Ialdabaoth
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Joined: 5/4/2008 From: Tempe, AZ Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: kittinSol Apparently, many in America still believe that individualism is the thing that works best for them (even when it's proven not to). Personally, I see nothing wrong with giving 'free handouts' to poor people: and I'm not even a Christian. It's very strange that so many Christians are so hell bent against helping their fellow-man. My recent squabbles with my roommate illustrate the difference in philosophy. My roommate is strongly of the attitude that, if you do things for other people, they'll eventually rope you into having to keep doing things for them. You can see my bent from my posts. Well, the roommate refuses to do his share of housework, because he feels the other roommate isn't doing her fair share of housework. So I'm pretty much doing the housework for the whole house. His response: "See? That's what you get." So, I respond with "watch this", and stop doing the housework for a week. Sure enough, the sink fills with roaches, the lawn gets overrun with the neighbors' trash, and the pool turns a lovely shade of green-black. His response to this: "Oh, hell, now look how much more work that's going to be for you to clean up!" Then I show him our landlord's "we will evict you if you don't take care of the yard trash" notice, and he says "oh, fuck." So, I explain that it's actually not possible for me to do it all myself, especially considering I'm currently injured, and I finally get him to help out, since it's that or be homeless. He then starts bitching about how much easier this would be if I had kept up on it the week before. My response: "Yes, exactly. If I'd kept up with maintenance last week, it'd just be the usual amount of work. If you'd helped last week, it would have been half that much work for each of us. It's not simply a matter of being taken advantage of; I'm doing more work this week with you helping out than I ever did by myself when you refused to help. I'm keeping the place cleaned not because I like being taken advantage of, but because I like things going to shit even less." Sometimes, taking care of something that "should be" your neighbor's responsibility makes economic sense, from a rational self-interest perspective. Would it be nice if I could just play brinkmanship with my roommate until he decides to contribute his fair share? No, because I don't like living in a pig sty. This means cleaning up after my roommates, even though technically it's "their" trash. And you know what? Health care and education work the same way. Free check-ups and immunizations make sense because of something called "herd immunity" - if my neighbors aren't sick, it means I won't catch anything from them. Moreso, if my neighbors aren't sick, that means they can continue to be productive and happy. It means they have less to worry about. It means there's a better chance that they'll be nice neighbors, instead of mean, vicious, spiteful, selfish neighbors. Yes, there are "bad apples" in every community - but the vast majority of short-sighted, selfish, and mean people are short-sighted, selfish and mean because they don't have enough resources, and they're afraid you're going to take what they do have away from them. Even my roommates.
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