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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 10:09:05 PM   
Aynne88


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lick it, slam it, suck it. The margarita's of course.

Yeah and Vanilla girlies love the back door loving too, that's just misinformation. Silly boys. ;)

I will be dailing you probably late morning time. I feel some insomnia coming on and I might sleep in if I can. Wish you were here to have a jammie party. With no jammies. *evil grin*

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 10:21:21 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

You're looking at the wrong photos.


Definitely... I'd submit that the famous "calm.jpg" (Chloë des Lysses at Google Image Search) would make a great poster with some adage about how anal sex doesn't have to be a crappy experience for either party. Incidentally a model which seems to have done mostly anal shots, and with more class than most models bring to the table.

For the flip side of the coin, eFukt has the infamous "Assisted Entry" series which will cause most anyone to pucker up. Link not included, due to the large collection of intentionally gross footage found on that site. Google will turn it up, tho'. Probably has most of what one doesn't find elsewhere, for the really twisted ones among us (e.g. me).

Getting the right impression for what one's actually considering getting into (pardon the pun) is not something porn is generally good at, one way or the other.

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 10:28:35 PM   
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Hello Aswad, so nice to see you here.
Happy Winter to you and yours,
blessings,
sunshine

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 10:53:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ElectraGlide

Not everyone, just most of us. Sometimes you just get in the mood to tap your slave in the turd tunnel. Vanilla chicks just won't go for it.


Long before I discovered the joys of BDSM, I discovered the thrills of anal sex. The majority of my female friends who are "vanilla" also enjoy anal sex. Guess you just hung out with the wrong girls.

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 10:57:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		Lol, I was just trying to get a laugh, its Christmas. When I was in my early 20's I dated a bottom that liked anal. Well after that the Vanilla's that I was with would get pissed off if asked if they liked getting it anally. So that it what made me a life styler, I could not deal with the uptight vanilla's anymore.

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/25/2009 11:13:04 PM   
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Thank You for sharing


Ah, no profile, no "sharing"

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/26/2009 12:54:38 AM   
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Can some of you Masters share with me why most all require anal sex ?  Whats the big deal ?   Every time I see that the Dom is looking for a 3 hole girl, I just cringe, literally my cheeks tighten.  My ass has not been penetrated by a cock, or dildo. It has however been fingered and plugged with a very small plug. Are there any Doms that don't require anal sex?I  don't understand the anal sex thing,  every photo that I have seen has big ole stretched out anal holes,  I don't mean to be gross here but, ummmm  yuck. my question would be: How is that big ole stretched hole appealing and there must be some long term damages that are sustained from stretching out the anus.Thank You for sharing any thoughts on the subject.


While for some, it seems to give great pleasure. I, however never really cared for it, Guess I am in the minority. Each to their own

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/26/2009 1:17:01 AM   
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Whats the big deal ?

I own her, I decide how she is used. That is the big deal.

It is not like I have anal sex all the time.
I remember one of my previous slaves disliking it ( the thought) and then when we tried it the first time....... screamed...my god..it is better then "normal" sex.
Aftherwards she said...she didnt't say that.... out of shame..lol.

I can do without, but change in activities keeps everything interesting. ( not gonna force it on a girl when she really dislikes it.)

At OP
so no ass to mouth then?

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/26/2009 1:38:15 AM   
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....MAN.... that is so hard to do when you know whats coming..... but i have tried breathing... like trying to clear my mind kinda thing.... Entering slow or..fast, it hurts either way...and i am just AT A FUCKING LOSS as to how to relax...(i'm frustrated about it sorry lol)



OK, here's my two cents on the matter... like most have said, take your time, and lots of lube. Also, using toys may help to stretch you, so the initial push doesn't hurt. Also, short strokes in and out, and this is one time that your partner MUST listen to you. If you say OUT! then he needs to draw back and then try again when you relax.

Before all of you Dom types get your knickers in a twist and shout to the heavens that you will take your slave/sub any damned way you please, and bedamned to what she wants, all I can say is, please stay away from me! I am trying to help someone who says she wants to do this, learn the best way to achieve it.

Anal is all about trust, about giving up that one special part of yourself, and it involves time and patience. Spend time with JUST toys, and no person-to person penetration at first. It makes a difference. Have your master make you wear anal plugs for a specified time period...that's amazingly fun! For instance, he might require you to wear one while you are online...no plug, no 'net!

