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ORIGINAL: Fitznicely

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First of all, she (unlike the fakes and scammers) came clean and apparently it was taken well. Secondly not all men are good at written expression; some need a little help. Would you really want to pass someone up simply because he couldn't get the words down on paper (so-to-speak) well? She isn't going to write the messages for them just show how to say things that will get these men some positive responses. Nothing wrong with that.

If one woman - one woman - can put her hand on her heart and say she's never thought "these guys need fucking help", they're liars too. Now someone's in the position to help, and everyone's flaming her. I mean sheesh girls, c'mon. You want Doms to be consistent? Your turn

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ORIGINAL: EbonyWood

Your sexuality isn't the only thing that's going to make us men want to talk to women either.

Well, not this particular man.

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ORIGINAL: Level

I find that I get an even better response when I include pics of my giant cock .

It's not that hard; don't be a dick. Don't be weird. That'll eliminate an awful lot of obstacles in getting a response from someone, and from there on, it's a matter of chemistry.

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probably should avoid creating confrontational situations like this.

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ORIGINAL: jujubeeMB

By the way, I'm not going to post any of the email that I wrote because frankly, I'm scared to death of the people who are furious right now [:)] I hope that those who think I did huge amounts of damage can at least appreciate the fact that I've treated them respectfully even after getting steadily flamed. You don't have to like me, but I would appreciate not being treated like I've committed some sort of crime. No one likes to be tricked, I'll grant you, and that's the part of this that I apologized for. But it wasn't a gigantic trick - how many emails a day do women get on this site? It's not as if a lonely sub was sitting staring at her empty mailbox for the last year and my email reawakened her passion for living. These were confident, attractive women who can pick and choose who they respond to. It was a poorly executed experiment, I'll grant you, with very little scientific promise, but I did prove my point.

Thank you to those who disagree with me but who are still trying to be civil. I admit I'm overly sensitive to being the target of this much anger and probably should avoid creating confrontational situations like this.

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ORIGINAL: Level

jujubee's nice notes? I think her 100% rating would have plummeted through the floor. [:)]

My nice notes? Winners, one and all. [:D]

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ORIGINAL: jujubeeMB

By the way, I'm not going to post any of the email that I wrote because frankly, I'm scared to death of the people who are furious right now [:)] I hope that those who think I did huge amounts of damage can at least appreciate the fact that I've treated them respectfully even after getting steadily flamed. You don't have to like me, but I would appreciate not being treated like I've committed some sort of crime. No one likes to be tricked, I'll grant you, and that's the part of this that I apologized for. But it wasn't a gigantic trick - how many emails a day do women get on this site? It's not as if a lonely sub was sitting staring at her empty mailbox for the last year and my email reawakened her passion for living. These were confident, attractive women who can pick and choose who they respond to. It was a poorly executed experiment, I'll grant you, with very little scientific promise, but I did prove my point.

Thank you to those who disagree with me but who are still trying to be civil. I admit I'm overly sensitive to being the target of this much anger and probably should avoid creating confrontational situations like this.

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ORIGINAL: wandersalone

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ORIGINAL: Level

jujubee's nice notes? I think her 100% rating would have plummeted through the floor. [:)]

My nice notes? Winners, one and all. [:D]

And I can say without a doubt that Level is one of the many males on this side whom I am always happy to receive a message from and I always reply.

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ORIGINAL: jujubeeMB
I hope that those who think I did huge amounts of damage can at least appreciate the fact that I've treated them respectfully even after getting steadily flamed. You don't have to like me, but I would appreciate not being treated like I've committed some sort of crime.

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It's not as if a lonely sub was sitting staring at her empty mailbox for the last year and my email reawakened her passion for living. These were confident, attractive women who can pick and choose who they respond to.

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I admit I'm overly sensitive to being the target of this much anger and probably should avoid creating confrontational situations like this.

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ORIGINAL: jujubeeMB

Thank you to those who disagree with me but who are still trying to be civil. I admit I'm overly sensitive to being the target of this much anger and probably should avoid creating confrontational situations like this.

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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

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probably should avoid creating confrontational situations like this.

If you are able to find a way to live with integrity, you will not have to struggle with these sort of situations

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ORIGINAL: jujubeeMB

I think that's the reason this thread is getting under my skin - I never lie to anyone, generally, and I've never done anything that was remotely like a trick. April Fool's Day makes me uncomfortable [:)] I consider myself someone with a lot of integrity, and I honestly didn't think that in the mass of email every woman receives mine was going to cause some giant upheaval of the universe.

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ORIGINAL: jujubeeMB

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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

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probably should avoid creating confrontational situations like this.

If you are able to find a way to live with integrity, you will not have to struggle with these sort of situations

I think that's the reason this thread is getting under my skin - I never lie to anyone, generally, and I've never done anything that was remotely like a trick. April Fool's Day makes me uncomfortable [:)] I consider myself someone with a lot of integrity, and I honestly didn't think that in the mass of email every woman receives mine was going to cause some giant upheaval of the universe. I still don't think it did - I think the only thing that caused any excitement was posting results on the message boards, where it's obviously (and rightly) become subject to opinion.

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ORIGINAL: EbonyWood

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ORIGINAL: jujubeeMB

Thank you to those who disagree with me but who are still trying to be civil. I admit I'm overly sensitive to being the target of this much anger and probably should avoid creating confrontational situations like this.

jujubee, I dont see too many people acting or speaking uncivilly. This is a debate, and FWIW, one that you ASKED for by posting this thread.
 
Ironically, you're starting to take a victim stance, which a lot of people are going to find a little hard to swallow.
 
Suck it up and defend your points if you need to, but you can't both be surprised at, AND previously expect reaction at the same time. The two positions cannot coexist.

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

Speaking of emails sent by men...I thought I would lighten up the mood. I just now got this winning email from a 21 year old male switch:

I'm not sure if you would be interested but have your ever thought of someone younger. I'm really interested in a mother son type dom feel where id tie mommy down and would eat here dripping wet pussy. If you are interested let me know Id love to chat.

You see, somehow I don't think a woman would have written THAT one, LOL

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: jujubeeMB

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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

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probably should avoid creating confrontational situations like this.

If you are able to find a way to live with integrity, you will not have to struggle with these sort of situations

I think that's the reason this thread is getting under my skin - I never lie to anyone, generally, and I've never done anything that was remotely like a trick. April Fool's Day makes me uncomfortable [:)] I consider myself someone with a lot of integrity, and I honestly didn't think that in the mass of email every woman receives mine was going to cause some giant upheaval of the universe. I still don't think it did - I think the only thing that caused any excitement was posting results on the message boards, where it's obviously (and rightly) become subject to opinion.

Do you really not see the hypocrisy of the above?