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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 11:38:24 AM

mnottertail

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ORIGINAL: kykitten41

I've no idea who you are talking about, and even if I did, I would not be inclined to discuss private email in public.

aww sorry bloved..didnt mean to insinuate you would confess..but she would~~~

Since I don't recall speaking with anyone in Kentucky I'm more inclined to believe this tale is invented.

YOU DON'T RECALL? YOU DON'T RECALL? What, were you just out there looking for a cheap casual mindless fuck?

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 11:38:43 AM

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err..BLoved dont make me get pinkangel on here to embarass your ass~~~she said that was her nicname..back then~~LOL

I have no correspondence on record with anyone by that name.

that sounds a lil stalkerish

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 11:40:43 AM

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Bob, I mean this in the kindest of ways, but you keep leading people to your "writings" and it isn't working for you. After 7 years,

Two-and-a-half years.

Oops, my apologies. I was doing the math (never my strong suit) and thought I remembered reading a couple years ago you saying that your wife had died 4 years ago. After a couple years of a few thousand posts, I get them confused sometimes.

2 1/2 years isn't so long. Not that I'd want to go without intamcy that long. That would suck. Seriously.

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 11:41:04 AM

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amazing how bob usually refuses to adress my posts.

sad, lonely man (of his own making)

same here.

oh and

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2 1/2 years isn't so long. Not that I'd want to go without intamcy that long. That would suck. Seriously.

when he had his last name here, this same fiasco went on and then he suddenly found his true love n left at that time.

now he is back. new name, that girl is gone...and voila.

bitchin he can't find true love again. I didn't forget that. Maybe some have? So that was a short term thing BOB? seems like it was only a year n some so were you in it for the cheap sex? cuz as far as I was taught 'true luv' lasts a lot longer than a year n some.

shrugs

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 11:43:46 AM

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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

~smile~
He's probably blocked you.
o.O

I am SO gonna email SB and ask him to smack you for that bob-ish smile...

and if he has blocked me (which I agree he has done),it's only because he can't address what I have said.. which gives lie to his assertation that he is NOT judgemental.

at this point I will stop.. ModSpanks not so good LOL

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 11:45:09 AM

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if someone recalls his last nik, find it and bring up his last farewell when he found the 'lady of his dreams' last time.

I forgot it.

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 11:45:56 AM

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Here is the deal. Bob's paradigm allows for only one way of life. Any other way is, at the very least false and at worse, dangerous. This is not negotiable.

That leaves only three choices when dealing with this. You can agree with him completely. you can ignore him, or you can mock him.

If you think about it, it makes things easier. most folks are more complex and require more thought.

Jeff

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 11:46:49 AM

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Jefff

pls don't make me think...it hurtssssssss

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 11:47:48 AM

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I vote for mocking him.

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 11:47:55 AM

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That's why there are so many wannabe anteaters around.

But Jeff's way ahead of them!

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 11:50:36 AM

juliaoceania

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And the plot thickens... will Bob answer Greedy Top?

Will he take Win's advice and email 20 women without profiles?

Will he get petulant when people get tired of this thread and move on to derail other threads to get attention...

and most intriguing of all, will a mysterious women from "the other side" come back to haunt his life on this side? Will she expose him as the vile villain he is for enjoying "casual BDSM"? Will she tell him that she got pregnant when she went by the name "pinkangel"? Maybe Bob left her because he had amnesia and "had no record of their correspondence" to jog his memory when he awakened. So he made a completely new identity called "bloved" because he could remember his password from so long ago

Oh, edited because I forgot

~smiles~

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 11:51:35 AM

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Stay tuned for another episode of....

As the Stomach Turns....

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 11:52:48 AM

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"the other side" come back to haunt his life on this side? Will she expose him as the vile villain he is for enjoying "casual BDSM"?

lol

all I know is that it wasn't me.

nor have I had a relationship in like a million years, so I guess that makes Bob more slutty than me....therefore a wannabe who gets laid more frequently. Sorry, but its true. (sad too lol)

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 11:52:53 AM

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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

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ORIGINAL: BLoved

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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance
Bob, I mean this in the kindest of ways, but you keep leading people to your "writings" and it isn't working for you. After 7 years,

Two-and-a-half years.

