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Domin8tingUrDrmz -> RE: I wrote everything in my profile and journal (1/28/2010 1:10:58 PM)

She obviously can't have a discussion with him about her opinions of said profile, that would require him to listen to her which would be submitting to reading her text [8|].

So, based on everything I've read from him, her next step would be to say, in the most subliest manner of course:
"I've read your profile as you requested. I am available for you on your command." Without getting to know if she actually likes him or not...because he doesn't want her to like him...blah blah blah.




osf -> RE: I wrote everything in my profile and journal (1/28/2010 1:15:03 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Domin8tingUrDrmz

She obviously can't have a discussion with him about her opinions of said profile, that would require him to listen to her which would be submitting to reading her text [8|].

So, based on everything I've read from him, her next step would be to say, in the most subliest manner of course:
"I've read your profile as you requested. I am available for you on your command." Without getting to know if she actually likes him or not...because he doesn't want her to like him...blah blah blah.



where did that come from?
not drop names but i've had private correspondence with several here and i don't think i was anything but pleasant and polite




WinsomeDefiance -> RE: I wrote everything in my profile and journal (1/28/2010 1:18:21 PM)

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ORIGINAL: osf

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or communicate with a slave.  He's remarked on several occaisions that any requests from submissives are taken as a form of topping from the bottom and that he seems to believe that indulging a submissive's curiosity/need for information is seen as an attempt at forcing service from him.

His target is a very specific submissive subset.  He seems to want someone who will not tax him in the communication department.  Without imposing ones own methods upon him, the equation seems to be simple.  How does he expect to get from A(his search) to Z(his goal) with minimal effort/communication? 

I'm genuinely curious what his expectations ARE - once he does get their attention, and they have read his profile.  Whatever those intentions are (whether any of us agree with them) are what would serve him best in his profile/journal, instead of/in additon to the 15,000 word essay on what he believes D/s to be about.

So, he's attracted a no-limits slave, who is interested in what he's put on the tabe, who has obediently done as she's told (read his journal)....what is his NEXT requirement/expectation of her...


actually the kind i like is very inquisitive and its an enjoyable experience to actually talk to them, for me that is


Ok, taking you at your word and discounting your past posts that implied differently, you still have not answered the question.  Hmm..perhaps if I word it differently?

Dear OSF,  you darling cantankerous bastard.  I've found your journal to be intriguing, and have read it as you requested.  If I was a slave interested in garnering your majectic attention, and be still my heart, hope to win your ownership, what next?




Domin8tingUrDrmz -> RE: I wrote everything in my profile and journal (1/28/2010 1:21:58 PM)

That came from reading entirely too many threads you've started.




osf -> RE: I wrote everything in my profile and journal (1/28/2010 1:22:30 PM)

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Dear OSF,  you darling cantankerous bastard.  I've found your journal to be intriguing, and have read it as you requested.  If I was a slave interested in garnering your majectic attention, and be still my heart, hope to win your ownership, what next?


usually what i get is they find it interesting to fascinating from the ones it was written for

and i ask them what and why they think that, it's a open conversation, i don't put words in their mouth or shut them up




WinsomeDefiance -> RE: I wrote everything in my profile and journal (1/28/2010 1:28:21 PM)

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ORIGINAL: osf

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Dear OSF,  you darling cantankerous bastard.  I've found your journal to be intriguing, and have read it as you requested.  If I was a slave interested in garnering your majectic attention, and be still my heart, hope to win your ownership, what next?


usually what i get is they find it interesting to fascinating from the ones it was written for

and i ask them what and why they think that, it's a open conversation, i don't put words in their mouth or shut them up


Ok.  So you are being successful in your approach.  You didn't come here to whine or complain.  Then I'm assuming what you were looking for was not advise but validation.

"Good Job OSF!  You are correct and wise and on the right track.  Any creature that doesn't want to read your journal is an idiot."





osf -> RE: I wrote everything in my profile and journal (1/28/2010 1:31:08 PM)

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"Good Job OSF!  You are correct and wise and on the right track.  Any creature that doesn't want to read your journal is an idiot."


i never said that nor would i

i just really understand my target audience

why do you think i wrote that monstrosity and keep adding to it if it wasn't working?

some think im stupid


and during the time this discussion has been going on i have received several emails of support

a lot of women email me because they dislike posting here




Domin8tingUrDrmz -> RE: I wrote everything in my profile and journal (1/28/2010 1:34:12 PM)

If you weren't posting this thread to bitch or whine, weren't seeking validation, then why exactly DID you start this thread?




osf -> RE: I wrote everything in my profile and journal (1/28/2010 1:36:18 PM)

lolololol

for just the reason i stated above

i get noticed by those i want to get noticed by lololololol


i get a surprising amount of hits from dommes, and some emails of support for my ideas




Domin8tingUrDrmz -> RE: I wrote everything in my profile and journal (1/28/2010 1:38:55 PM)

Ok. To seek attention as stated by another poster earlier on. Gotcha.




