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Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 5:55:41 PM   
subtlebottomgirl


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Status: offline 		Can some of you Masters share with me why most all require anal sex ?  Whats the big deal ?   Every time I see that the Dom is looking for a 3 hole girl, I just cringe, literally my cheeks tighten.  My ass has not been penetrated by a cock, or dildo. It has however been fingered and plugged with a very small plug. Are there any Doms that don't require anal sex?I  don't understand the anal sex thing,  every photo that I have seen has big ole stretched out anal holes,  I don't mean to be gross here but, ummmm  yuck. my question would be: How is that big ole stretched hole appealing and there must be some long term damages that are sustained from stretching out the anus.Thank You for sharing any thoughts on the subject.
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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 5:59:18 PM   
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Can some of you Masters share with me why most all require anal sex ?  Whats the big deal ?   Every time I see that the Dom is looking for a 3 hole girl, I just cringe, literally my cheeks tighten.  My ass has not been penetrated by a cock, or dildo. It has however been fingered and plugged with a very small plug. Are there any Doms that don't require anal sex?I  don't understand the anal sex thing,  every photo that I have seen has big ole stretched out anal holes,  I don't mean to be gross here but, ummmm  yuck. my question would be: How is that big ole stretched hole appealing and there must be some long term damages that are sustained from stretching out the anus.Thank You for sharing any thoughts on the subject.


don't worry there is no harm to the dom

and it seems you don't care for this activity much

i bet if we analyze the situation further we could ascertain a few reasons why a dom may enjoy anal sex with you

i'll be back later to say more

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 5:59:27 PM   
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As for me, I like anal - both the physical sensation and the feeling of control.  I like the fact that my sub is yielding to me in another way.

There will be long term damage if the goal is to stretch out the anus and weaken the anal sphincter.  But if it's just used for anal penetration by a dick, no problems, usually.


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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 6:01:23 PM   
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As for me, I like anal - both the physical sensation and the feeling of control.  I like the fact that my sub is yielding to me in another way.




That is exactly what Sir thinks as well.

Also, He thinks it's hot. His favorite thing is to "gape" my bum hole, much to my dismay lol

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 6:01:25 PM   
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he likes it

you don't like it



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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 6:02:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		Not all D-types require it. Some may find big stretched out hole sexy and desirable. To my knowledge there are no long term, harmful effects from anal sex. Long term effects from anal stretching, i'm not sure.

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 6:03:11 PM   
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What Steven said. It isn't always a stretching damaging abusive thing. It can make me feel very submissive, hot, vulnerable, it's sometimes intimate and sometimes just rough and hot. I love it. You are looking I gather at extreme internet porn shots, don't let that scare you off. Truly it can be quite delicious.

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 6:04:16 PM   
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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 6:05:03 PM   
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If my dick is in your ass, I AM dominating you.


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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 6:05:08 PM   
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Truly it can be quite delicious.


I agree, it can be. For me it depends on mood, level of arousal and position

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 6:06:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		i've tried very hard to like it...but its very painful. 

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 6:07:15 PM   
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Try it, you might like it.


OP, while I also encourage this, make sure that the Dom knows what he's doing.  There are two things absolutely vital to anal - time and lube.  Make sure the guy knows better than to thrust in you unprepared.


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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 6:07:37 PM   
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Can some of you Masters share with me why most all require anal sex ? 


There is something very primal about sodomizing a girl, beyond the very pleasing physical feeling. It becomes yet another place to mark, lay claim to, and use her body.
The fact that it does hurt her at least a little is also enjoyable.

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 6:08:36 PM   
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Try it, you might like it.


OP, while I also encourage this, make sure that the Dom knows what he's doing.  There are two things absolutely vital to anal - time and lube.  Make sure the guy knows better than to thrust in you unprepared.



Yes, and level of arousal helps too. I find I can enjoy it much, much more if I'm very turned on

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 6:10:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		It is also helpful if he is hard and off sufficient size to get passed the tight opening.

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 6:13:53 PM   
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For some of us that's part of it's allure. . And truly once I "get past" the pain, it's so worth it. It's not for everyone though, don't force yourself, but I would at least give it a try, use lots of lube and start slow if it's really painful and maybe be quite aroused before you start.

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 6:14:05 PM   
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i've tried very hard to like it...but its very painful. 


No offense intended. Maybe that's the problem, you're trying too hard. I know you have probably been told time and again, but relaxing and not being nervous helps a lot

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 6:18:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: subtlebottomgirl
Can some of you Masters share with me why most all require anal sex ? 


There is something very primal about sodomizing a girl, beyond the very pleasing physical feeling. It becomes yet another place to mark, lay claim to, and use her body.
The fact that it does hurt her at least a little is also enjoyable.




I miss Sir right now. . We have plans tomorrow I think I'm going to suggest an additional activity before we go to the art gallery showing. I bet he'll be okay with it. Damn you AnimusRex, I'm going to wear that poor man out.. I think it really is totally true, women hit their peak at 40. Oh that might be a good thread starter. lol.

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 6:19:11 PM   
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i've tried very hard to like it...but its very painful. 


No offense intended. Maybe that's the problem, you're trying too hard. I know you have probably been told time and again, but relaxing and not being nervous helps a lot

....MAN.... that is so hard to do when you know whats coming..... but i have tried breathing... like trying to clear my mind kinda thing.... Entering slow or..fast, it hurts either way...and i am just AT A FUCKING LOSS as to how to relax...(i'm frustrated about it sorry lol)


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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 6:21:03 PM   
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I think it really is totally true, women hit their peak at 40. Oh that might be a good thread starter. lol.


50's even better.  heh heh

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