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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/29/2006 10:58:49 AM

subjected2006

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if some Dom chooses to get ignored ..that's his risk he takes for not reading..

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/30/2006 4:16:17 AM

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I have notice so many young ladies who have activate profiles say they are collared or owned. If you are collared or owned why not deactivate your profile so you do not get bothered by Master looking for slaves or subs or at least say it in your profile. It seems so many get upset or nasty when they get contacted when they are not looking then here a little hint for you deactivate your profile and you will still be able to access collarme. This will cut down people contacting you since they are looking and you are not. I have talked with enough people are collarme at local munches and they all have the same problem.

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/31/2006 6:02:02 AM

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I leave my profile on collarme because I'm looking to meet friends in the lifestyle, that's why. I changed my profile to state simply that I'm owned and looking for friends. It does annoy me sometimes the messages that I still get. I began ignoring them, but it's kind of annoying that I get a message and think, oooo, maybe someone nice to talk to, make a new friend, and instead it's some spam from a Dominant, asking/demanding that I be theirs, and they didn't even have the curtesy to read my three sentence profile. But oh well, I live through it.

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 4/1/2006 4:06:41 AM

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I couldnt agree with You more. I say friendship first Ds second. if you dont make good friends you wont make good Dominant and sub. and We all need friends or at least I couldnt live life the way I do without My friends

I have in My profile I am not looking to own or collar and I still get tons of email stating they want to be Mine . move in serve Me etc. I simply email back friendship is offered but nothing more and tell them if they have questions if I can answer I will. just lead them in the right directions.
if that doesnt work. you can always block and ignore, but I love making new friends. be they submissive or Dominant.
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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 4/1/2006 7:00:44 AM

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Hoosier Scorpio....why should they?..Sometimes when I see a posting in a forum, going to the OPs profile gives me a better idea of them or even possibly the situation they are attempting to map out.Plus as nicochan states they come on here to e-mail with friends and the like or to even meet new friends here.Respectfully though I am sure you find it difficult to go through profiles in your search ,that is the cross you must bear. Remember that CM is not only a way to meet potential Dom/subs mates, but also a way to meet others in the life, to share thoughts and experiences,wether it is in the forums the chat or even through their journaling on their profiles.I believe this subject has been brought up a couple of times since even I have been here,and it is a case of it is what it is....be well...Tempting

My thoughts EXACTLY, Tempting. I love this site. I love the dialogue exchange in the forums, the friends that I have made here with my fellow subs/slaves, and all the wonderful and funny things that my fellow kinksters are up to...

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 4/1/2006 10:08:10 AM

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ORIGINAL: subjected2006

if some Dom chooses to get ignored ..that's his risk he takes for not reading..

This English teacher loves this answer!

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 4/1/2006 6:42:02 PM

MasterTonyS

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I don't know if anyone else is doing this but since collarme introduced the Hide User option, I've started to put the subs and slaves who state they are owned into there. It's less drastic as blocking someone who's done nothing wrong and I don't think that the person in question knows they are bieng hidden.

Why block someone just because they are owned? They are on here for a reason, and more than likely are here with permission, so let them be and just hide thm, no harm, no foul...

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 4/1/2006 6:57:07 PM

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hello Aall,,,in answer. there are Mmany Wwhom do that ( there are folks that are in someway playing the game) LOL...i know that it gets cruddy,,,never the less,,give em a wide berth and weed the weeds,,,,,lololol

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 4/1/2006 7:00:47 PM

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I understand the need to be friends, but I don't think that this is the venue for that, the name of the site is Collarme indicating someone is not collared

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 4/1/2006 7:04:18 PM

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ORIGINAL: JohnSteed1967

I understand the need to be friends, but I don't think that this is the venue for that, the name of the site is Collarme indicating someone is not collared

But it seems that those who run the site and approve the profiles have no issue with people who are already owned posting profiles. It is their site and it seems that they think it is appropriate.

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 4/1/2006 7:18:44 PM

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ORIGINAL: JohnSteed1967

I understand the need to be friends, but I don't think that this is the venue for that, the name of the site is Collarme indicating someone is not collared

Now, why do you suppose the powers that be put up an option for 'actively seeking friends only?' Any ideas on that one?

