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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/21/2006 9:37:13 AM   
LKP79


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ORIGINAL: enslavegirl

LKP

sorry, i just cant find myself  being a good slave

something just makes me do it lol



Ah, that's okay. I held strong and didn't get the banana split yesterday. The look on my ex Master's face would have been enough when He found out i had one.....not because i indulged myself, but because i didn't bring one back for HIM! That man will sit and eat 2 pounds of chocolate until he's sick, then look at me and say in the cutest voice "my tummy hurts." Damn i just love Him so much! Even though He's no longer my Master......He's still the love of my life.

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/21/2006 11:15:15 AM   
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ORIGINAL: IronBear

RI, I'll leave you do the bamboo splints under the fingernails, howabout we auction off the electrodes on his testicals and I'll just use accupuncture needles to scrape the bone of his sternum? 

you are an evil man IB!  LOL


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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/21/2006 11:28:09 AM   
enslavegirl


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Status: offline 		i just love to hear about love stories.......love really does make the world go round

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/21/2006 11:31:30 AM   
LKP79


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i just love to hear about love stories.......love really does make the world go round


Especially when it's first time love

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/21/2006 11:32:39 AM   
enslavegirl


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Status: offline 		congrads LKP
im so very happy for you

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/21/2006 11:36:02 AM   
IronBear


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ORIGINAL: Real0ne

quote:

ORIGINAL: IronBear

RI, I'll leave you do the bamboo splints under the fingernails, howabout we auction off the electrodes on his testicals and I'll just use accupuncture needles to scrape the bone of his sternum? 

you are an evil man IB!  LOL



Evil is good R1.. Evil is best.. Give me the darkness of night and I am alive....... Come to me o ye creatures of the night........ We will invade their dreams and send them non human things to hump them to insanuity..


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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/21/2006 11:44:12 AM   
enslavegirl


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the op said he is going to delete his profie in one week.....


i hope this doesnt mean an end to the delectable delish creamy banana splits and sweet lemonaide
?????????

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/28/2006 11:55:21 AM   
Slavebitch11


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ORIGINAL: HoosierScorpio

I have notice so many young ladies who have activate profiles say they are collared or owned. If you are collared or owned why not deactivate your profile so you do not get bothered by Master looking for slaves or subs or at least say it in your profile.


This won't be the first time you've asked this question on the boards, but since you weren't listening then, for the sake of clarification I'll give you my answer one more time.

Why should I deactivate my profile?  I may not be looking for a master or a lover, but I am looking for like minded people to engage in intelligent conversation and friendship.  Just because I don't want what you've got to offer doesn't mean I don't have a valid reason to have a profile on this site.  I'm not bothered by anyone very often because most people have the courtesy to read profiles before they send me mail, and if they don't then they should.  And just to let you know, most of those who are collared do say so in their profile.  If you didn't read it, it's not our fault.




I'm a pro sub/slave...thats why I retain a profile on Collarme. My Master rents me out.
My profile defines who I am, what I am and what I'm seeking. Anyone reading it should be under no illusions. For those who dont get past the pix, its still apparent that I'm wearing a collar and therefore, owned.



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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/28/2006 4:35:10 PM   
TeeGO


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Status: offline 		A bunch of posts deleted here.  Nothing nasty only harsh but potentially helpful posts that could have helped the OP had he taken them to heart.  Instead he's back at it on another thread doomed to forever make the same mistakes again and again.

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/28/2006 5:16:58 PM   
enslavegirl


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Status: offline 		its ok...
ill just pull out the bananas and icecreams and sauces and make splits for Eeveryone

or make more lemonaide out of His endless supplies of lemons He seems to be so fondly passing out

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/28/2006 5:17:52 PM   
fyreredsub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: enslavegirl

LKP

sorry, i just cant find myself  being a good slave

something just makes me do it lol



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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/28/2006 5:19:12 PM   
MrThorns


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Status: offline 		I would like to counter the original question with a few questions of my own;

Why is it that so many people come to this site thinking that everyone here is looking for a partner?  Is collarme a dating site now?  (Ok...I know it really seems like it nowadays, with all the porn ads and whatnot)

And now for my own gripes about all this...