Oops, my apologies. I was doing the math (never my strong suit) and thought I remembered reading a couple years ago you saying that your wife had died 4 years ago. After a couple years of a few thousand posts, I get them confused sometimes.

2 1/2 years isn't so long. Not that I'd want to go without intamcy that long. That would suck. Seriously.

Indeed.

My wife died in 2006. I'd just started opening up to the possibility of romance when I lost my son in 2007.

I started looking again later in the summer of 2007 and I'm still looking.

I met someone in the fall of 2007, fell very much in love only to discover there were things about her that made a relationship impossible. Since the spring of 2008 I've been alone ... just me, the cats and the pups.

It seems there is no one from Ontario using this site who has achieved the emotional maturity to handle a loving bdsm relationship and who has resolved her trust issues sufficiently as to over come them.

At least, none of those with whom I've spoken and who are seeking.

The only ones I've spoken with who seem to have achieved both are those already in relationships (and they are encouraging me not to give up) and those from other countries (who also complain about the lack of choice in their areas).

I am not the only one with this difficulty.

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 11:53:20 AM

juliaoceania

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ORIGINAL: Musicmystery

Stay tuned for another episode of....

As the Stomach Turns....

No, that would be The Immature and the Restless....~smiles~

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 11:55:40 AM

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I met someone in the fall of 2007, fell very much in love only to discover there were things about her that made a relationship impossible. Since the spring of 2008 I've been alone ... just me, the cats and the pups.

It seems there is no one from Ontario using this site who has achieved the emotional maturity to handle a loving bdsm relationship and who has resolved her trust issues sufficiently as to over come them.

you realized that though AFTER you had your way with her for a while huh?

why didn't you even touch her, without putting the 'time and energy' into LOVE instead of uhh SEX.

I am in Ontario and have been here for years and NEVER met anyone from the site (that I didn't know already from work etc). So,...IMHO Bob, you are kinda a ..whore.

btw, I have no trust issues, just never decided to meet anyone because they didn't have what I looked for, simple. I didn't 'settle' because i NEEDED LOVE or I'd fall into a fit of depression. I trust men just fine, I also trust my instincts not to fall for hookin' up with someone that didn't add up from the get-go. Maybe you are bad a decision-making skills and decide to jump into things too quckly.

Hell, I don't even expect love and I take more time and care in my decision making when it comes to men. lol You, my friend, are EASY.

*k gotta edit again because I said I NEVER met anyone from here, well I just remembered, I did. lol

I went to Toronto by bus to clean some guy's home, then left

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 11:55:59 AM

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ORIGINAL: came4U

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"the other side" come back to haunt his life on this side? Will she expose him as the vile villain he is for enjoying "casual BDSM"?

lol

all I know is that it wasn't me.

nor have I had a relationship in like a million years, so I guess that makes Bob more slutty than me....therefore a wannabe who gets laid more frequently. Sorry, but its true. (sad too lol)

You are not a "wannabe".. you are a "wannabe laid"... big diff

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 11:56:24 AM

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

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ORIGINAL: Musicmystery

Stay tuned for another episode of....

As the Stomach Turns....

No, that would be The Immature and the Restless....~smiles~

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 11:58:12 AM

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Indeed.

My wife died in 2006. I'd just started opening up to the possibility of romance when I lost my son in 2007.

I started looking again later in the summer of 2007 and I'm still looking.

I met someone in the fall of 2007, fell very much in love only to discover there were things about her that made a relationship impossible. Since the spring of 2008 I've been alone ... just me, the cats and the pups.

Thaks for clarifying. I'm glad I remembered correctly, and was just missing out on that information about there being someone in your life since you first came on the boards in 2007.

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 3/1/2010 11:58:29 AM

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Ok, I know this request will be ignored, but I'm going to ask anyway, because if you don't ask you won't get.

Will you ALL PLEASE STOP ~SMILING~? Y'all are CREEPING ME OUT.

I know it's fun and everything, but you make me want to go and hide behind the sofa, and I HAVE NO SOFA.

So please, kind people: either buy me a sofa to crawl behind, or leave out the ~smiles~...

:-S

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