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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 6:21:25 PM   
Elizabeth666


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i've tried very hard to like it...but its very painful. 


No offense intended. Maybe that's the problem, you're trying too hard. I know you have probably been told time and again, but relaxing and not being nervous helps a lot

....MAN.... that is so hard to do when you know whats coming..... but i have tried breathing... like trying to clear my mind kinda thing.... Entering slow or..fast, it hurts either way...and i am just AT A FUCKING LOSS as to how to relax...(i'm frustrated about it sorry lol)



Totally understandable. I was nervous as hell my first few times with Sir. He was calm, patient and amazing with me. As stated before, level of arousal helps a lot, also position. You'll do it someday, you will find what works for you :D

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 6:22:04 PM   
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If my dick is in your ass, I AM dominating you.

So say plenty of testosterone-oriented folks who, in a prior thread, could not conceive of how someone could be dominant and enjoy being penetrated by his male or female submissive partner.

Personally, my dominance spreads (no pun intended) a bit wider in expanse than simply to who's penetrating who.


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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 6:27:14 PM   
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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 6:29:42 PM   
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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 6:32:05 PM   
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Damn you AnimusRex, I'm going to wear that poor man out.


Yeah, I am giver that way.

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 6:33:58 PM   
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Personally, my dominance spreads (no pun intended) a bit wider in expanse than simply to who's penetrating who.




That goes without saying. I was expressing an opinion on one small(no pun interned) topic.

After all, it is intent, more than action, that determines dominance, or submission.


Jeff


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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 6:36:17 PM   
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small(no pun interned)

Odd. There doesn't appear to be a pun there to make mention of at all.

...unless you were trying to be subtly confrontational.

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 6:39:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		Absolutely not. I have read some of your posts. You seem very reasonable.

And I am seldom subtle...:)

I was being a smart ass This is all about me after all. It could be taken as self deprecating.

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 6:41:43 PM   
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Absolutely not. I have read some of your posts. You seem very reasonable.

And I am seldom subtle...:)

I was being a smart ass This is all about me after all.

Jeff

lol
Cheers, then.

However...you totally did miss this opportunity:

"I was being a smart ass (no pun intended)"

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 6:43:26 PM   
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lol
Cheers, then.

However...you totally did miss this opportunity:

"I was being a smart ass (no pun intended)"



FUCK!... I hate when that happens!



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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 6:49:36 PM   
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And your avatar is pretty damn bad ass. 
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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 7:31:00 PM   
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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 8:11:31 PM   
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Can some of you Masters share with me why most all require anal sex ?

Are there any Doms that don't require anal sex


It's not a Master/Dom/BDSM thing.  I've only been with one or two guys in my life that weren't interested in anal sex, and there were plenty of guys in there that were not Doms/Masters/kinksters.

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 9:22:29 PM   
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And your avatar is pretty damn bad ass. 
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No points for avatars?

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 9:34:46 PM   
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Truly it can be quite delicious.


Aynne, that'd be rimming. 

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 9:40:12 PM   
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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 9:43:34 PM   
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Truly it can be quite delicious.


Aynne, that'd be rimming. 

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I love you you nut. You up for a girlie chat tomorrow? I have lots of alone time to really chat. You know about rimming and stuff. .

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 9:49:01 PM   
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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 9:53:09 PM   
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Dude, that's totally not true.

Aynne, yup yup yup.  I'm up for some girl talk.  I'll get the rimming salt... you know for the margaritas!

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 10:06:49 PM   
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Personally, my dominance spreads (no pun intended) a bit wider in expanse than simply to who's penetrating who.


While I'm inclined to to agree with you, it's a factor. Akasha, I believe, commented on this in the femdom section, to a stack of indignant replies that somehow largely managed to fail to argue the point beyond jerking of knees, despite the volume of said stack. You mount a horse. The horse won't ensaddle you. Equivalently, you aren't encunted, enarsed or otherwise relegated to the passive mode. Conversely, if she is riding you, that relegates you to the passive, with her in control. Suck vs mouthfuck. And so forth.

Of course, context matters, as I've noted elsewhere. I'm not closed to the idea of taking it up the rear, and rarely do a thing I haven't at least experimented with the other side of, though I'm fairly certain I'd prefer riding. I've also got a bit of a thing for feet, but my mindspace is one of physical intimacy on par with kissing or coddling, with a side order of consumption/hunger to it (nothing directs the mind quite so readily to ye olde dolcett, for some reason); there's no mental component of submission in it. Even so, the symbol has a default value, and it is the context that makes it something else.

If you see a swastika, it's going to take context to avoid assuming it's associated with something Nazi-flavored. And when someone is penetrated, it's going to take a similar amount of context to reverse the associations of the roles. In short, while the default association of a symbol needn't be the right connotation in every context, that doesn't change the fact that there is such a default. For penetration, the connotation is still that of an active penetrator, and a passive or subdued vessel.

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