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RE: can you own a Dominant - 2/5/2010 7:32:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		ok, i've decided i don't want to own a dominant

can i trade mine in for a submissive?

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RE: can you own a Dominant - 2/5/2010 7:34:59 PM   
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RE: can you own a Dominant - 2/5/2010 7:38:56 PM   
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RE: can you own a Dominant - 2/5/2010 7:42:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

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if a Dominant can feel that theyre sub or slave belongs to them, can a slave or sub feel that her Dominant belongs to her.


Not to get caught up in semantics, belonging is very different than owning. When I've been in great D/s dynamics, I felt we belonged together. My heart did belong to him, there is no doubt.

Ownership is a whole other story, and I'll probably ruffle some feathers because though I feel it is a very romantic notion to think that we can own someone, we never really do, no matter what side of the kneel we are.

- LA


I agree completely. In fact, when my ex used to say "Your mine and I own you" I would say "yes, and you are mine and I own you as well" and he agreed. I think that it fell into the possessiveness route and that tends to happen with me and my partners. I like it.

So, perhaps we said all that in passion but it was still meaningful at the time.

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RE: can you own a Dominant - 2/5/2010 7:45:00 PM   
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somehow i don't think rs takes me seriously.

or he stays away from taken peoples

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RE: can you own a Dominant - 2/5/2010 7:48:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Kana

Step right up folks, get your Resident Sadist here.
The one, the only, the inimitable
Red hot.
Fresh off the presses
The hound of the mound
The sultan of suffering
The Emir of ecstasy
The grand poo-bah who'll treat you like vichyssoise
Step right up and make your offer now
You'll never regret it.





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RE: can you own a Dominant - 2/5/2010 7:52:32 PM   
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RE: can you own a Dominant - 2/5/2010 7:56:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

I gave this topic very deep thought. In searching for the answer, I looked inward carefully. After much mediation and introspection I am lead to the spiritual crux of the matter and it leaves me with one nagging question:


How much are you offering?

If your offer is substantial enough . . . you could own me.



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RE: can you own a Dominant - 2/5/2010 8:02:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Kana

Ok, you might regret it
The purchase in question is a sadist after all


Well now, Kana...  you met my Dom last year.  He's a Sadist as well.  I don't think I'd regret it.

(but I'm just kinda wired painslutty like that) 

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RE: can you own a Dominant - 2/5/2010 8:02:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Kana

All I need is your routing # and permission to access from Ghana
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RE: can you own a Dominant - 2/5/2010 8:04:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Whiplashsmile4
How much are you offering?

If your offer is substantial enough . . . you could own me.



Thinking about becoming a Cross Over Artist?

Nope, just selling the same old act. It's the snazzy new marketing that must have impressed you.

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RE: can you own a Dominant - 2/5/2010 8:07:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

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ORIGINAL: Whiplashsmile4
How much are you offering?

If your offer is substantial enough . . . you could own me.



Thinking about becoming a Cross Over Artist?
Nope, just selling the same old act. It's the snazzy new marketing that must have impressed you.





The technical term is repositioning.

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RE: can you own a Dominant - 2/5/2010 8:07:35 PM   
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Nope, just selling the same old act. It's the snazzy new marketing that must have impressed you.


And that "new Sadist" smell... 

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RE: can you own a Dominant - 2/5/2010 8:09:40 PM   
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There is no ownership, on either side of the kneel. Period. End of story.

So now that we've eliminated fantasy, let's talk about reality.


I'm definitely on the side of reality..but who's reality? Surely you don't think you speak for all of us do you? That would be a fantasy alright..One that would be easily disproved.

Ownership of another person is about the mind not about whether or not it's legitimate legality. When a female feels she has no choice in her mind but to stay with an individual..Meaning she feels powerless to leave or the very idea isn't in her head..no matter what you do..You own that person from the inside and out.

My relationships have vanilla similarities for sure but to what degree?

The idea is romantic but it can be more than just a fantasy.. based solely on how much weight the two or more people involved place emphasis on the concept..If you put your heart into something it can become more that just fantasy..It can and will become reality.

If it's not a reality for you and you can't conceive how it could be for others..No problem..It doesn't matter in the scheme of things relating to what others think.



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RE: can you own a Dominant - 2/5/2010 8:12:38 PM   
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RE: can you own a Dominant - 2/5/2010 8:25:10 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Icarys

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There is no ownership, on either side of the kneel. Period. End of story.

So now that we've eliminated fantasy, let's talk about reality.


Ownership of another person is about the mind not about whether or not it's legitimate legality. When a female feels she has no choice in her mind but to stay with an individual..Meaning she feels powerless to leave or the very idea isn't in her head..no matter what you do..You own that person from the inside and out.



Exactly.

Thank you.


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RE: can you own a Dominant - 2/5/2010 8:59:29 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

Nope, just selling the same old act. It's the snazzy new marketing that must have impressed you.


And that "new Sadist" smell... 


Hey, How did a sample of my soon to be marketed sweat sneak out pre-release?

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RE: can you own a Dominant - 2/5/2010 9:07:00 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Kana

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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

Nope, just selling the same old act. It's the snazzy new marketing that must have impressed you.


And that "new Sadist" smell... 


Hey, How did a sample of my soon to be marketed sweat sneak out pre-release?


ummmmm.......... ummmmm........... 

LOOK!!!  sparklies!!!  

(Rule 1: create a diversion)

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RE: can you own a Dominant - 2/5/2010 9:09:07 PM   
Kana


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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

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ORIGINAL: Kana

quote:

ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

Nope, just selling the same old act. It's the snazzy new marketing that must have impressed you.


And that "new Sadist" smell... 


Hey, How did a sample of my soon to be marketed sweat sneak out pre-release?


ummmmm.......... ummmmm........... 

LOOK!!!  sparklies!!!  

(Rule 1: create a diversion)



Rule #1-Deny, deny, deny
Rule #2-When in doubt, refer to rule #1

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RE: can you own a Dominant - 2/5/2010 9:25:28 PM   
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Can a sub own a Dominant.
 
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