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 4/1/2006 7:39:31 PM

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I think it's just SO RUDE that people who aren't seeking ME haven't deactivated their profiles. I mean, an example: Today, I saw an ad for a beautiful dominant woman who wrote in her ad that she's ONLY seeking another woman. I mean, what's with that? How is she going to get ME if she's seeking women? If she deactivated her profile, then there wouldn't be any misunderstanding. I mean, I accidentally read her full profile. What if this had been normal, and I didn't read her profile but just emailed her out of the blue without reading a single word? I would have wasted all of my time when she responded that she wasn't seeking men. How inconsiderate of her. I mean, I'm a busy guy. I've gotta look at a lot of pictures of pretty women and then write them one line laundry lists of what they're allowed to do to me. Who has time to read the darn profile? Dammit, I think the nurse forgot to give me my pills again tonight.

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 4/1/2006 7:51:07 PM

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Dammit, I think the nurse forgot to give me my pills again tonight.

<chuckles> She was busy deactivating her profile.

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 4/1/2006 8:06:11 PM

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Dammit, I think the nurse forgot to give me my pills again tonight.

<chuckles> She was busy deactivating her profile.

LMAO... good one

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 4/1/2006 9:28:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: JohnSteed1967

I understand the need to be friends, but I don't think that this is the venue for that,

This site is not just for people looking to "hook up." It's for everyone in the BSDM Community, friends, partners, newbies, old timers, everyone.

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 4/1/2006 9:43:09 PM

MasterUnknown

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ORIGINAL: RiotGirl

uh.. when ppl email me i just usually respond with.

"read much?"

and then every now and then they'll reply with something sarcastic. Had one person once say "we all get alittle horny" (as for his reason to emailing me.. and some where after remark i made about his intelligence). i asked him if being horny excused him from being

polite, respectful and literate

apparently it does not as he stopped emailing me.

well thats good yes I may be new to the boards but I am not new to collarme I am polite and respecfull and try to offer encouragment to thouse that are looking and what not. . but when I do run across one who might be in my area and would like to get to be freinds with them, either since my spelling sucks or they just can not be bothered to even send that kind of message back to me. it is not the profiles that saying that they are owned that bothers me. it is the rudness that comes from nbot at least saying that they are not intrested.

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 4/3/2006 11:52:59 AM

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ORIGINAL: HoosierScorpio

I have notice so many young ladies who have activate profiles say they are collared or owned. If you are collared or owned why not deactivate your profile so you do not get bothered by Master looking for slaves or subs or at least say it in your profile. It seems so many get upset or nasty when they get contacted when they are not looking then here a little hint for you deactivate your profile and you will still be able to access collarme. This will cut down people contacting you since they are looking and you are not. I have talked with enough people are collarme at local munches and they all have the same problem.

Easy reason for this, people have made friends with some one collarme, and deactivating profile, well thats basically saying okay i don't wish to talk to you anymore, there are many who put OWENED, DO NOT ASK, and STILL they get asked.
Heck, i have a Protector, i have said it a thousand times in my profile, and journal friends only. simple fact is people do not read on collarme. they see a picture, they like it, they write a letter, it seems everyone is too lazy to read a profile, that is why so many who are owned have the problem, it's not them, it's the people who contact them, and do not read first. ^_^

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 4/3/2006 12:31:50 PM

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Why do so many "Masters" (I use the term only because they call themselves that) have to hunt so hard for slaves? Doesn't it seem reasonable to believe that a slave should search for a Master?

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 4/3/2006 12:36:24 PM

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ORIGINAL: Mikesbeth

Why do so many "Masters" (I use the term only because they call themselves that) have to hunt so hard for slaves? Doesn't it seem reasonable to believe that a slave should search for a Master?

No more reasonable than the opposite.

If people want to search, they should search. If people don't want to search, they shouldn't search. What your orientation is doesn't really matter at all.

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 4/3/2006 12:39:17 PM

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I was fortunate in being approached by My special one, 1 month after she joined collarme and 3 months after I had joined. She did not deactivate her profile TVslavedoll, but changed it to state that she had found her perfect Mistress and required a photographer of her in bondage, detailing the bondage equipment and fetish wardrobe she has. I did not deactivate my profile but stated I had found My perfect submissive, I remain online to mentor and contact friends. TVslavedolls profile was hacked and therefore we took it down, making Me miserable that I couldn't show off My beautiful girl.
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