WinsomeDefiance -> RE: I wrote everything in my profile and journal (1/28/2010 1:42:35 PM)

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ORIGINAL: osf

(snip) and during the time this discussion has been going on i have received several emails of support

a lot of women email me because they dislike posting here


I know.  You've already stated before in another thread that you play games on this side, to get attention and support on the other. 





LillyoftheVally -> RE: I wrote everything in my profile and journal (1/28/2010 1:43:10 PM)


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ORIGINAL: osf

and some emails of support for my ideas


I can't help but wonder what your ideas are Osf. I don't mean to be rude, but as you did start this thread to get people to mail you I am sure you won't mind clarifying.

Which is it, do you want a submissive who doesn't talk or do you want an open exchange, are you a misogynist or do you actually like women? Which is you and which is a persona? I am genuinely interested.




osf -> RE: I wrote everything in my profile and journal (1/28/2010 1:44:03 PM)


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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

quote:

ORIGINAL: osf

(snip) and during the time this discussion has been going on i have received several emails of support

a lot of women email me because they dislike posting here


I know.  You've already stated before in another thread that you play games on this side, to get attention and support on the other. 




it's the truth and it works for me




xxblushesxx -> RE: I wrote everything in my profile and journal (1/28/2010 1:45:26 PM)


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ORIGINAL: osf
a lot of women email me because they dislike posting here


You say this often. Can you please have some of these subly wimmens come forward and tell us why they dislike posting here so much?

Besides that, I *think* I understand what you are saying; you ARE getting a response, but the people who are responding (for the most part) are not the fish you hoped to hook?

It's possible you may have to change the bait!!

I do appreciate the fact that you have changed the bait a bit, and your posts are definitely not as inflamatory as in the past. There may be hope for you yet!

maybe...




LillyoftheVally -> RE: I wrote everything in my profile and journal (1/28/2010 1:45:43 PM)


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ORIGINAL: osf
it's the truth and it works for me


Oh oh, sorry greedy with the asking things now, but if it works for you how come you are single?




EbonyWood -> RE: I wrote everything in my profile and journal (1/28/2010 1:49:35 PM)

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ORIGINAL: osf


and during the time this discussion has been going on i have received several emails of support



They really only want to talk to the goose.
 
Looks delicious by the way.




osf -> RE: I wrote everything in my profile and journal (1/28/2010 1:51:36 PM)


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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx


quote:

ORIGINAL: osf
a lot of women email me because they dislike posting here


You say this often. Can you please have some of these subly wimmens come forward and tell us why they dislike posting here so much?

Besides that, I *think* I understand what you are saying; you ARE getting a response, but the people who are responding (for the most part) are not the fish you hoped to hook?

It's possible you may have to change the bait!!

I do appreciate the fact that you have changed the bait a bit, and your posts are definitely not as inflamatory as in the past. There may be hope for you yet!

maybe...



i already have




AquaticSub -> RE: I wrote everything in my profile and journal (1/28/2010 1:52:37 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: osf

and during the time this discussion has been going on i have received several emails of support

a lot of women email me because they dislike posting here


Ahhh... so this how you find chicks? [;)]

Seriously, so what? So you got e-mails from people who agree with you. Guess what, I get them all the time too. That doesn't make any point of view right or wrong. I bet you could make a thread spouting some racist crap and you'd still get some supporters in private. It's pretty easy to agree with something when no one else is looking.




osf -> RE: I wrote everything in my profile and journal (1/28/2010 1:52:39 PM)



quote:

ORIGINAL: EbonyWood

quote:

ORIGINAL: osf


and during the time this discussion has been going on i have received several emails of support



They really only want to talk to the goose.
 
Looks delicious by the way.


i need all the help i can get, and she gets extra grapes




AquaticSub -> RE: I wrote everything in my profile and journal (1/28/2010 1:53:43 PM)

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ORIGINAL: osf

lolololol

for just the reason i stated above

i get noticed by those i want to get noticed by lololololol


i get a surprising amount of hits from dommes, and some emails of support for my ideas


Thanks for the confirmation that this is just an ad. Are you aware it's TOS to put those here?




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