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You are submissive yet refuse to address Dom as Sir in public.

Agree

28% (12)

Disagree

71% (30)

Total Votes : 42

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 2:40:23 PM

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Having read holly's post for a while, i dont think so.

We have all inadvertantly said things without thinking, it happens. Its the blatent forcing our kink on others that most of us dont like.

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 3:00:27 PM

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That's fine. But my father's 82 and has dementia. He wouldn't understand and he would become worried and upset and we wouldn't be able to explain or calm him down. So why would I want such an outcome?

Lord knows you come up with the some of the most doomsday scenario's to back up your point's I've ever seen. More power to you.

You think I'm dreaming this up? I call up on the phone, and he doesn't know where he lives half the time. I wish I was dreaming this up. I wish he was perfectly healthy. I wish we didn't have half the emergencies we do trying to take care of him.

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 3:20:36 PM

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That's fine. But my father's 82 and has dementia. He wouldn't understand and he would become worried and upset and we wouldn't be able to explain or calm him down. So why would I want such an outcome?

Lord knows you come up with the some of the most doomsday scenario's to back up your point's I've ever seen. More power to you.

You think I'm dreaming this up? I call up on the phone, and he doesn't know where he lives half the time. I wish I was dreaming this up. I wish he was perfectly healthy. I wish we didn't have half the emergencies we do trying to take care of him.

Completely understandable. Hence why I was talking about my pet and our situation here, and not yours.

You know me by now well enough to know that I don't believe that there's such a thing as the same situation for everyone.

Although my pet doesn't have any problem with calling me sir and such wherever, he is still smart enough and secure enough to know when and where things are appropriate. It's not like he's going to come crawling over to me on hands and knees if we're out at his grandparents or something. If the situation was similar and they didn't understand, or if he felt it wouldn't be appropriate, or it seemed to make them uncomfortable, he wouldn't do so either. And I totally respect that you and yours wouldn't do such a thing in that situation, just as I would completely respect his decision not to do so.

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 3:40:31 PM

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 4:03:33 PM

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lol.. wait when did calling someone Sir in public become involving people in kink and turning poor children to a life of crime and debauchery? Wow.. I would believe that seeing someone refer to another person as sir or ma'am is just a respectful title.. now if you had said Master then that I can see .. but Sir?.. Now that just shows how far the "public" and some kinky people have turned from common decency and respect when Sir becomes a word to be feared and only associated with kink.

EXACTLY!!!

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 4:07:01 PM

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*Points to lower post* Didn't work, Peaches, do you have anything stronger?

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 4:13:40 PM

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

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lol.. wait when did calling someone Sir in public become involving people in kink and turning poor children to a life of crime and debauchery? Wow.. I would believe that seeing someone refer to another person as sir or ma'am is just a respectful title.. now if you had said Master then that I can see .. but Sir?.. Now that just shows how far the "public" and some kinky people have turned from common decency and respect when Sir becomes a word to be feared and only associated with kink.

So where do you draw the line?
Because the op claims that if you refuse anything, then you're not a twue submissive, that instead you turn it on and off like a lamp.

You really think that someone who espouses that won't also claim the same if you refuse to pick a kid up from daycare in a corset and six inch stilettoes? Or decline to be walked on a leash next to a playground?

The question isn't do you call him sir, in public or private, and why one and not the other? Which could easily be that public could be defined as in front of your grandmother in a nursing home who would not understand and would be needlessly upset.

Go read some of his other posts and you'll understand why the op is universally disliked.

What you are saying here is very clear....you simply do not trust the judgment of the Dom that you would need to decline to do anything he so desired in public hmmmmm wouldnt that make him a Domabee? thus a moot point? or is every Dom incapable of directing any sub in public?

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 4:22:54 PM

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You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir..
Thus you flip your submission on and off like a light "switch" <==as to avoid offending the public vs pleasing your master and showing him the respect you clearly think he deserves as you have agreed to meet his terms and or conditions. Yet at any moment will Sir or ma'am the check out clerk at the grocery store and or pharmacy.

I don't even call him sir or master in private. I call him by his first name. So why would I call him something different in public. If you need that title in order to feel respected then you are doing something wrong.

Way to try and make everyone who enjoys that in their life feel somehow smaller. Now you can get what you need.

Ummm that wasn't my intention. I got the impression from the op that he felt that something as simple as being called by a title would be sufficient enough to elicit all kinds of oohs and ahhs of pure dominance. I've been around here long enough that I'm pretty confident that most know I am not a judge on things like this.

OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOH paleaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaase...it is for no other reason than "I" posted it....grab the torches and pitch forks I have been watching as one by one when your kind disagree with you suddenly you roll over. I figured as much would happen.