Another thing, many, many women have inverted uteruses (uterii? whatever!) and or fibroids, endometriosis, etc. Also, after childbirth, it can change things down there, so what was pleasureable becomes horrifically painful. This is what happened to me, I can be penetrated, but I can't take the ol' in and out. It hits a fibroid tumor, and the pain is excruciating...definitely NOT the "hurts so good" variety that I used to enjoy!

OP, anal can be immense fun. It can also allow proctologists wives to vacation on the Riviera if done incorrectly. Trust the person you are with, if you have the slightest doubt about him, don't do it. Practice by yourself when you are feeling particularly randy, and see what happens.



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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/26/2009 2:40:44 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

It's not about stretching. It is about domination.

If my dick is in your ass, I AM dominating you.


Jeff

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If my dick is in your ass, I AM dominating you.


Interesting. Men seem to have a rather ... simplistic idea of domination.

Just my two Euro-cents.

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/26/2009 2:47:52 AM   
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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/26/2009 3:32:54 AM   
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ORIGINAL: NihilusZero

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

If my dick is in your ass, I AM dominating you.

So say plenty of testosterone-oriented folks who, in a prior thread, could not conceive of how someone could be dominant and enjoy being penetrated by his male or female submissive partner.

Personally, my dominance spreads (no pun intended) a bit wider in expanse than simply to who's penetrating who.



Well said NihilusZero. I don't consider a boy penetrating me in any way a dominance over me.

Dominance and submission happen between the ears and then is played out between the bodies however we see fit.

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/26/2009 4:37:52 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MsSavra




Interesting. Men seem to have a rather ... simplistic idea of domination.

Just my two Euro-cents.



It's interesting you would draw that conclusion from a single post.

Jeff

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/26/2009 6:37:46 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

Hello Aswad, so nice to see you here. Happy Winter to you and yours, blessings, sunshine


Hey, long time no see. I do have PM, yanno.

Thanks, and we wish you an excellent season, too, of course.

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/26/2009 6:40:40 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady

Long before I discovered the joys of BDSM, I discovered the thrills of anal sex. The majority of my female friends who are "vanilla" also enjoy anal sex. Guess you just hung out with the wrong girls.


(At least initially) without discovering the joys of BDSM, the catholics where I live discovered the thrills of anal and oral. It started going downhill, but then the bishop found out and made sure to let it be known that this was also considered to be premarital sex. Then they all went back to being grumpy and attending confessional more often.

Incidentally, it may alternately be that the girls he hung with had hung out with the wrong boys.

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/26/2009 6:43:16 AM   
Aswad


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Status: offline 		Simplistic thinking is contagious, Jeff.

You did wear a mask and wash your hands after posting, right?

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/26/2009 7:04:33 AM   
Jeffff


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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/26/2009 7:31:33 AM   
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Status: offline 		Master introduced me to the fun of anal. He was patient, calm, and took plenty of time playing with toys, lube, etc, not moving too fast on any of it, lots of praise. It REALLY turned me on to submit to Him in this way, as others have said, I had to trust, relax, let go.

It didn't take long before I had my first triple orgasm, and then well, I was more than ready to move forward and upgrade from toys to His cock.  I even found myself grinding against Him when we were cuddling, my body wanted it even before my brain decided.

So what's the big deal? Honestly, a triple orgasm is a REALLY big deal, not to be missed, turns me into a complete puddle of panting shaking red faced girl.   

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/26/2009 8:33:45 AM   
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Status: offline 		As an owned and collared sub I feel it is my duty to make all of my body available to my Master and that includes my ass. He wants it stretched to accomodate his fist and we are almost there, I have recently been fisted by a woman and am looking forward to the day when he can get his fist in me.

We started with small plugs and worked up in size, often keeping them in place all night. It could be quite painful at times but I know it will be worth it, it is the most fantastic feeling to give myself to him completely and I know it gives him so much pleasure.

Persevere with it, you will both enjoy the result!!

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RE: Is everyone anal ? - 12/26/2009 9:12:59 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MsSavra
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If my dick is in your ass, I AM dominating you.


Interesting. Men seem to have a rather ... simplistic idea of domination.


Yep. We men are remarkably simple beasts.

It is our most redeeming feature.

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