grammar (again?) - 7/19/2009 8:33:42 AM   
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    "Could care less" has driven me crazy since I was a kid.  It makes no sense.  I am a huge Howard Stern fan, and he, Robin, and the whole crew say "could care less". 
    I did not start this topic to nitpick.  I never meant to suggest that people have to write in a formal style with graduate school level language skills.  There are parking ticket grammatical errors, misdemeanors, and also mass murders of words.  If we're really honest, I think most folks will admit that they know what I am saying here.  Everybody makes the occasional typo.  Maybe a person used a comma, where technically, a semicolon was appropriate.  That is not the same as routinely butchering the language.  And I don't mean people whose native language is not English.  I am guessing that Americans are probably the worst offenders.  Most other people in the world speak two or more languages.  In America, we are quickly becoming a land of nonlingual near illiterates.

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    RE: Spelling/Grammar (again?) - 7/19/2009 9:00:25 AM   
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    can't be the only one who gets a little turned off, no matter how sexy someone is, if they write like an eight year old. Some folks even try to use big, fancy words, but they don't bother to look up the spelling (Shakespear, viseral?). How adults don't know the difference between YOUR and YOU'RE is beyond me. And of course there is the old favorite, confusing DOMINATE with DOMINANT. It is kind of amusing to see a profile from a self proclaimed goddess who thinks that alot is one word.



    dont feel bad your not the only one i am sure alot of anal retentive people out their share your pain


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    RE: Spelling/Grammar (again?) - 7/19/2009 10:18:06 AM   
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    Okay...now you're just fuckin' with me!

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