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 4:28:24 PM

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You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir..

If he had to demand i call him either in public, then we have bigger issues than me not calling him either in public

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 4:37:56 PM

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Depends. Yes and/or no.

Will I get fired from my job for doing so? Possibly?
Will it make my family disown me? Maybe.

Then again I don't think Master is stupid so I don't think he would desire unreasonable demands.

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 4:39:28 PM

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 4:48:07 PM

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~wanders in and sniffs the air~

yep, this is where the aroma of ass is coming from.

~sprays a whole can of new and improved of Troll-B-Gone~

*Points to lower post* Didn't work, Peaches, do you have anything stronger?

I used to, until Dick Cheney borrowed it for a hunting trip. It had to be confiscated as evidence.

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 5:45:03 PM

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~wanders in and sniffs the air~

yep, this is where the aroma of ass is coming from.

~sprays a whole can of new and improved of Troll-B-Gone~

*Points to lower post* Didn't work, Peaches, do you have anything stronger?

I used to, until Dick Cheney borrowed it for a hunting trip. It had to be confiscated as evidence.

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 6:41:21 PM

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lol.. wait when did calling someone Sir in public become involving people in kink and turning poor children to a life of crime and debauchery? Wow.. I would believe that seeing someone refer to another person as sir or ma'am is just a respectful title.. now if you had said Master then that I can see .. but Sir?.. Now that just shows how far the "public" and some kinky people have turned from common decency and respect when Sir becomes a word to be feared and only associated with kink.

So where do you draw the line?
Because the op claims that if you refuse anything, then you're not a twue submissive, that instead you turn it on and off like a lamp.

You really think that someone who espouses that won't also claim the same if you refuse to pick a kid up from daycare in a corset and six inch stilettoes? Or decline to be walked on a leash next to a playground?

The question isn't do you call him sir, in public or private, and why one and not the other? Which could easily be that public could be defined as in front of your grandmother in a nursing home who would not understand and would be needlessly upset.

Go read some of his other posts and you'll understand why the op is universally disliked.

I draw the line at lots of stuff, I was just addressing the question based PURELY on calling someone Sir in public and nothing else. I have picked up through these post that the OP is not very well liked lol.

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 7:07:02 PM

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ORIGINAL: SoftKajira

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

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ORIGINAL: SoftKajira

~FR~

lol.. wait when did calling someone Sir in public become involving people in kink and turning poor children to a life of crime and debauchery? Wow.. I would believe that seeing someone refer to another person as sir or ma'am is just a respectful title.. now if you had said Master then that I can see .. but Sir?.. Now that just shows how far the "public" and some kinky people have turned from common decency and respect when Sir becomes a word to be feared and only associated with kink.

So where do you draw the line?
Because the op claims that if you refuse anything, then you're not a twue submissive, that instead you turn it on and off like a lamp.

You really think that someone who espouses that won't also claim the same if you refuse to pick a kid up from daycare in a corset and six inch stilettoes? Or decline to be walked on a leash next to a playground?

The question isn't do you call him sir, in public or private, and why one and not the other? Which could easily be that public could be defined as in front of your grandmother in a nursing home who would not understand and would be needlessly upset.

Go read some of his other posts and you'll understand why the op is universally disliked.

I draw the line at lots of stuff, I was just addressing the question based PURELY on calling someone Sir in public and nothing else. I have picked up through these post that the OP is not very well liked lol.

Not quite sure what my approval rating is...what I do know is I have not signed up for a popularity contest.

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 7:14:27 PM

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Not quite sure what my approval rating is...what I do know is I have not signed up for a popularity contest.

You entered by posting. You lost the contest.

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 7:15:50 PM

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Not quite sure what my approval rating is...what I do know is I have not signed up for a popularity contest.

You entered by posting. You lost the contest.

THERE is a GOD!!!!

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 7:23:03 PM

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Not quite sure what my approval rating is...what I do know is I have not signed up for a popularity contest.

You entered by posting. You lost the contest.

Umm. . . can I do cooking and baking as my talent and skip the swimsuit competition? I am hideous in a swimsuit.

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 7:28:26 PM

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RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address ... - 11/7/2009 7:57:06 PM

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I didn't realize it was necessary to be an exhibitionist in order to be accepting of one's sexuality.

Would you have called interracial couples60 years ago that wanted to be able to kiss in a public park "exhibitionists"?

We only call things exhibition if other people treat it as something normal to who they are but we see it as come strange anomaly to common social mores.

And, the topic is about as innocent an expression of such as can be thought up: the D/s relationship equivalent of calling your partner "sweetie" in a public setting.

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