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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/19/2006 7:11:36 PM   
IrishMist


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quote:

I wish to complain about posts composed with sentence structure that hurts my brain to even read.


Edit to clarify I'm refering to the OP not to whom my reply is seemingly directed.


LMAO TeeGo....I hear you there

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/19/2006 7:43:39 PM   
SirKenin


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ORIGINAL: HoosierScorpio

I have notice so many young ladies who have activate profiles say they are collared or owned. If you are collared or owned why not deactivate your profile so you do not get bothered by Master looking for slaves or subs or at least say it in your profile. It seems so many get upset or nasty when they get contacted when they are not looking then here a little hint for you deactivate your profile and you will still be able to access collarme. This will cut down people contacting you since they are looking and you are not. I have talked with enough people are collarme at local munches and they all have the same problem.


I practically needed an interpreter to make My way through your post, but I think I got the gyst of it.

Why should they deactivate them? They are their own unique person with their own rights, and one right given to them by Collar Me is to have a profile that states pretty much anything they choose, with very few exceptions. There are the ones that say they are owned obviously because they do not want to be hassled by offers and justifiably so. The ones that do not, did you ever consider that maybe they were trying to let you down gracefully? Maybe they are not interested in you and are trying to get you to get the hint. That would be My bet.

But, noone is obligated to say anything in their profile about their status, and if you do not like it I would hasten to say that it is too bad. That is the way it goes when you are making your way through thousands of profiles.

My position is to let them do what they want. They all obviously have their own reasons for doing what they do. By having a profile they can get private messages and make friends for instance. Others can use them to give a face to a name. It should be noted that not everyone chooses to use this site as a mating service, Myself being one of them. I use My profile to attract friends, and I am not going to let you or anyone else dictate to Me otherwise, no matter how much they whine about it. I am not alone in this, of this I am certain. Who are you to deny them that right? I would find something more worthy of complaining about if you are bent on whining about something. Let them use the site as they wish, and you do the same.

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/19/2006 7:48:08 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		Exactly!....stated with much more clarity than my own posting...Thank you SirKenin...Tempting

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/19/2006 7:54:01 PM   
RiotGirl


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Status: offline 		uh.. when ppl email me i just usually respond with.

"read much?"

and then every now and then they'll reply with something sarcastic. Had one person once say "we all get alittle horny" (as for his reason to emailing me.. and some where after remark i made about his intelligence). i asked him if being horny excused him from being

polite, respectful and literate



apparently it does not as he stopped emailing me.




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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/20/2006 5:28:55 AM   
LKP79


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quote:

ORIGINAL: enslavegirl

Mister Tee,

i was wondering if i may add a scoop of ice cold fresh vanilla bean icecream, a heaping scoop of fresh from the fields strawberry icecream, and a creammmmy coco chocolately scoop of the richest chocolate icecream Your Masterful mind can fathom.

may i then slather each mouthwatering mound of iced perfection with the smoothest creamiest sweetest pineapple, chocolate and strawberry sauces

then please let me add to this a swirrling creamy white fluffy puffy mound of cream whipped to a Masterful perfection,

tenderly sprinkled with the most delish nuts this one can find.

lastly, Sir, may i ever so carefully top it with a most delectable juicy sweet cherrie







Your bananas are just beggggging to be topped



heehehehehehe


Damn it all, now i've got the most intense banana split craving! NOT allowed on my diet . Mmmm ice cream....

Anyways, to keep this post somewhat on topic.....

I have a profile, and no i'm not looking. I'm not currently owned, and i'm not looking to be owned right now. I'm still suffering intense heartbreak from my former Master, whom i loved (and still love) very much. We're still close friends, and we still have a great deal of love for each other. The reasons we are separated is long and complicated, and i won't be going into that.
I've been corresponding to a lot of very friendly people on this site, people who understand that all i'm looking for is friendship. If i had no profile, i never would have met these exceptionally nice people! I can only remember two men who've sent me messages wanting more than just friendship. One demanded i submit to him now, and since i was bored and feeling bitchy, i had a little fun sending him messages back and forth. He claimed we were "meant to be, fate drew us together, etc." He also claimed he "loved me." Of course, when i refused to comply his parting words were "bye fatty."  Hmmm.....guess we weren't so "meant to be" after all, eh?
The other claimed he wanted to marry me, and we would have kids, and i'd never have to work, etc etc etc. He even offered to pay all of my bills and pay off my car.  No thanks.
I've found that the people on this site are much more open to simple friendships than those on other sites, and that's one of the main reasons i love CM so much when compared to those other sites. The people are way more polite. Why on earth would i want to deactivate my profile and cut myself off from such a wonderful group of people?

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/20/2006 6:33:16 AM   
enslavegirl


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Status: offline 		sorry LKP,

i am trying to make lemonaide out of the lemons the OP passed out to all the slaves/subs



lemonaide.....mmmmmmmmmm sweetened with honey





i still would rather have the banana splits


hehehehe

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/20/2006 6:47:47 AM   
LKP79


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quote:

ORIGINAL: enslavegirl

sorry LKP,

i am trying to make lemonaide out of the lemons the OP passed out to all the slaves/subs



lemonaide.....mmmmmmmmmm sweetened with honey





i still would rather have the banana splits


hehehehe


Somehow i just know i'm going to be making a trip to Dairy Queen at some point today.....

My apologies to the OP for the short derailment.

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/20/2006 7:07:52 AM   
tendergirl


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Status: offline 		My profile clearly states that I am owned and that I am on Collarme for friendship, support and information.

