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RE: Why is it called a scene? - 2/19/2006 11:34:02 PM

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Hey would you guys mind taking the direct replies/private convo off the forum and to private messages or emails? Thanks.

Ummm... sure.. sorry there LA.. didn't mean to intrude on your space here....

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RE: Why is it called a scene? - 2/19/2006 11:35:21 PM

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Ummm... sure.. sorry there LA.. didn't mean to intrude on your space here....

Passive aggressive comments again? I thought you'd finally moved on from that stage. Don't get pissy because I asked a polite, netiquette based request.

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RE: Why is it called a scene? - 2/19/2006 11:41:47 PM

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Passive aggressive comments again? I thought you'd finally moved on from that stage. Don't get pissy because I asked a polite, netiquette based request.

Aggressive???.. no.... i didn't jump you... as you just did me...

The topic is scenes.... I take is.. this is your scene... the way you like to play.. show off.. let it be known you are better than the rest of us.. can have "conversation in forums with others.. on others topics".. but when others do... you want it off the board.. kewl.. np.. if this is you scene.. that's great..

Have a nice evening LA

Oh and this isn't me being pissy... this is me being in a damn good mood and not letting you ruin it.... Smiles....

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RE: Why is it called a scene? - 2/19/2006 11:43:23 PM

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Hey would you guys mind taking the direct replies/private convo off the forum and to private messages or emails? Thanks.

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I just have to ask what ELSE do you call a large plastic paddle with a Pepsi logo on it but "toy?"

Implement is just so sterile.

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Points for wit, but yeah, very evil "implement" if you wanted a fluffy scene. :)

Bit of pot, kettle, black there, LA.

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RE: Why is it called a scene? - 2/19/2006 11:44:24 PM

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soooooooo... how about that Superbowl?

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META RE: Why is it called a scene? - 2/19/2006 11:45:44 PM

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Bit of pot, kettle, black there, LA.

I made the request after repeated instances. I think netiquette if flexible for an occasional one-off or cute comment, but once it becomes a repeated direct back-and-forth, that's a different story.

And again, I thought I asked politely. Even if they didn't like it, passive aggressiveness is never polite.

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RE: META RE: Why is it called a scene? - 2/19/2006 11:48:10 PM

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Lucky... my 2 cents worth... you truly seemed to be the only one bothered by it.

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RE: META RE: Why is it called a scene? - 2/19/2006 11:52:03 PM

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Lucky... my 2 cents worth... you truly seemed to be the only one bothered by it.

Not really bothered, notice that I didn't respond to Ownedgirlie's response because she clearly noted a tone of teasing and friendly polite acceptance with her inclusion of the winky smily face.

Truesub on the other hand, has a bad (self-admitted) history of becoming snippy and passive aggressive naturally when she feels affronted. That's part of the reason she deleted her earlier post- she made a snarky reply and thought better of it. She's thanked me in the past for not letting her get away with that behavior, so I felt it good to continue.

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RE: META RE: Why is it called a scene? - 2/19/2006 11:57:12 PM

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Actually my deleted remark was not aimed at you Lucky...

But be careful.. you're carrying on a conversation here..

yes i've admitted in the past.. i've made these types of statements... TO YOU.. can't imagin why though... can you????

And when I try to be nice.. throw you a bone.. trying to be nice.. you gonna throw it back... thanks.. i'll keep it now..

Oh btw.. my deleted remark.. was WTF.. we're just trying to have some fun here.... and it was towards... Shade Diva.... about her post to me...

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RE: META RE: Why is it called a scene? - 2/20/2006 12:01:31 AM

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Actually my deleted remark was not aimed at you Lucky...

I know. I said "you made a snarky reply." I did not say "you made a snarky reply to me"

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But be careful.. you're carrying on a conversation here..

Yes, hence the "META" tag to let people know that we're discussing the forum discussion and its dynamics ITSELF, not the actual topic.

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yes i've admitted in the past.. i've made these types of statements... TO YOU.. can't imagin why though... can you????

Because you get frustrated, think no one will call you on it, get a personal pleasure and buzz from digging someone without directly hitting them, and feel you have to reclaim some sense of pride.

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RE: META RE: Why is it called a scene? - 2/20/2006 12:03:07 AM

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Oh btw.. my deleted remark.. was WTF.. we're just trying to have some fun here.... and it was towards... Shade Diva.... about her post to me...

It was a lot more and longer than that and included a lot of snarky nasty remarks. I personally was glad you had thought better of posting it and deleted it in an attempt to lessen unnecessary drama.

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RE: META RE: Why is it called a scene? - 2/20/2006 12:04:58 AM

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Everyone involved here needs to dial back the drama a bit, OK?

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RE: META RE: Why is it called a scene? - 2/20/2006 12:05:05 AM

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Because you get frustrated, think no one will call you on it, get a personal pleasure and buzz from digging someone without directly hitting them, and feel you have to reclaim some sense of pride.

