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RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness - 1/24/2010 1:01:21 AM   
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this slave was only attracted to the 18-24 y/o men when she was 13-15. it has worked that way as this slave has aged...the most attractive men, to this slave have been at least 5-10 years OLDER than whatever her age has been.

Seconded.

For me, it all boils down to preference and compatibility. I've always (since I was very young) preferred the company of older men, and will continue to do so. It's more fun for me to be with a guy who has similar life experiences, and who knows just how cool those 80's "hair bands" really were, even if he won't admit it.

I think everyone should look for whatever floats their particular boat, and make no apologies for going after what they seek.




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RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness - 1/24/2010 2:19:58 AM   
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Well i wouldn't mind one of those 18 eyear olds, as long as they have their mouth taped up. We just don't speak the same language


ikr!

most guys ur age r lyk omg ur so hawt but rly we have nuffin 2 evn talk bout.

n they dun evn kno how 2 txt or facebk so how can we evn KIT?

gawd.

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RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness - 1/24/2010 2:38:53 AM   
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ikr!

most guys ur age r lyk omg ur so hawt but rly we have nuffin 2 evn talk bout.

n they dun evn kno how 2 txt or facebk so how can we evn KIT?

gawd.


You should be shot then riverdance kicked to death for that. 

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RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness - 1/24/2010 5:02:49 AM   
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Oh sure, go ahead and pick Helen Mirren who is like one of hottest older babes around, that bar is raised pretty high! LOL


I'm sure, in another 40 or so years, when you reach her age, you'll still be gorgeous as well.

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Off topic, but OMG, did you see her tonight on the SAG awards? stunning .... I wanna be her ...


No, I didn't get to see the telecast, but I have no doubt she looked great. Awesome genes!

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When she played in shadowboxer I wanted to jump her.


I wanted to do so when I saw her in Excalibur...... and in Calendar Girls....... and in pretty much anything else she's been in

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RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness - 1/24/2010 8:59:53 AM   
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Status: offline 		There is nothing more natural than to find pretty young women to be desirable.  While i am definitely attracted to women my own age, i think that even they would admit that they would give anything to have the knowledge and experience that they have now, but the body that they had when they were 21.

Young girls are hot.  There's nothing perverted about admitting that.  (No, i don't mean 10 year olds.  Get your mind out of the gutter).  When i watch a college football game and see those 18-22 year old cheerleaders dancing on the sidelines, i admire their beauty.  i don't feel guilty about that.

Recently i dated a 22 year old.  She was gorgeous, and had an incredible body.  But mentally, she couldn't stimulate me the way women my own age can.  We just weren't at the same place mentally.  She wanted to go out and party all of the time, and i just don't have the energy (or desire) to do that anymore.  The sex was great, but the relationship was doomed to failure. 

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RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness - 1/24/2010 9:10:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		I am 16 years older than my female partner.  We meet when she was 21.  That was 10 years ago in a few weeks.  I wasn't looking for a 21 year old then anymore than I am now.  She jokingly calls me her dirt old man. She made a remark a few weeks about about how I get older but the girls who I attract stay the same age.  I can't begin to explain why.

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RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness - 1/24/2010 2:16:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		I always tend to think of age as nothing more than a number. I don't know how one can limit one's attractions to just a certain age group. One might prefer a certain age group, but I think attractiveness can be found in all ages. Some of it might also have to do with the individual. Some work at it and stay attractive into their 40s and 50s, and might even look more attractive than some who are still in their 20s and 30s.

I suppose there might also be some practical considerations, especially when one reaches the point where he realizes that he's not as young as he used to be, but not quite ready to put out to pasture yet. Sometimes, I admit that I may be a bit self-conscious about that, but I guess it's all part of growing up. ;)


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RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness - 1/24/2010 4:37:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		I've never seen your premise to be true.

Most men I know of all ages, all seem to find young women between 18-24 to be the most attractive and with good cause...still pliable, moldable, naive, tight fit bods, still in the experimentational, wild side of their lives, still free, not a lot of burdens, etc...

Now the women I know...it has always varied wildly depending on their situation and station in life.

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RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness - 1/24/2010 4:47:09 PM   
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Maturity isn't the only issue with dating young women. 18-20something year olds are going through a lot of "what the hell am I doing with my life" transitions, and most 40 and 50something year olds aren't (hopefully). I'm definitely attracted to older men (they're better in bed), but one of the problems I constantly run up against is just that we're in entirely different stages of our lives.


This is exactly my feeling as well.
I have met plenty of wonderful young women (that is, younger than 30) and no matter how intelligent, mature, witty and charming they might be, we are separated by a mountain- they are jut beginning that upward arc of getting established in their lives, looking ahead to the climb of of starting a familiy, settling into their careers and so forth.
I am on the other side of that- my son is an adult, my career is settled, and the next big arc of my life concerns grandchildren and retirement, not new babies and new careers.