If Doms who are searching would simply take the time to research the people they contact (as they should do anyway) then they will see this.

Don't PM subs in chat  unless you have read their profile then you won't get rejected.

As far as being nasty, it is annoying that someone will approach you without reading their profile to see what they are about.

If Dom's inadvertantly contact me, they often simply apologise and move on.  Try that method.


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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/20/2006 7:13:18 AM   
enslavegirl


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Status: offline 		ok ok ok LKP



ill be good........






for the next 5 seconds hehehe

im off to the store for bananas icecreams sauces nuts whipped cream and cherries mmmmmmmm

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/20/2006 10:01:15 AM   
NakedOnMyChain


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quote:

ORIGINAL: HoosierScorpio

I have notice so many young ladies who have activate profiles say they are collared or owned. If you are collared or owned why not deactivate your profile so you do not get bothered by Master looking for slaves or subs or at least say it in your profile.


This won't be the first time you've asked this question on the boards, but since you weren't listening then, for the sake of clarification I'll give you my answer one more time.

Why should I deactivate my profile?  I may not be looking for a master or a lover, but I am looking for like minded people to engage in intelligent conversation and friendship.  Just because I don't want what you've got to offer doesn't mean I don't have a valid reason to have a profile on this site.  I'm not bothered by anyone very often because most people have the courtesy to read profiles before they send me mail, and if they don't then they should.  And just to let you know, most of those who are collared do say so in their profile.  If you didn't read it, it's not our fault.

quote:

It seems so many get upset or nasty when they get contacted when they are not looking then here a little hint for you deactivate your profile and you will still be able to access collarme.


Once again we jump back to the part where you forgot to read someone's profile.  Of course you're going to get your head bitten off for contacting them.  Most people don't like being contacted for sex by the intentionally illiterate.  I thought I'd return the favor though, so here's a little hint for you :  Read people's profiles, learn to become a tolerant individual and then you might actually be able to find someone interested in you on collarme.  Hey, then you wouldn't even have to come whining to the forums everytime someone sends you an e-mail you don't agree with.

quote:

This will cut down people contacting you since they are looking and you are not. I have talked with enough people are collarme at local munches and they all have the same problem.


Wah wah wah wah.  None of them can read either?  How sad.  I know some classes you all could take.  I'll send you links if you like.

Edited to add: more scathing remarks.

< Message edited by NakedOnMyChain -- 3/20/2006 10:04:28 AM >

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/20/2006 1:58:43 PM   
TeeGO


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LKP79

quote:

ORIGINAL: enslavegirl

Mister Tee,

i was wondering if i may add a scoop of ice cold fresh vanilla bean icecream, a heaping scoop of fresh from the fields strawberry icecream, and a creammmmy coco chocolately scoop of the richest chocolate icecream Your Masterful mind can fathom.

may i then slather each mouthwatering mound of iced perfection with the smoothest creamiest sweetest pineapple, chocolate and strawberry sauces

then please let me add to this a swirrling creamy white fluffy puffy mound of cream whipped to a Masterful perfection,

tenderly sprinkled with the most delish nuts this one can find.

lastly, Sir, may i ever so carefully top it with a most delectable juicy sweet cherrie







Your bananas are just beggggging to be topped



heehehehehehe


Damn it all, now i've got the most intense banana split craving! NOT allowed on my diet. Mmmm ice cream....


Um...whhoooo....*DEEP breath*....OK...After reading that post I've got some cravings of my own---it's just not for ice cream. 

But you know, ice cream might help.

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/20/2006 8:19:10 PM   
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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/20/2006 8:24:26 PM   
kc692


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Status: offline 		Again, to the OP, I asked you some questions, where have you disappeared to, or, like some other OP's on these forums, was this an intentional start of something while you looked at all the reply posts and had no intention of coming back on the board? Care to answer my question as to whether or not your sub has a profile on CM???????

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/20/2006 11:28:17 PM   
tendergirl


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Status: offline 		Deactivated my profile in order to make things easier for confused Doms....lol

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/20/2006 11:38:04 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: kc692

Again, to the OP, I asked you some questions, where have you disappeared to, or, like some other OP's on these forums, was this an intentional start of something while you looked at all the reply posts and had no intention of coming back on the board? Care to answer my question as to whether or not your sub has a profile on CM???????


oh oh here come the bamboo splints under the fingernails!
talk damnit!


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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/21/2006 2:34:51 AM   
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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/21/2006 5:01:18 AM   
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ORIGINAL: kc692

Again, to the OP, I asked you some questions, where have you disappeared to, or, like some other OP's on these forums, was this an intentional start of something while you looked at all the reply posts and had no intention of coming back on the board? Care to answer my question as to whether or not your sub has a profile on CM???????



It's just your regular "drive by poster"

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/21/2006 8:40:24 AM   
enslavegirl


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Status: offline 		adds lots and lots of honey to the lemonaide


hoping the sweetness of the lemonade i made out of the lemons the op gave us will somehow sweeten Aall

im even thinking about emailing everyone soft squishy "warm fuzzies" to all to help spread happiness around

ok ok im age dating myself again hehehehe


op needs to learn to keep His "sour grapes and lemons" to Himself

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/21/2006 8:44:09 AM   
enslavegirl


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Status: offline 		i think Sir Tee had a banana split last night

hehehehe



i wonder who else had one???????????

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/21/2006 8:46:06 AM   
enslavegirl


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sorry, i just cant find myself  being a good slave

something just makes me do it lol

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