LMAO.... ok... LA.. i'm so glad you feel the need to use me in your frustrations tonight... one would think you would of sought permission from Master before using me though.. Let me know when you're done though... I sure hate falling alseep in the middle of scene...

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RE: META RE: Why is it called a scene? - 2/20/2006 12:06:13 AM

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Everyone involved here needs to dial back the drama a bit, OK?

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I promise.. now that I see your post..

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RE: META RE: Why is it called a scene? - 2/20/2006 12:16:04 AM

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ok... Mod11... wanna get married?

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RE: Why is it called a scene? - 2/20/2006 12:16:32 PM

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Ok I know I'm going to regret asking this... but why is it planned? I'm seriously curious about this. Master and I don't "plan" activities.. we go with the flow of each other. We do things we want while in the middle of things. There's no time table.. "I'm going to spank you for 5 mins at such n such time"... he decides to spank me when ever he feels like it.. if not.. then he doesn't. There's no... "ok stop doing that.. it's time to do this".. he or I.. just slides right into what we feel like doing next.

Now I know there are times, certain things might be "Planned". The settings.. candles.. dinner... etc... but the rest I don't get. Master may tell me.. I'm in the mood for ... whatever... go get things set up... but it's stil not planned. It's just there "in case" his mood changes for something else in the middle of whatever his mood already was.

I haven't read all of the posts, so if this has already been answered then I apologize for being redundant...

It all depends on what you want to happen as to how much needs to be planned. If what you want to do is rough sex then not much planning is needed... but if you are wanting to rig a pully system so you can have a girl rip off her own zippers while you are flogging the hell out of her, then you need a bit more planning.

It all depends on what you want to do.... There is a lot of risk in some of the things that we can do and planning and consideration of the risks and how to minimize them is important. It is very comforting for me to know that my Lord plans and considers the risks involved and is constantly looking for things that he might have missed that would harm those he plays with. As for the spontanaity, well he rarely tells you what he has planned so it is a surprize for you... and he will consider things for weeks or months and when the opportune time presents itself he will act on it and it will appear to be spontaneous, but it is only the timing that is spontaneous and the rest has been considered well in advance.

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***edited to add that I have now read all the posts and I now regret replying to this thread

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RE: Why is it called a scene? - 2/20/2006 1:23:27 PM

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I will attempt to answers this question about why is a scene called a scene the way I see it. I may be right or wrong but at least I am making an attempt. It has to do with as if settings up a movie scene setting were the mood is set. As the Dominate, you want to create an illusion or a scene and the mood with music and the right light. Remember the greatest toy any Master and Mistress has is the subs and slave’s own mind. You can take them on a trip that they have no idea were it will take them. You are affecting their mind, body, and their sense to create an experience they will never know were you are taking them like the scene of the movie. Like a director, taking the Audience on a trip through a story the Dominate is doing the same with the submissive for they will never know were they are being direct until the scene is over. This is how I see it and feel about through my own experience in this lifestyle.

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RE: Why is it called a scene? - 2/20/2006 3:51:57 PM

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ok here I go dating Myself--the term scene started in the 50's with the advent of beatniks---if you were "cool man" you were in the scene or part of the scene---you wore the clothes, frequented the places and acted the part--so to be part of the scene meant you were cool---it carried over to the hippie generation as well--in BDSM, scene originally referred to those events that were staged or planned where one had participants and observers---the participants were "in the scene or scening"--I use the term scene to refer to public or private play with no sex or intimate contact---when I am with the boy, whether I plan it or not, W/we play--

as for planning, I may grab something and begin or I may plan it--planning and making him prepare and think about it feeds My sadism---<smiles>

i agree with this, and the first time i scene the word used referring to bdsm was by people who were into seeking others who were into the same aspects of it that they are and i would say that popped up around the mid seventies in connection mags if it has not already been said.

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RE: Why is it called a scene? - 2/20/2006 4:43:28 PM

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Hey would you guys mind taking the direct replies/private convo off the forum and to private messages or emails? Thanks.

Love her or hate her, you can’t ignore LA. Not sure if she is listed as the CM Posting Etiquette Nazi Extraordinaire, and I’m certainly not one her list or top 1000 favorite posters, and I even disagree as much as I agree with her, but I have to admit to respecting her…..

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RE: Why is it called a scene? - 2/20/2006 4:59:04 PM

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I found a BDSM dictionary....

Scene: A BDSM session.Sometimes refers to "public play" at a party,while others watch.

I have to say for Myself when sessioning/sceneing I do sometimes act out a role,how can you not.
Role playing is a big thing within sessioning/sceneing.

I love to play Goddess and wear a gown and get My feet pampered,or put on leather boots and get the reins for My pony,dont forget the horsewhip.
Leading the puppy around its all acting.Just because I'm acting out a "scene" doesnt mean I dont take it seriously.I'm very serious when it comes to sessions whether is with My male subbies or My slave bishop.Its a great way to put My overactive imagination to good use.

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