A few people lately have complained about members who are "clogging up the site".  Have they ever considered that the members who are here to search for a partner are the ones "clogging up the site"?  Go to e-harmony...fill out a personality profile...put an ad in the newspaper...go outside every once in awhile and meet people...just please...please don't sit there and bitch in the forums about how difficult it is to search through sooo many profiles to find a fuckin' date.

This has been a public service announcement....

~Thorns

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/28/2006 5:22:22 PM   
enslavegirl


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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/28/2006 5:36:23 PM   
twicehappy


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Ermmm Just a small point though....... many of the girls who you refer to, do show on their profiles that they have a Dominant and are here on a social basis with established friends and to meet newpeople for friendship.. Don't you think it may be a tad hard on themif they had to deactivate their profiles... It is not their fault id half the fuckwhits can't or dont read the girl's profile first and even then if they do read it, choose to be so damned rude as to contact and hit on the girl in any case



Brilliantly said! Applause!!!!!!

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/28/2006 6:09:05 PM   
Chaingang


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Status: offline 		I set my profile to "Actively Seeking: [blank]" - as a consequence I hope I don't come up in many searches for someone searching for "Dominant Man" + "Actively Seeking: Submissive Women" and etc...

I was looking at smilezz' profile and it states she is "Actively Seeking: Friends Only." So if someone was searching for a female submissive seeking friends maybe they would find her, otherwise not.

So it's a two-sided issue: one must search carefully with specific criteria in mind; and out of courtesy to others people should refrain from including themselves in categories that do not accurately reflect what they seek here.

It's contradictory to state: "Actively Seeking: Whatever" if you are already taken and aren't actually seeking whatever. Fair enough, right?

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/28/2006 11:09:21 PM   
kc692


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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/29/2006 9:59:47 AM   
Guilty1974


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ORIGINAL: HoosierScorpio

I have notice so many young ladies who have activate profiles say they are collared or owned. If you are collared or owned why not deactivate your profile so you do not get bothered by Master looking for slaves or subs or at least say it in your profile


Why are you asking this only young submissive ladies? It's ok for young sub males or Older male Dominants to keep up a profile when they are in a relationship, but not for young submissive girls?

What is CM to you? Nothing more than hunting grounds?

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/29/2006 10:37:24 AM   
jezzabelle


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ORIGINAL: HoosierScorpio

I have notice so many young ladies who have activate profiles say they are collared or owned. If you are collared or owned why not deactivate your profile so you do not get bothered by Master looking for slaves or subs or at least say it in your profile. It seems so many get upset or nasty when they get contacted when they are not looking then here a little hint for you deactivate your profile and you will still be able to access collarme. This will cut down people contacting you since they are looking and you are not. I have talked with enough people are collarme at local munches and they all have the same problem.


Can I ask, why should those of us who are owned have to deactivate our profiles?  Just to make your life easier?  I don't think so.  This site is for everyone involved in the BDSM lifestyle.  It's not a site that is strictly for searching for a sub/slave of your own.  If it were, then why would collarme offer "Friends Only" as as option to add to your profile under the section of what you're searching for?  My profile clearly states that I am owned and that if you're looking for a sub of your own, to keep on looking, I'm not interested and that I'm here looking for friends.  If you don't take the time to read my profile first before contacting me, that's certainly not my problem.

Sorry to get defensive in my response.  I've gotten emails asking me this question in the past, although, not as nicely put.

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/29/2006 10:46:58 AM   
jezzabelle


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ORIGINAL: sophia37

I think a better way of profile listing would be in catagorys. Have a section named Already Owned or something. Or, Subs in search of Doms. Etc etc. It might cut down on the confusion. As it is now, you really gotta do a lot of wading. I think it should be revamped a bit to make things clearer.


If those who are searching made use of the search option and clicked on the drop down box of "They are seeking" then they would only get the profiles for those sub/slaves who are actually looking for a Master/Mistress.

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RE: Why is so many who claim to be owned do not deacti... - 3/29/2006 10:49:05 AM   
Sub03


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Status: offline 		Almost everyday thee is a thread like this.....

The reason I dont deactivate my profile is because I don't want too. I have just as much of a right to be here as anybody else. As far as Doms emailing me wanting me to serve them all they have to do is learn to read my profile. It says clearly and plainly that i am owned. I am here for friends and people in the lifestyle and to use the message boards.

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