LinnaeaBorealis
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Joined: 10/5/2008 From: Insanity & beyond Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: Lostkitten3 Personally I am much stronger now and would love to face my accuser, but I did a LOT of work on getting to her, stopping being a victim in life, making better decisions for myself, and finding my "no." If it doesn't work for your daughter, that is cool, but I have to reccomend a book, called The Courage To Heal, when she is ready to deal with it. Some adults never do. Hmmmm...where did I say that my daughter is not healed? She is completely healed, as far as she knows. What I did say was that she faced her accuser, did what she had to do to stop him from harming others & moved on. I also said that there would be no good served to make her face him once again now as a middle-aged woman. she said she wanted the charges dropped as she has moved on with her life. If charges against him go forward, will she be forced to testify? If she is, it would seem to me this will be the second time she is violated. I don't think that she would be needed for testimony as this will be for the flight charges. He pled guilty to the other charge, just didn't wait around for sentencing. My point was that this is possibly reopening old wounds for her, taking her back to something she's moved on from. Which to me is another violation, yes.
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Ring the bells that still can ring Forget your perfect offering There is a crack in everything That's how the light gets in ~~L. Cohen Just one of the yahoo's
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