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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/5/2010 1:05:55 PM   
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The r/K thing usually comes up in debates on monogamy vs. poly in it's various forms, social monogamy, polygyny, polyandry, fucking around in general, etc., but it seemed relevant here.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/5/2010 4:11:16 PM   
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Oy - my brain hurts!!!!!

I have always wished that I could have gone to university, but it's discussions like these that make me remember why.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/5/2010 4:13:46 PM   
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This thread has been pretty amazing on so many levels, no? Intellect is hot. When used for good and not evil, of course.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/5/2010 4:15:13 PM   
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Yeah, or so you say.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/5/2010 4:34:29 PM   
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Yeah, or so you say.

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I do say so.
Elementary, dear Ron.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/5/2010 4:50:16 PM   
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Hey gorgeous Red, and Dapper Ron....looks like things may have simmered down a bit;) How was everyone's day? Hopefully we have ceased the ugliest part of this thread.

Also, Aswad, most welcome and I did read the siggested passages. .

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/5/2010 4:55:53 PM   
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Hey gorgeous Red, and Dapper Ron....looks like things may have simmered down a bit;) How was everyone's day? Hopefully we have ceased the ugliest part of this thread.

Also, Aswad, most welcome and I did read the siggested passages. .


Hi sweetness!! Yes, we are trying to have big fun now. In fact, I was just chatting with one the hottie posters here and we would love start a thread based solely on hot. What do you suggest?

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/5/2010 6:04:39 PM   
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Hey gorgeous Red, and Dapper Ron....looks like things may have simmered down a bit;) How was everyone's day? Hopefully we have ceased the ugliest part of this thread.

Also, Aswad, most welcome and I did read the siggested passages. .


Hi sweetness!! Yes, we are trying to have big fun now. In fact, I was just chatting with one the hottie posters here and we would love start a thread based solely on hot. What do you suggest?


A fun thread based on naughty Hotness? Jaysus I say we need it. We can derail this ugliness and party on right here if you like? My new mentor in naughty deviance is the oh so smoking Ebony Wood, he has very creative ideas. . Of course no derailing threads on hot is complete without Ron too, so let's turn this frown upside down! You know where to fine me! *smooches and spanks*
Of course we could relocate, I'm easy that way. .


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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/5/2010 6:21:30 PM   
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Not a clue how the quotes feature works, but having been reading this thread from the conception.

Not only has it got way off topic.

But a lot of people here are using a novel, to say what most could say in a sentence.

Yes you may confuse some of us that are not philisophically minded, but im sure a lot just scroll past.

Oh and back to an earlier entry. Mensa is over 143, or was when i took up membership. And involves exam conditions, not taking an online IQ test. Hell on those my results vary from moron to genius.

I would also agree that common sense and communication have nothing to do with intelligence.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/5/2010 6:45:59 PM   
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Stanford-Binet is 132, and the Cattell is 148. There are actually several tests that can gain you acceptance, but you have to score in the top 2%. I have not looked in a while, but it should be easy enough to Google.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/5/2010 6:48:06 PM   
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I don't think anyone is really making any effort to understand what I mean, and I think many people are very intentionally reading my posts with malign intent, seeking to distort, twist and ridicule everything I say.

Jaysus.  You sound like someone on the end of a meth bender.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/5/2010 6:51:18 PM   
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Thanks Orion. will admit not heard of either of those, but having a mother who was a mensa member hardly surprising.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/5/2010 6:52:06 PM   
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FYI

"IQ" has become pretty much meaningless nowadays due to the difficulty in getting consistency in testing &/or scoring. This makes anything except an estimate of your deviation from "normal" IQ moot.

I'm not "educamated" to the degree of many here. I'm not as well-read as many here. My "IQ scores" have varied so far as 62 points & I've been accused of "cheating". *rolls eyes*

Bottom line? It doesn't matter what your intelligence tests at, at whatever age. It doesn't matter what that piece of paper hanging on your wall says about how educated you are. What does matter is what you DO with what you have.

I'd rather be a dumb doer than a smart talker.

G'night, ya'll.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/5/2010 7:04:53 PM   
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319 bitches




area code, so?

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/5/2010 7:10:26 PM   
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Hi Kimveri,

I have to agree, my sons scores are stupidly high, yet he didnt have formal education, was taught by me at home.

The 2 lessons, he thanks me for are common sense and communication.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/5/2010 7:13:54 PM   
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Hi Kimveri,

I have to agree, my sons scores are stupidly high, yet he didnt have formal education, was taught by me at home.

The 2 lessons, he thanks me for are common sense and communication.


In schools when they assess a child, they use I think 4 different measurement tests.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/5/2010 7:15:23 PM   
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Thanks Orion. will admit not heard of either of those, but having a mother who was a mensa member hardly surprising.

Back around '94 or so you could also qualify based on you Verbal and Quantitative scores from the GRE.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/5/2010 7:18:50 PM   
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Back from work so now I have time...