Its not that they don't understand- its that our lives are moving in separate directions. And it isn't to say that other men my age might find a different answer; but we all choose our paths, and mine doesn't fit together with someone who is on the other side of the mountain.

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RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness - 1/24/2010 5:10:08 PM   
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So, as one gets older, the sorts of people that one is attracted to is supposed to get older, as well.

What's a good solution for when they don't? What is one supposed to do when one discovers, 15 years on down, that one still only tends to find 18-24 year olds attractive?




Pray that the 18-24 year olds still find YOU attractive too lol



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RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness - 1/24/2010 6:00:09 PM   
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You should be shot then riverdance kicked to death for that. 


lulz ilu2bb <3<3


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RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness - 1/24/2010 7:10:10 PM   
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You should be shot then riverdance kicked to death for that. 


lulz ilu2bb <3<3




Lucky for you I dont know anyone with one of these planes and some liquid manure. Umm when were you planning on visiting the states again?
We have a go on operation patty drop.  




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RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness - 1/25/2010 1:40:27 AM   
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Maturity isn't the only issue with dating young women. 18-20something year olds are going through a lot of "what the hell am I doing with my life" transitions, and most 40 and 50something year olds aren't (hopefully). I'm definitely attracted to older men (they're better in bed), but one of the problems I constantly run up against is just that we're in entirely different stages of our lives.


This is exactly my feeling as well.
I have met plenty of wonderful young women (that is, younger than 30) and no matter how intelligent, mature, witty and charming they might be, we are separated by a mountain- they are jut beginning that upward arc of getting established in their lives, looking ahead to the climb of of starting a familiy, settling into their careers and so forth.
I am on the other side of that- my son is an adult, my career is settled, and the next big arc of my life concerns grandchildren and retirement, not new babies and new careers.

Its not that they don't understand- its that our lives are moving in separate directions. And it isn't to say that other men my age might find a different answer; but we all choose our paths, and mine doesn't fit together with someone who is on the other side of the mountain.


Exactly what I meant. Thanks - that's a really good way to put it. And frankly, I think that there's something lost if that young person isn't allowed to explore the climb up the mountain from their own perspective. My previous (and first) Dom wanted to make a lot of decisions for me, since he had already gone through what I was going through, as far as mountains go. I realized that I didn't want someone else "helping me" skip major life events, just because he was done with them.

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RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness - 1/25/2010 3:06:28 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Ialdabaoth

So, as one gets older, the sorts of people that one is attracted to is supposed to get older, as well.

What's a good solution for when they don't? What is one supposed to do when one discovers, 15 years on down, that one still only tends to find 18-24 year olds attractive?




This is why at 40 (ish)  your eyes will start deteriorating... just hang on in there till then and the other sex of any age will start looking more beautiful...

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RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness - 1/25/2010 4:55:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		well crap..enjoy what you can get...be it young or old. frankly. it should not be a problem.

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RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness - 1/26/2010 6:38:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm 36 years old, and still get asked occasionally which high school I attend, or when I'm going to graduate. I know a lot of women, especially Asians, whose faces and figures barely change at all from 18 until well into their 30's or 40's. So, choosing someone who looks young but is the same age as you are is one option. Nothing wrong with considering younger people, but if you know that you'll stop being attracted to them as soon as they reach 25, don't get into any committed relationships (or at least tell them it'll be short term). Some younger folks are specifically looking for a shorter-term relationship, just while they're in college, because they plan to move away, or simply don't want to get into anything serious just yet.

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RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness - 1/26/2010 7:38:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Ialdabaoth

So, as one gets older, the sorts of people that one is attracted to is supposed to get older, as well.

What's a good solution for when they don't? What is one supposed to do when one discovers, 15 years on down, that one still only tends to find 18-24 year olds attractive?



I came across a quote the other day that made me chuckle and think of this thread...

"Honey, you're kind of old for me"  -Madonna,51, on the prospect of dating Ryan Seacrest,35.

I like younger men...I enjoy their zest and newness, the fresh perspective so many have towards so many different things.  I'm no Madonna and I really have no desire to deny my age,43, ...or act it sometimes...but there is something to be said for that fresh energy I get from the young ones!



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RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness - 1/26/2010 11:29:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		Btw, why is 25 the year after hot? Geez. Trying not to take it personally that I've apparently just stopped being a hot young thing

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RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness - 1/26/2010 11:32:12 PM   
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Btw, why is 25 the year after hot? Geez. Trying not to take it personally that I've apparently just stopped being a hot young thing


You know, that's an interesting question too.  I worked it to my advantage.  In my group of friends, I was always the "baby" of the group.  Then, something cliqued at 25...  It was no longer "*sigh* I'm younger than everyone...", but suddenly, "HA!  I'm younger than all of you!"


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RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness - 1/26/2010 11:51:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		then u find someone who finds older men attractive. there are plenty out there i know as i am one. if ur attracted to younger age thats ok.

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