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I thought it was obvious that not all pragmatic actions are ethical.  Sometimes the pragmatic thing to do is shoot someone in cold blood and hide the body.  That's pretty much never ethical.  There is plenty of overlap in a Venn diagram of the ethical and the pragmatic, but there's plenty of non-overlapping space too.


You have a valid point there, but that's on the level of personal interaction. Group dynamics tend to be different than interpersonal dynamics and so it's possible that on a group or societal level an action could be taken that might be ethical when attempting to govern masses of people acting as large groups that would be unethical when performed by an individual.

If the execution of convicted murderers actually does have a deterrent effect and greatly reduces the  murder rate in a country then if, as the ruler, you are aware of this and make use of it, it could be considered ethical to kill all murderers - whereas for an individual it could be viewed as unethical as your single act of vengeance or vigilantism would not produce the same result.

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I could look at the example and say that if a police officer refused to apprehend, arrest and incarcerate a felon, he would be acting unethically. It would then seem to me we're using very different definitions of ethics.


Don't you mean the suspected felon?  And therein lies the problem.  Invariably the police must arrest some innocent people (and technically all people are innocent until proven guilty, which occurs long after arrest).  In some sense you're right, if a police officer refused to do his job he would be acting unethically, he would be violating a contract.  He agreed to do the job, society agrees to pay him.


Why "suspected"? We're not discussing the law or legal matters - there doesn't need to be the presumption of innocence in an ethical scenario. What if the police officer witnesses the murder and then attempts to apprehend the criminal? While the court might have to offer the murderer the benefit of reasonable doubt, the police officer knows he is guilty because he saw the crime. In this instance, if he acted to apprehend and arrest the felon, even to the point of using violence to prevent the murderer's escape, his actions could be viewed as ethical and if he refused to catch the murderer, I could say that he was acting unethically and not just from his refusal to perform his duty as a police officer.

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Imagine Jesus (i.e. an extreme pacifist) is absolute dictator of the entire world...


Actually, I view extreme pacifism as unethical, but I understand the point you're trying to make.

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Crime rules the streets.  Massive gangs become as powerful as nation states, subjecting billions to savage oppression.  Total Mad Max nightmare.  Why?  Because the Jesus response to any evil act by a citizen is to turn the other cheek when struck, to give the thief twice what he tries to steal, and to always forgive so long as his authority is recognized.  In other words he couldn't lift a hand to smite down evil and maintain order and the peace that comes with it.

The state by it's nature cannot be saintly, it must be godly.


My question is - why is the action the results in the optimal scenario viewed as unethical? Wouldn't refusing to perform that action if you knew it would result in the optimal scenario be unethical?

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And other moral quandaries arise when doing the moral thing would appear to have a clearly undesirable consequence.  The eternal conflict between right action and necessary action, between the ideal and the real, between the ethical and the pragmatic.


Again, my question is - if you know it will result in the undesirable consequence, how can it be the right action?

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When a police officer puts on the badge, he is no longer a normal person.  He becomes an agent of the state.  So while the actions he must perform as an agent of the state are unethical, they are not his actions in the strictest sense.  They are the actions of the state, he is merely the implement of the state.  In a sense the ethical police officer qua man behind the badge is most ethical when he is most submissive to the role.  When he places his own thoughts, needs, fears and desires  aside and adopts the mindset of an agent of the state, then he is doing something ethical that he can be proud of.


I don't know what they teach aspiring police officers in the ethics classes they have to take but I do know that in both basic training and in the classes you have to take in order to be commissioned as an officer, the entire thrust of the training given in the military is the exact opposite of that. That there is both a moral and legal obligation to speak out against injustice or violations of the rules of war (basically the agreed upon "military values") and that nothing can absolve you of this responsibility.

Thanks for the response.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/5/2010 7:20:08 PM   
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They assessed my son so well, that he was put in a special needs group.

his first teacher didnt like the fact he could read before he started school, so wouldnt teach him, said children could teach themselves.

i was called in because asked to fetch things from around the school beginning with the letter "C", he bought back a knife, fork and spoon.

She didnt like when he said thats cuttlery

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/5/2010 7:29:42 PM   
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They assessed my son so well, that he was put in a special needs group.

his first teacher didnt like the fact he could read before he started school, so wouldnt teach him, said children could teach themselves.

i was called in because asked to fetch things from around the school beginning with the letter "C", he bought back a knife, fork and spoon.

She didnt like when he said thats cuttlery

I cant say the same for my sons school. And he has Aspergers Syndrome. They appreciate him and his charm and talents.

But when they were measuring they had a breakdown of
Comprehension, Creative reasoning Also responsive reasoning.

There are many measures of intellect. On standardized testing my son ranks above 95% in math, reading and science. However, he still is deficit in social understanding, putting himself in others shoes and back and forth communication. My son can pontificate but never takes into account back and forth conversation.

Does that sound like anyone here?
(Im sure my son will find a place in a forum somewhere. Hes 11 and he was reading over my shoulder about ethics.)

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